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FFM Threesome

Updated: SEPTEMBER 27, 2021
Reviewed by Jen Mallia
on September 27, 2021

An FFM threesome is a type of threesome that involves two females and a male. FFM threesomes include bisexual play for the two females. The male may have penetrative sex with one or both of the women. An FFM threesome can involve any kind of sexual activity agreed to by all the people involved, including mutual masturbation, oral sex, vaginal sex, anal sex or any combination of these activities.

Engaging in an FFM threesome can be a great way for some couples to spice up their sex lives. For bisexual and bi-curious women in monogamous couples, this can be a way to have sex with a person who’s the opposite gender of their usual partner. FFM threesomes are a way for people in committed throuples or non-monogamous relationships to spend intimate time with their partners. An FFM threesome may also occur spontaneously between three single people who are simply enjoying each other’s company.

The best positions for FFM threesomes stimulate all partners at the same time. For example, the male may have rear-entry sex with one female while she’s giving the other female cunnilingus. The man may lay on his back, then perform cunnilingus on a female straddling his face while the other rides his penis. In a daisy-chain configuration, the females and males may perform oral sex or analingus on one another.

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FFM threesomes may also involve activities where some partners are not physically stimulated. Simply watching two people be intimate or caressing them while they touch one another can be very arousing. Alternatively, the third person may masturbate or use a sex toy on themselves while the other two people are having sex.

An FFM threesome should not be confused with an FMF threesome, even though both types of threesome involve two females and a male. In an FMF threesome there is no type of sexual activity between the females, but there is in an FFM threesome. As the letters are written, the male separates the two females in an FMF threesome. In an FFM threesome, the females are much closer together and free to interact sexually with one another in the agreed to ways.

FFM threesome is short for female-female-male threesome.

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Many people enjoy FFM threesomes, as bringing an extra person into the sexual experience increases the stimulation they may enjoy. Feeling an extra pair of hands or another mouth on their body can intensify the sensations of sex. FFM threesomes can also be visually exciting. Whether a person is watching someone new getting off or their regular partner receiving sexual pleasure from another person, this experience can be intoxicating. Threesomes of any kind are still often considered taboo, so simply acting against social norms can also be a real thrill.

As FFM threesomes involve bisexual activity, sexual compatibility and attraction between the participants is vital for a positive experience. It can be difficult for couples bringing a third person into their bed to find the right person, as personal tastes vary. Some couples may need to make compromises to find a person they’re both interested in having a threesome with. IF it is a heterosexual couple inviting an extra person into their sex life, some believe the female partner choose the other participant.

While FFM threesomes can be a real turn-on, it takes more than sexual chemistry to make one successful. If an established couple brings another person into their bed for a threesome, they should really trust one another. This trust reassures them that even though they are showing sexual interest in someone else, they are not interested in leaving their current relationship.

It may be a good idea to talk to couples you know who have had a threesome or search out true stories to help prepare yourselves for any potential fallout. Although it can be very exciting, there are some times feelings of jealousy or insecurity may crop out after inviting a third into your bedroom.

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Clear communication is also essential. All parties should be consenting adults that understand one another’s hard limits. They should also feel comfortable speaking up if anything doesn’t feel right during the threesome, to ensure everyone has the best experience.

Unless having FFM threesomes with people whose sexual health status is known, practicing safe sex is a smart idea. Using condoms can prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies.

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