While most people think of Tummy Time as a vulva-exclusive sex position, it certainly isn't! Penis-owning people can also enjoy grinding their shaft up against a soft, flat surface, and it can be orgasmic for many. If you're a penis owner looking to explore the Tummy Time position, we recommend putting down a washable towel or sex blanket and adding a bit of lube to the top of the blanket. If you have disabilities that make this setup difficult, consider talking to a care worker about setting it up for you. This slip-and-slide surface will make grinding much more comfortable, and the blanket will make for easy clean-up afterwards.
Note that the Tummy Time position can make it difficult to view or read adult material, so it works best for those who love to fantasize during their masturbation sessions.
Tummy Time may not be accessible to all people. For many, laying on the stomach is uncomfortable, and the arch required in the lower back to hump in this position can be painful for those with back pain. It may also be difficult for those with chronic pain, paralysis or other illnesses. Remember: Masturbation is all about pleasure. If this position isn't honoring your body, there are hundreds of other sex positions out there that will better suit you. If you have disabilities that make the Tummy Time Position inaccessible by yourself, you can ask an attendant care worker or partner to help put you in the position if need be.
In particular, if you enjoy the humping motion that Tummy Time provides, you may be a fan of Hole Lot of Love, Twin Standing or Double Mount positions, which allow you to stay upright with help of a pillow or piece of sex furniture.
If a partner wants in on the action, the Tummy Time sex position can easily transition into a partnered activity. It offers a great base for
from-behind sex, and the stimulation is already built in for the receiving partner! Just make sure to reposition the receiving partner as needed to avoid pressing too much weight into their body while their back is arched. Positions like the
Magic Mountain,
Bondage Massage,
Grand Slam,
Follow Through,
Landslide,
Speed Bump or
Anal Bumper Cars positions may be a great fit here.