Mistress Kay
Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual universe with her partners. She can be reached at Kinky World.
Articles by Mistress Kay
Top 8 Solo Sex Toys That Are Great for Partnered Play Too
Solo sex toys can make your me-time even more satisfying. These toys add some bang for your buck when you want someone to join in the fun...
Electro Sex 101: Everything You Need to Know About Electro Sex
Electro Sex can add the zing to your sex life you've been looking for. Here are the hows and whys and what to buys when it comes to...
Sex Toy Review: Lora DiCarlo Filare
The Lora DiCarlo Filare is unlike any other sex toy we've reviewed, with rotating fingertips circling just the right spot.
Sex Toy Review: Nexus Eclipse
The Nexus Eclipse is a penis vibrator that focuses on the most sensitive part of the penis. Will it give you or your partner the buzz you...
Sex Toy Review: Tenga Spinner
The Tenga Spinner yanked a top spot in the heart and hand of our reviewer. Read on for why this sleeve earned a 5-star review.
New Toy to Know: XR Brands Squeeze-It Products
Squeeze-It products from XR Brands offer a pliable, temperature play friendly option when your regular sex toy routine is feeling a little...
Yes, You Can Find Body-Safe, Affordable Sex Toys
Yes Virginia, there is such thing as body-safe and affordable sex toys! Here's what to look for (and what to compromise on) when you shop.
Plugs and Beads: How to Get Started With Anal Sex Toys
New to the world of anal sex toys? Here's how to be safe and enjoy butt plugs and anal beads when you start knocking at the back door.
Sex Toy Review: MysteryVibe Tenuto
The MysteryVibe Tenuto is a vibrating cock ring with six (count 'em SIX) motors to buzz your way to pleasure.
Sex Toy Review: Crystal Delights My Lil Pony Tail
A butt plug with a a unicorn tail? This tail butt plug from Crystal Delights delivers quality with a touch of whimsy.
Sex Toy Review: Cell Mate Chastity Cage
The Cell Mate Chastity Cage has some cool tech-enabled features to make your chastity play even more exciting.
New Toy To Know: Icon Make Me Melt Drip Candles
The Icon Make Me Melt Drip Candles are heating things up in the bedroom, making these sexy and safer candles our New Toy to Know~
New Toy to Know: Sir Richard's Intimate Therapy Stroker
Sir Richard's Intimate Therapy Stroker makes discretion the name of the pleasure game and that makes it Kinkly's New Toy to Know!
Sex Toy Review: Dame Arc
The Dame Arc is a curved g-spot vibrator. Our reviewer puts it through its paces to discover what's to love and what she would change.
New Toy to Know: Fun Factory Limba Flex
The Fun Factory Limba Flex is a fun and flexible shape-shifter that makes this dildo our New Toy To Know for the week.
New Toy to Know: OhMiBod Rev
The OhMiBod Rev provides pleasure for every body, any body, and everybody! Is it right for you?
Quiz: Do You Know How to Please a Vulva?
Take the quiz and find out...do you know how to please a vulva, and a vulva owner?
Explore the Unforgettable Blended Orgasm
With some patience and some strong sex toys, blended orgasms can be yours! Here's everything you need to know about having blended orgasms.
Sex Toy Review: Nexus Revo Extreme
We tried the new Nexus Revo Extreme prostate massager. Here's why we gave this amazing toy five stars out of five.
New Toy to Know: The LELO Smart Wand 2
The LELO Smart Wand 2 deserves a spot in your sex toy treasure chest. Here's why!
Sex Toy Review: Kinklab Thunderclap Paddle
We tried the e-stim Kinklab Thunderclap Paddle. Here's why we gave this electrifying impact toy five stars out of five!
New Toy to Know: Tenga EGG Variety Pack
These unique self-contained masturbation sleeves are game changers when it comes to spicing up your masturbation routine. Here's why.
A Beginner's Guide to Strap-On Sex
New to the world of strap-on sex? This guide covers everything you need to know to help get you started!
