Mistress Kay
Articles by Mistress Kay
Sexy(ish) Gift Suggestions That Are Perfect for a New Partner
Want to give a gift that's on the sexy side? Here are a few suggestions that are sensual enough for a new partner.
5 Tips for Finding That Elusive 'Nipplegasm'
An orgasm from nipple stimulation? Yes, it is possible. Here are some tips on how to give it a try.
How Sex Journaling Can Improve Your Sex Life
Could sex journaling make your sex life better? It sure can.
9 Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic With Technology
Looking for technologically sophisticated ways to reinforce your D/s dynamic? Here are nine of them!
10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People
Pegging while plus-size? It has its challenges - but there's no need to miss out on any of the fun.
A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging
Pegging can be nerve-racking for first timers - whether you're giving or receiving. But with some planning, research and practice, pegging...
How to Build Your Own, Customized Strap-On Kit
Good strap-on sex comes down to communication - and well-chosen gear. Here's how to find the right fit for you.
The Beginner's Guide to Anal Stretching
Anal stretching is an interesting kink. Here's why people are into it - and how to try it yourself.
How to Use an Anal Training Kit
Interested in anal training? Here's how to use an anal training kit!
8 Pieces of Furniture That Work Great for BDSM (and That You Already Have!)
BDSM toys can be expensive. Here are 8 pieces of furniture you can use that you already have!
7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom
Looking for a softer side of dominance? Gentle FemDom might be just what you're looking for.
9 Creative Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic Using Sex Toys
Ordinary sexy toys can be a fun way to reinforce your power exchange dynamic. Consider these simple ways to incorporate your favorite sex...
7 Tips for Selecting the Perfect BDSM Cuffs
When it comes to bondage cuffs, there is so much variety. Here are some tips to help you pick the best ones for you.
8 Reasons Why You Might Love a Sex Convention
Meet your favorite porn stars, buy sex toys, learn to up your game and more.
10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation
Making sex a priority ensures it gets checked off your vacation to-do list, allowing you to arrive home rested, relaxed and (sexually)...
8 Ways to Figure Out Which Anal Toy Is Right for You
There are so many kinds of anal toys. Which one's right for you all boils down to how you aim to use it. Here are some tips on how to sort...
Creative Ways to Store and Hide Your Sex Toys - and Still Be Able to Find Them
Here's how to tuck those goodies away in a way that's organized, accessible and, if need bet, private.
Everything You Need to Know about Attending Your First BDSM Munch
It's always hard to be the proverbial new kid. Here's what you need to know about your first BDSM munch!
Discovering Your Femdomme Persona
Curious about different types of femdomme personas? Here's a list of some of the more popular roles you could take on.
The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play Toys and Spanking Implements
A hand will do, but spanking toys are so much sexy fun. Here we cover all the different kinds, and what you can do with them.
8 Shower Sex Positions That Are Both Possible and Fantastic
Shower sex is inherently sexy, but if there's one thing that'll make it great, it's the right sex position.
How to Use Sexting to Try On Your FemDom Heels
Nervous - but excited - to try out FemDom? Sexting can be a great way to dip your toe in.
6 Ways to Reuse Your Holiday Items ... for Bondage
This time of year is all about the holiday spirit - why not add some to your bondage games?
Exploring the World of Pee Fetishism
While pee itself is an interesting kink on its own, what's most fascinating is how many different forms it takes. Learn all about them here.
Help! My Partner Is Into Ageplay!
Is ageplay scary or a-OK? Here's what you need to know about this kink....
Getting Over Multiple Orgasm Insecurity
For this writer, orgasms are best when they come one at a time. And that's OK.
Pegging: Everything You Need to Know to Make It Pleasurable for You and Your Partner
These common barriers often keep couples from enjoying pegging - but they don't have to. Get the dirt on how to overcome them.
3 Scenes for a Beginner Femdom to Try
Nervous about taking control? These three scenes provide a simple blueprint for your erotic encounter.
5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity
Have a partner in chastity that is bored of the same old lock-and-key games? Here are 5 games to play with your partner to spice up your...
Erotic Torture: 10 Tips for Choosing a Chastity Device
Imagine if you partner had to ask you every time they wanted to masturbate. Wielding this kind of erotic power is why many people fall in...
Help! I Want to Try Adult Diapers!
This kink is more common than you think - and there are lots of misconceptions about it. Whether you're into it or just curious about it,...
Everything You Need to Know About Attending Your First Kink Conference
Kink conferences are like a kink-filled break from real life, full of fun, new friends, education and - if you're into it - sex.
8 Violet Wand Sensations You Need to Try
Violet wands will electrify your sex life! Here are 8 violet wand sensations you need to try right now!
These 5 Books Will Answer All Your Questions About Polyamory
Polyamory is hard, but navigating these complex relationships is all about learning new skills. These books can help.
7 Tips for Choosing Bondage Rope
Rope bondage offers all the creativity and flexibility a kinky mind could ever want. Here's how to choose the right rope for you.
6 Tips for Purchasing a Penis Pump
Purchasing a penis pump can be harder than it sounds (no pun intended). Here are 6 tips to make the process easier.
7 Tips for Purchasing Giant Sex Toys
Go big or go home! Looking to purchase a giant sex toy? Follow these 7 tips to fulfill your fantasy!
