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Soft Swinger

Updated: JUNE 20, 2022
Reviewed by Kinkly Staff
on June 19, 2022

A soft swinger is a swinger who does not engage in sexual intercourse outside of their primary relationship. They may, however, engage in sexual intercourse or other sexual activities with their partner in open places where other swingers may be present, such as swing clubs or swinger parties. Soft swingers might also engage in some sexual interaction with other partners, but not sexual intercourse. Soft swingers stand in contrast to hard swingers, who swap partners at swing parties and events.

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The boundaries may vary couple to couple in terms of what is permitted with outside partners. These boundaries are negotiated between couples, and may include soft swapping, hard swapping and any other individual boundaries.

The term soft swinging gained increased prominence among a mainstream audience in 2022, when a Mormon influencer revealed in a TikTok that she and her husband were involved in soft swinging.

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