New Toy to Know: Nexus Revo Extreme
You haven't tried anything like the Nexus Revo Extreme, and that's exactly why you need to know about this amazing new prostate massager.
New Toy to Know: Kinklab Thunderclap Paddle
Are you interested in e-stim? Then you definitely need to check out the Kinklab Thunderclap paddle! Each spank from the Thunderclap will...
New Toy to Know: LELO SORAYA Wave
Welcome to your new tool: The LELO SORAYA Wave! New to the market, this rabbit vibrator is specially designed for targeted g-spot...
New Toy to Know: Le Wand Stainless Steel Collection
The new Le Wand Stainless Steel sex toy collection features three double end dildos you need to try!
How to Have Multiple Orgasms Using Sex Toys
Having multiple orgasms takes a lot of reliable stimulation, a longer timeframe than just one orgasm, and the ability to switch intensities...
Sex Toy Review: b-Vibe Anal Massage Set
I am no stranger to anal massage - or sticking orgasmic toys up the butt - but if I was, the b-Vibe Anal Massage Set is the kit I'd want....
Sex Toy Review: XR Thump-It! Large Thumping Plug
I've never seen anything like the XR Thump-It! Thumping Plug. Not. Even. Once. Here's why I gave it 4 stars out of five.
New Toy to Know: OhMiBod Esca 2
The Esca 2 definitely goes above-and-beyond your standard vibrator offerings - and that's why we think you need to know about it! Here's...
New Toy to Know: b-Vibe Anal Massage Set
Welcome to the b-Vibe Anal Massage Education Set - a 10-piece internal and external anal kit with everything you need for hundreds of hours...
New Toy to Know: Evolved Trifecta
Built for orgasmic bliss, the Evolved Trifecta is a triple stimulation rabbit vibrator, because why buy three toys can you can buy just one?
New Toy to Know: XR Thump-It! Thumping Plug
The Thump-It! is equipped with seven thumping speeds and four pleasurable thumping patterns. No vibrations here - just orgasmic thrusting...
New Toy to Know: Clandestine Mimic Plus
Why not hit all of your erogenous zones at once with the powerful vibrations the Mimic Plus can provide?
New Toy to Know: Nexus G-Stroker
Nexus G-Stroker's prostate-forward design is a match made in heaven for prostates, but it can also be used vaginally for G-spot stimulation...
QUIZ: Test Your Oral Sex Knowledge
Want to brush up on your oral sex skills - and possibly learn some new things? Take our quiz and test your knowledge.
13 Ways to Keep Your Masturbation Discreet With Others in the House
When you want self-pleasure but need to keep it private, being as secretive as possible is the solution. Here's how!
New Toy to Know: Enby by Wild Flower
This amazing vibrating toy doesn't follow the usual gender-focused marketing; it's a toy designed for all bodies through all of life.
9 Ways to Use a Wand Massager in the Bedroom
With a bit of creativity, you can use the length, unique design, and power of your wand massager to your advantage. Here are nine awesome...
Sex Toy Review: Zumio X
The Zumio X is powerful, amazing, and will reliably get me to orgasm with zero effort on my part. It's rare that a sex toy can manage that...
New Toy to Know: Zumio X and S
Who said vibrations were the only way a sex toy could pleasure a clitoris? A completely revolutionary take on the topic of clitoral...
Why You Need to Add a Thruster to Your Sex Toy Collection
There are lots of other reasons you might fall in love with a thruster - and we encourage you to take one out for a self-love date!
New Toy to Know: b-Vibe Sterilizer Pouch
This sex toy sterilizer is there no matter where you need it. Welcome the b-Vibe UV Sterilizer Pouch into your life.
New Toy to Know: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux
The Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux is definitely a ride you'll want to remember! Here's why!
New Toy to Know: ZALO Amorette
With fluttering wings for added pleasure and a storage case that doubles as a remote control, this luxury vibrator will spoil you too much...