8 Tips for Choosing the Slipperiest, Sexiest, Most Satisfying Lube for You
A few drops of lubricant can make everything you do in the bedroom even better - if you choose the right product for your purposes. Here...
6 Tips to Help You Achieve Multiple Orgasms (Just Like Me)
Multiple orgasms can be a major milestone. Here's how to boost your chances of getting there more than once.
9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar
Collars are an important component in many BDSM relationships. Here are 9 tips to help you choose the perfect one for you.
6 Tips for Buying a Riding Crop
Riding crops can be a lot of sexy fun! Here are 6 tips you can use to buy the perfect riding crop!
8 Tips for Buying Your First Sex Swing
A sex swing can turn a dull sex life upside down. Here's how to pick one you'll love.
8 Tips for Buying Your First Spanking Paddle
Who doesn't love the erotic thrill involved in a good spanking? Here are 8 tips for buying for first paddle.
5 Tips for Buying Anal Beads
Thinking about buying your first set of anal beads? Here are five tips to help you find the perfect set for your playtime!
9 Things to Check Before Playing With Electrosex
Electricity can put the spark back into your sex life, but it can also be dangerous. Here are 9 things you should check before your...
7 Tips for Buying a Squirting Dildo
These unique toys allow you to experience penetration for as long as you want - and then end the moment with an explosive and squirting...
Helpful Suggestions for Setting Your Sexual Limits
Limits. We all have them. We all need them, but sometimes it's hard to figure them out. Here are some helpful suggestions to help you set...
7 Things to Think About When Choosing a Wand Massager
Wand vibrators are loved for their intensity and power. Here are some tips for finding the model that'll really rock your world.
Keep Your Cool: 5 Unique Sex Toys Designed for Temperature Play
Looking for a way to cool off while you get hot and heavy with your lover? Check out these 5 unique ways you can incorporate temperature...
8 Steps for Choosing a Strap-On Harness for Men
Did you know that there are strap-on harnesses for men? Here are the 8 steps you need to purchase your first strap-on harness.
10 Kink Toys for Those on a Tight Budget
Kink doesn't have to be costly. We've compiled a list of handy household items you can pervert for your pleasure. Enjoy!
Everything You Need to Know About a Safe Call
Going out on a first date? Here's what you need to know about setting up a safe call.
8 Tips for Choosing a Prostate Massager
Choosing the perfect prostate massager means getting one that is right for you. Here are some tips to help you make the best choice for you.
Everything You Need to Know About Your First BDSM Play Party
Thinking about attending a BDSM Play Party? We have what you need to know!
8 Tips for Choosing a Butt Plug
Is anal play on your to-try list? Butt plugs are a great way to get started. Here are some tips on how to choose your first toy.
8 Tips for Using Genital Clamps
Genital clamps can be a lot of fun, but for new people they can be intimidating. Here are eight awesome tips to help you get the most out...
8 Tips to Make Role Play Sexy - Not Silly
Thinking about engaging in a sexy role play with your partner? Here are 8 tips to make it more realistic.
The Top 4 Anal Toys for Beginners
Interested in anal play? Well, we have what you need....the best anal toys for beginners!
The Best G-Spot Toys for Beginners
Looking for that elusive g-spot? We know the best g-spot toys for beginners!
7 Steps for Choosing a Mouth Gag
Are you interested in trying out a mouth gag? Kinkly has the 7 steps you need to find the right gag for you!
6 Sex Positions Made for Big, Beautiful Bodies
Modification and experimentation are essential to great sex, regardless of your size. Here are a few ideas to add to your repertoire.
Sexy Ways to Use Your Kegel Balls
Wondering how to use your Kegel balls? Check out these fun, sexy ways to get stronger vaginal muscles - and bigger, better orgasms.
6 Steps for Choosing the Perfect Kegel Balls for You
Thinking about buying some Kegel balls? Not sure where to start? These six steps will have you exercising your pelvic floor - and...
12 of the Most Unusual Fetishes Out There
Curious about fetishes? Come check out 12 unusual sexual preferences.
5 Steps for Choosing Nipple Clamps
Here are some tips to make shopping for your first pair of nipple clamps less intimidating and more titillating!
8 Steps to Purchasing a Sex Machine
Effortless orgasms? Thank you, technology! Here's what you need to know when you're in the market for a sex machine.
6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger
Interested and confused by the thought of purchasing a flogger for your sexy time? Never fear! Kinkly.com has 6 steps to help you choose...
6 Steps to Choosing Bondage Restraints
Interested in bondage restraints? Want to bring some 50 Shades of Grey action into your life? Check out our six steps to choosing the right...
6 Steps to Choosing Sex Furniture
Sex furniture makes all kinds of kinky comfortable. What more do you need to know? Good. We'll show you how to choose just the right piece.
7 Steps to Choosing a Male Masturbation Sleeve
Whether used solo or with a partner, a sleeve can spice things up and offer new sensations.
Put a Ring On It: 7 Steps to Buying a Cock Ring
With so many options on the market, sex toy shopping can be a daunting affair. With these 7 steps, we've made it easy for you to stop...
8 Steps to Picking a Dildo That'll Rock Your World
Want to spice things up with a dildo? We've got you covered, from length to material to sanitation - follow these 8 steps and find the...
Pick Your Pleasure: 10 Steps to Choosing a Vibrator
Picking the perfect toy isn't easy. These 10 steps can help put you on the path to toys that hold the highest pleasure potential for you.
