Molly Lazarus

Molly Lazarus is a kink and sexuality writer based in the Bay Area. She dreams of a world where consent-loving hedonists can explore the depths of their depravity without fear of persecution or sexual abuse.

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Think you know what you need to do to achieve a blended orgasm? Test your knowledge of blended orgasms and how to make them happen with...

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In need of a hot summer? Try these 10 ways to celebrate your self-love from a sexual perspective!

QUIZ: How Well Do You Know Your Erogenous Zones? QUIZ: How Well Do You Know Your Erogenous Zones? QUIZ: How Well Do You Know Your Erogenous Zones? QUIZ: How Well Do You Know Your Erogenous Zones?


Understanding erogenous zones is an excellent way to boost good times in the bedroom. How well do you know your erogenous zones? Take our...

How to Make Foreplay the Main Event How to Make Foreplay the Main Event How to Make Foreplay the Main Event How to Make Foreplay the Main Event


Foreplay is a comfy, delicious time to explore, enjoy, and find out what you and your partner REALLY like. Here are some tips for amping up...

How to Be There for Survivors of Sexual Trauma How to Be There for Survivors of Sexual Trauma How to Be There for Survivors of Sexual Trauma How to Be There for Survivors of Sexual Trauma


Studies on sexual trauma and PTSD, in particular, have shown that social support or a lack thereof has a potent and direct impact on the...

Under 45? Time to Get the HPV Vaccine! Under 45? Time to Get the HPV Vaccine! Under 45? Time to Get the HPV Vaccine! Under 45? Time to Get the HPV Vaccine!


As a proud patriot of the sexual realm, it’s in your best interest to seek protection against HPV. Do yourself and your partners a favour...

8 Misconceptions About Sex Positivity 8 Misconceptions About Sex Positivity 8 Misconceptions About Sex Positivity 8 Misconceptions About Sex Positivity


Sex positive is a very common buzzword, but what does it really mean? Here are 8 things that being sex positive definitely does not mean.

7 Tips to Help a Shy Partner Open Up Sexually 7 Tips to Help a Shy Partner Open Up Sexually 7 Tips to Help a Shy Partner Open Up Sexually 7 Tips to Help a Shy Partner Open Up Sexually


Having a bashful partner can be tough if you’re the sexually adventurous type. In a world that demonizes pleasure and writes it off as...

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We've got strategies for handling those black-and-blue BDSM souvenirs.

Dirty Talk 101: The Art of Using Your Words Dirty Talk 101: The Art of Using Your Words Dirty Talk 101: The Art of Using Your Words Dirty Talk 101: The Art of Using Your Words


Great dirty talk can take even the most laid-back lover from neutral to frisky fast. Here's how to use your words to make the magic happen.

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Express yourself! Whether you dig leather and latex or not, the world of kinky fashion is your oyster.

Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks. Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks. Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks. Yeah, Bob, We Get It. You Like BDSM. Why You Shouldn't Push Kink on Vanilla Folks.


Be a force of good by considering the greater 'us' while deciding when, where, and around whom you sprinkle your kinky pixie dust.

A Lil' Kink with Your Coffee? Meet Wicked Grounds, SF's Friendly Neighborhood BDSM Cafe A Lil' Kink with Your Coffee? Meet Wicked Grounds, SF's Friendly Neighborhood BDSM Cafe A Lil' Kink with Your Coffee? Meet Wicked Grounds, SF's Friendly Neighborhood BDSM Cafe A Lil' Kink with Your Coffee? Meet Wicked Grounds, SF's Friendly Neighborhood BDSM Cafe


If you've ever dreamed of a place where you could be out about your kinks in a public way, that place exists at Wicked Grounds in San...

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Society places a lot of emphasis on unconditional love in relationships. The fact is, the concept is dangerous.

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Learn about how some kinksters incorporate consensual mind control into their playtime toolkits.

What Evolutionary Leadership Theory Tells Us about Dominance and Consent What Evolutionary Leadership Theory Tells Us about Dominance and Consent What Evolutionary Leadership Theory Tells Us about Dominance and Consent What Evolutionary Leadership Theory Tells Us about Dominance and Consent


What can evolutionary theory tell us about dominance and consent? The answer may surprise you!

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Giving great anal is an art. Here's how to approach it with a partner who's had a bad experience but is still interested in giving it a go.

10 Helpful Tips for Hosting a BDSM Munch 10 Helpful Tips for Hosting a BDSM Munch 10 Helpful Tips for Hosting a BDSM Munch 10 Helpful Tips for Hosting a BDSM Munch


A BDSM munch can be a great way to meet new friends and connect with local kinksters. Here's how to start your own.

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Ten-year American expat and BDSM educator Molly Lazarus gives the lowdown on the good, the bad, and the ugly of kink in Japan.