New Toy to Know: Satisfyer Wand-er Woman
If you're ready to have complete control of vibration patterns in the most-powerful vibrator type out there, the Satisfyer Wand-er Woman is...
The Top 6 Sex Toy Trends of 2020
What can we expect from the world of sex toys in 2020? Here are the top 6 sexy trends you can expect to see!
7 Fun Ways to Use Flavored Lube
Zero-calorie dessert during sex? Welcome to the world of flavored lubricants! Here are seven fun ways to use flavored lubricant!
How to Find Inspiration for the Hottest BDSM Scenes
Consider some of these creativity boosters for when you're at a lull for how to bring all of your favorite BDSM elements together into a...
7 Ways to Challenge Your Creativity as a Dominant
Don't let things get boring for you as a Dominant. Here are 7 ways you can challenge your creativity.
5 Tips for Finding Kinky Play When You Travel
Finding kinky play in a new city can be difficult, but it can also be really exciting. These 5 tips will help you make the best of your...
Sexy(ish) Gift Suggestions That Are Perfect for a New Partner
Want to give a gift that's on the sexy side? Here are a few suggestions that are sensual enough for a new partner.
5 Tips for Finding That Elusive 'Nipplegasm'
An orgasm from nipple stimulation? Yes, it is possible. Here are some tips on how to give it a try.
How Sex Journaling Can Improve Your Sex Life
Could sex journaling make your sex life better? It sure can.
Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) 101
There's something inherently vulnerable about being naked in front of another human. In Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM), kinksters...
9 Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic With Technology
Looking for technologically sophisticated ways to reinforce your D/s dynamic? Here are nine of them!
10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People
Pegging while plus-size? It has its challenges - but there's no need to miss out on any of the fun.
A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging
Pegging can be nerve-racking for first timers - whether you're giving or receiving. But with some planning, research and practice, pegging...
How to Build Your Own, Customized Strap-On Kit
Good strap-on sex comes down to communication - and well-chosen gear. Here's how to find the right fit for you.
The Beginner's Guide to Anal Stretching
Anal stretching is an interesting kink. Here's why people are into it - and how to try it yourself.
How to Use an Anal Training Kit
Interested in anal training? Here's how to use an anal training kit!
8 Pieces of Furniture That Work Great for BDSM (and That You Already Have!)
BDSM toys can be expensive. Here are 8 pieces of furniture you can use that you already have!
7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom
Looking for a softer side of dominance? Gentle FemDom might be just what you're looking for.
9 Creative Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic Using Sex Toys
Ordinary sexy toys can be a fun way to reinforce your power exchange dynamic. Consider these simple ways to incorporate your favorite sex...
7 Tips for Selecting the Perfect BDSM Cuffs
When it comes to bondage cuffs, there is so much variety. Here are some tips to help you pick the best ones for you.
8 Reasons Why You Might Love a Sex Convention
Meet your favorite porn stars, buy sex toys, learn to up your game and more.
10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation
Making sex a priority ensures it gets checked off your vacation to-do list, allowing you to arrive home rested, relaxed and (sexually)...
8 Ways to Figure Out Which Anal Toy Is Right for You
There are so many kinds of anal toys. Which one's right for you all boils down to how you aim to use it. Here are some tips on how to sort...
Creative Ways to Store and Hide Your Sex Toys - and Still Be Able to Find Them
Here's how to tuck those goodies away in a way that's organized, accessible and, if need bet, private.
Everything You Need to Know about Attending Your First BDSM Munch
It's always hard to be the proverbial new kid. Here's what you need to know about your first BDSM munch!
Discovering Your Femdomme Persona
Curious about different types of femdomme personas? Here's a list of some of the more popular roles you could take on.
The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play Toys and Spanking Implements
A hand will do, but spanking toys are so much sexy fun. Here we cover all the different kinds, and what you can do with them.
8 Shower Sex Positions That Are Both Possible and Fantastic
Shower sex is inherently sexy, but if there's one thing that'll make it great, it's the right sex position.
