Molly Lazarus is a kink and sexuality writer based in the Bay Area. She dreams of a world where consent-loving hedonists can explore the depths of their depravity without fear of persecution or sexual abuse.
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Can BDSM be a religion? For some people, it may very well work in the same way. Here's how some fetishists are exploring the kink-spirituality connection.
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High sex drive or not so much? Either can be normal, but that's not all there is to know if you really want to know your libido. Take the quiz to learn more!
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These gifts are designed for vulva-havers to get the most out of sexy playtime with a partner. Which one will have you sweating up the sheets?
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Facing time away from your partner? Find pleasure together with our tips and tricks for long distance love.
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Do you know all there is to know about the joy that is the rabbit vibrator? Are you sure? Test your knowledge and prove it!
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The FemmeFunn Booster Rabbit vibrates and gyrates in all the right ways. It's almost perfect for our reviewer, is it the right toy for you?
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You might assume that clitoral vibrators have just one use. Not so! Here are some other fun places to put 'em.
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Check out these modern-day do's and don'ts for making the most out of your sensual encounters.
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Do you remember your sex education classes? Did you even get sex ed in school? Take our quiz to test your sexpertise!
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Do you know how to pleasure a butt? Fancy yourself a bit of a backdoor bandit? Take the Satisfyer quiz and prove it!
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Temperature play can heat things up or make your sex life cooler than cool. Here's what you need to keep in mind.
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Take this quiz to find out how hot your are, test your temperature play prowess and pick up a few new ideas for future fun!
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In need of a hot summer? Try these 10 ways to celebrate your self-love from a sexual perspective!
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Think you know what you need to do to achieve a blended orgasm? Test your knowledge of blended orgasms and how to make them happen with this quiz.
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Understanding erogenous zones is an excellent way to boost good times in the bedroom. How well do you know your erogenous zones? Take our quiz to find out!
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Studies on sexual trauma and PTSD, in particular, have shown that social support or a lack thereof has a potent and direct impact on the sufferer’s chances of recovery. Here are some dos and don’ts for how you can support survivors of sexual trauma.
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Foreplay is a comfy, delicious time to explore, enjoy, and find out what you and your partner REALLY like. Here are some tips for amping up your foreplay game.
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Having a bashful partner can be tough if you’re the sexually adventurous type. In a world that demonizes pleasure and writes it off as superfluous, it’s understandable to be shy about sex. Here are seven tips on how to empower your partner's sexuality!
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As a proud patriot of the sexual realm, it’s in your best interest to seek protection against HPV. Do yourself and your partners a favour and get vaccinated today!
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Great dirty talk can take even the most laid-back lover from neutral to frisky fast. Here's how to use your words to make the magic happen.
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Sex positive is a very common buzzword, but what does it really mean? Here are 8 things that being sex positive definitely does not mean.
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What can evolutionary theory tell us about dominance and consent? The answer may surprise you!
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We've got strategies for handling those black-and-blue BDSM souvenirs.
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Be a force of good by considering the greater 'us' while deciding when, where, and around whom you sprinkle your kinky pixie dust.
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Express yourself! Whether you dig leather and latex or not, the world of kinky fashion is your oyster.
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Society places a lot of emphasis on unconditional love in relationships. The fact is, the concept is dangerous.
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Learn about how some kinksters incorporate consensual mind control into their playtime toolkits.
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If you've ever dreamed of a place where you could be out about your kinks in a public way, that place exists at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco.
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A BDSM munch can be a great way to meet new friends and connect with local kinksters. Here's how to start your own.
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Giving great anal is an art. Here's how to approach it with a partner who's had a bad experience but is still interested in giving it a go.
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Ten-year American expat and BDSM educator Molly Lazarus gives the lowdown on the good, the bad, and the ugly of kink in Japan.
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