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Stella Harris

Stella Harris is an erotica writer, BDSM educator, and sex & intimacy coach. She teaches for a variety of sex-positive organizations in Portland, Oregon in addition to leading and organizing her own public classes and offering private instruction. Publication highlights include several anthologies by Cleis Press and a series of tantalizing and informative articles on Through her writing and teaching she explores the complex world of love and lust and strives to help people explore their kinks safely and free of shame. You can learn more about Stella on her website,
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Recent Articles by Stella Harris

The Ultimate Guide to Having Anal Sex

Anal sex is one of the most common fantasies people have, but getting it right involves some preparation - and practice. We provide everything you need to know to get started.

Your Step-by-Step Guide to Fisting

Fisting is a fantasy for many, but most people don't really understand how it works. You're in luck: Here's your step-by-step guide to fisting.

Can't Get Hard? 8 Tips for a Steamy, Sexy Good Time Anyway

Think that you can't be intimate with your partner because you can't get an erection? Think again. Here are some ideas to boost intimacy without sex.