How to Use Sexting to Try On Your FemDom Heels
Nervous - but excited - to try out FemDom? Sexting can be a great way to dip your toe in.
6 Ways to Reuse Your Holiday Items ... for Bondage
This time of year is all about the holiday spirit - why not add some to your bondage games?
Exploring the World of Pee Fetishism
While pee itself is an interesting kink on its own, what's most fascinating is how many different forms it takes. Learn all about them here.
Help! My Partner Is Into Ageplay!
Is ageplay scary or a-OK? Here's what you need to know about this kink....
Getting Over Multiple Orgasm Insecurity
For this writer, orgasms are best when they come one at a time. And that's OK.
Pegging: Everything You Need to Know to Make It Pleasurable for You and Your Partner
These common barriers often keep couples from enjoying pegging - but they don't have to. Get the dirt on how to overcome them.
3 Scenes for a Beginner Femdom to Try
Nervous about taking control? These three scenes provide a simple blueprint for your erotic encounter.
5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity
Have a partner in chastity that is bored of the same old lock-and-key games? Here are 5 games to play with your partner to spice up your...
Erotic Torture: 10 Tips for Choosing a Chastity Device
Imagine if you partner had to ask you every time they wanted to masturbate. Wielding this kind of erotic power is why many people fall in...
Help! I Want to Try Adult Diapers!
This kink is more common than you think - and there are lots of misconceptions about it. Whether you're into it or just curious about it,...
Everything You Need to Know About Attending Your First Kink Conference
Kink conferences are like a kink-filled break from real life, full of fun, new friends, education and - if you're into it - sex.
8 Violet Wand Sensations You Need to Try
Violet wands will electrify your sex life! Here are 8 violet wand sensations you need to try right now!
These 5 Books Will Answer All Your Questions About Polyamory
Polyamory is hard, but navigating these complex relationships is all about learning new skills. These books can help.
7 Tips for Choosing Bondage Rope
Rope bondage offers all the creativity and flexibility a kinky mind could ever want. Here's how to choose the right rope for you.
6 Tips for Purchasing a Penis Pump
Purchasing a penis pump can be harder than it sounds (no pun intended). Here are 6 tips to make the process easier.
7 Tips for Purchasing Giant Sex Toys
Go big or go home! Looking to purchase a giant sex toy? Follow these 7 tips to fulfill your fantasy!
8 Tips for Choosing the Slipperiest, Sexiest, Most Satisfying Lube for You
A few drops of lubricant can make everything you do in the bedroom even better - if you choose the right product for your purposes. Here...
6 Tips to Help You Achieve Multiple Orgasms (Just Like Me)
Multiple orgasms can be a major milestone. Here's how to boost your chances of getting there more than once.
9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar
Collars are an important component in many BDSM relationships. Here are 9 tips to help you choose the perfect one for you.
6 Tips for Buying a Riding Crop
Riding crops can be a lot of sexy fun! Here are 6 tips you can use to buy the perfect riding crop!
8 Tips for Buying Your First Sex Swing
A sex swing can turn a dull sex life upside down. Here's how to pick one you'll love.
8 Tips for Buying Your First Spanking Paddle
Who doesn't love the erotic thrill involved in a good spanking? Here are 8 tips for buying for first paddle.
5 Tips for Buying Anal Beads
Thinking about buying your first set of anal beads? Here are five tips to help you find the perfect set for your playtime!
9 Things to Check Before Playing With Electrosex
Electricity can put the spark back into your sex life, but it can also be dangerous. Here are 9 things you should check before your...
7 Tips for Buying a Squirting Dildo
These unique toys allow you to experience penetration for as long as you want - and then end the moment with an explosive and squirting...
Helpful Suggestions for Setting Your Sexual Limits
Limits. We all have them. We all need them, but sometimes it's hard to figure them out. Here are some helpful suggestions to help you set...
