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Forced Feminization

Definition - What does Forced Feminization mean?

Forced feminization is a practice in which a dominant partner (of any gender) makes their male-identified submissive assume a feminized role. This can include being made to wear women's clothing, being called by a feminine name, being made to adopt feminine mannerisms, and being anally penetrated. Part of the fantasy is that the submissive partner is being forced into this role against their will. However, as with all BDSM practices the submissive partner should not actually be doing anything against their will. All activity should be negotiated beforehand and a safeword should be agreed upon so the submissive partner can communicate their desire to stop the scene if necessary.

Kinkly explains Forced Feminization

Part of the appeal of forced feminization comes from the pressure society puts on men to be traditionally "masculine." A man who is drawn to things labelled "feminine" may feel that he cannot indulge that part of himself. Having someone "force" him to do so provides an outlet for those feelings. In this scenario, it is not the man's "fault" that he acted in a feminine manner. This helps relieve him of possible guilt or angst.

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