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Stella Harris

Stella Harris is an erotica writer, BDSM educator, and sex & intimacy coach. She teaches for a variety of sex-positive organizations in Portland, Oregon in addition to leading and organizing her own public classes and offering private instruction. Publication highlights include several anthologies by Cleis Press and a series of tantalizing and informative articles on Through her writing and teaching she explores the complex world of love and lust and strives to help people explore their kinks safely and free of shame. You can learn more about Stella on her website,
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Recent Articles by Stella Harris

Can't Get Hard? 8 Tips for a Steamy, Sexy Good Time Anyway

Think that you can't be intimate with your partner because you can't get an erection? Think again. Here are some ideas to boost intimacy without sex.

Why Consent Is More Complicated Than a Cup of Tea

Consent is more than a one time occurrence. Learn how to make sure it becomes an ongoing exchange in your sexual relationships.

Strap-On (Fore) Play

Oral sex with a strap-on may seem besides the point, but it can actually be a an intimate and exhilarating experience for both parties.