7 Things to Think About When Choosing a Wand Massager
Wand vibrators are loved for their intensity and power. Here are some tips for finding the model that'll really rock your world.
Keep Your Cool: 5 Unique Sex Toys Designed for Temperature Play
Looking for a way to cool off while you get hot and heavy with your lover? Check out these 5 unique ways you can incorporate temperature...
8 Steps for Choosing a Strap-On Harness for Men
Did you know that there are strap-on harnesses for men? Here are the 8 steps you need to purchase your first strap-on harness.
10 Kink Toys for Those on a Tight Budget
Kink doesn't have to be costly. We've compiled a list of handy household items you can pervert for your pleasure. Enjoy!
Everything You Need to Know About a Safe Call
Going out on a first date? Here's what you need to know about setting up a safe call.
8 Tips for Choosing a Prostate Massager
Choosing the perfect prostate massager means getting one that is right for you. Here are some tips to help you make the best choice for you.
Everything You Need to Know About Your First BDSM Play Party
Thinking about attending a BDSM Play Party? We have what you need to know!
8 Tips for Choosing a Butt Plug
Is anal play on your to-try list? Butt plugs are a great way to get started. Here are some tips on how to choose your first toy.
8 Tips for Using Genital Clamps
Genital clamps can be a lot of fun, but for new people they can be intimidating. Here are eight awesome tips to help you get the most out...
8 Tips to Make Role Play Sexy - Not Silly
Thinking about engaging in a sexy role play with your partner? Here are 8 tips to make it more realistic.
The Top 4 Anal Toys for Beginners
Interested in anal play? Well, we have what you need....the best anal toys for beginners!
The Best G-Spot Toys for Beginners
Looking for that elusive g-spot? We know the best g-spot toys for beginners!
7 Steps for Choosing a Mouth Gag
Are you interested in trying out a mouth gag? Kinkly has the 7 steps you need to find the right gag for you!
6 Sex Positions Made for Big, Beautiful Bodies
Modification and experimentation are essential to great sex, regardless of your size. Here are a few ideas to add to your repertoire.
Sexy Ways to Use Your Kegel Balls
Wondering how to use your Kegel balls? Check out these fun, sexy ways to get stronger vaginal muscles - and bigger, better orgasms.
6 Steps for Choosing the Perfect Kegel Balls for You
Thinking about buying some Kegel balls? Not sure where to start? These six steps will have you exercising your pelvic floor - and...
12 of the Most Unusual Fetishes Out There
Curious about fetishes? Come check out 12 unusual sexual preferences.
5 Steps for Choosing Nipple Clamps
Here are some tips to make shopping for your first pair of nipple clamps less intimidating and more titillating!
8 Steps to Purchasing a Sex Machine
Effortless orgasms? Thank you, technology! Here's what you need to know when you're in the market for a sex machine.
6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger
Interested and confused by the thought of purchasing a flogger for your sexy time? Never fear! Kinkly.com has 6 steps to help you choose...
6 Steps to Choosing Bondage Restraints
Interested in bondage restraints? Want to bring some 50 Shades of Grey action into your life? Check out our six steps to choosing the right...
6 Steps to Choosing Sex Furniture
Sex furniture makes all kinds of kinky comfortable. What more do you need to know? Good. We'll show you how to choose just the right piece.
7 Steps to Choosing a Male Masturbation Sleeve
Whether used solo or with a partner, a sleeve can spice things up and offer new sensations.
Put a Ring On It: 7 Steps to Buying a Cock Ring
With so many options on the market, sex toy shopping can be a daunting affair. With these 7 steps, we've made it easy for you to stop...
8 Steps to Picking a Dildo That'll Rock Your World
Want to spice things up with a dildo? We've got you covered, from length to material to sanitation - follow these 8 steps and find the...
Pick Your Pleasure: 10 Steps to Choosing a Vibrator
Picking the perfect toy isn't easy. These 10 steps can help put you on the path to toys that hold the highest pleasure potential for you.
