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Lights, Camera, Action: How To Make Porn - And Keep It Private

If you want to learn how to make porn that's just for you and/or your partner(s), these basic tips will help reduce the possibility of exposure:

How to Give Yourself a Blowjob

Not a myth; not a fantasy: you really can put your mouth where your penis is. Here's how to give yourself a blowjob:

17 Hot Sex Positions That Are Even Hotter With Sex Toys

Finding the right sex position can be challenging enough -- let alone when you add toys into the mix! Here are 17 that work especially well with sex toys:

Humiliation Play: Things to Say If Your Partner's Into Sexual Denigration

Words can be a potent sexual tool, but there’s a lot to learn when it comes to using them well. Here's how to talk dirty for humiliation play:

BDSM Dating Sites: Why They're Great and What To Watch Out For

BDSM dating sites can serve as a safe digital space to get to know someone. Here's what you should know before you venture online

Water Bondage 101

Before you take the plunge (ha) into water bondage, here’s what you need to know about safety, communication and sex toys:

ANME 2023: Sex Toy Experts Share What Pleasure Means to Them

Kinkly visited ANME 2023 and asked 17 representatives from leading sex tech brands what pleasure means to them this year. Here’s what they had to say:

A Heel-to-Toe Look at The Best Foot Fetish Toys

There are nearly as many foot fetish toys as there are ways to engage in foot play. So, to help you narrow it down, here are five of our favorites:

The Shapes of Non-Monogamy: 4 Types of Polyamory

Not all non-monogamous relationships are the same. Here are four different forms of polyamory:

A Bushel of Dominants: What Kind of Top Are You?

There are countless dominant types in BDSM. Here are a few that might help you start pinpointing your unique topping style:

5 Super Easy (And Fun!) Sex Positions for Beginners

Pornstar sex positions take practice to perfect. And, sometimes, simple is best. Here are some super sexy positions with a low barrier to entry (pun intended):

10 BDSM Myths You Probably Believe - Debunked

BDSM can be amazingly powerful for those who take the time to truly understand it. Here are 10 common myths about BDSM, and the truth behind them:

7 Ways Your Sofa Can Make Sex Better (Including Oral Sex!)

These sex positions will help you turn your comfortable sofa into a just-about-perfect stage for oral and penetrative sex. Here's how they work:

Erotica: Flyboy

Memories of a passionate love affair linger in this bittersweet story.

Erotica: Touching

When an ocean and a pandemic separate these lovers, they turn to an internet connection and some steamy storytelling.

Overcoming Obstacles in Your BDSM Relationship

Whether you're new to the kink scene or a tried-and-true veteran, you won't be successful without working through these struggles. Here's how:

Erotica: New York, NY By Way Of Taos, NM

Two women explore their love and stretch their imaginations in this steamy short story.

Edgeplay: Exploring the Outer Reaches of BDSM

BDSM encompasses many things. Some common and some considered edgeplay. Here are some of the outer reaches of BDSM.

Balldo: Sex Toy Review

The Balldo is the ball sex sex toy you didn't know you needed. Or at least that you wanted to try!

Kinky Together: How to Use Sex Tech for BDSM Pleasure

Can sex tech be used for mutual BDSM sexy fun times? Absolutely!

Ball Sex: Having A Ball With Your Balls

When it comes to intercourse, penises tend to get a lot of attention. But what if we told you about ball sex?

Hot Octopuss PleX with Flex: Sex Toy Review

The Hot Octopuss PleX with Flex bends to fit you perfectly. Here's why this vibrating butt plug earned top marks from our reviewer!

QUIZ: How Well Do You Know the Penis?

Think you know the penis and everything there is to know about one of our favorite appendages? Prove it!

Your Hand, My Ass: Erotic Spanking for Beginners

Before diving headlong into a naughty little game of slap and tickle, read our crash course on spanking.

Anal Sex for the Mature Male

Is anal sex different after a certain age? Short answer, it can be. But that certainly doesn't mean you have to stop!

5 Awesome Sex Swing Positions That Will Leave You Flying High

Here are our top five favorite sex swing positions for you to venture into the skies with!

The ABCs of CBT

Interested in CBT? Cock and ball torture isn't for everyone, but if you're craving more slap than tickle, here's what you need to know!

MyHixel TR: Sex Toy Review

Learn to control orgasms with this smartphone app and sleeve-type masturbator combo.

Beyond Leather: The New Faces of BDSM

BDSM and kink are attracting new players who are experimenting with new styles and bringing a different energy to the scene. Here are a few of them:

Your Kinky Bucket List: 10 Things to Try Tonight

Here are the top 10 activities to help you get your kinky motor revving.

The Case for Owning More Than One (or 10) Vibrators

Think just one vibrator's enough? There's a reason why people tend to keep adding to their collection.

Quiz: How Well Do You Really Understand Kegel Exercises?

Kegel exercises and pelvic floor health are important things to know about, but how much do you really know? Test yourself with our quiz!

Quiz: Test Your Femtech Know-How

Awesome things are happening in the world of femtech. How well do you know what's happening with these female focused innovations?

Quiz: Do You Know Your Oral Sex Do's and Don'ts?

Think you know everything about oral sex? Put your knowledge to the test with this oral sex quiz!

10 Sweet Reasons to Get It on With Yourself

Why masturbate? There are lots of good reasons, both physical and mental. Here are a few of our favorites.

So You Think You're Bendy: 5 Best Flexible Sex Positions

A knee here, elbow there, little spin and you've got it. Try one of the best flexible sex positions with your partner tonight!

5 Ways You Didn't Know You Could Use a Bullet Vibrator

A bullet vibrator can be used for just more than clitoral stimulation. Here are 5 ways you can use a bullet vibrator.

The 5 Gifts You Need for Sexy and Safe Holidays

Got a stocking to stuff? Keep it sexy and safe this holiday season with these condoms and dental dams for every body.

Satisfyer Endless Love: Sex Toy Review

The Satisfyer Endless Love is a remarkably pleasurable toy for every kind of body and every make up of couple.

Quiz: When and Where Can You Use a Cock Ring?

Think you know how to use a cock ring? Are you sure? Test your knowledge about these handy little penis enhancers with our quiz!

Life on the Edge: Edging and Why You Deserve It

Stay on the edge of orgasmic bliss with edging...the practice of nearing then backing away from all out sexual release. It's hot and here's how to do it.

Nexus Revo Embrace: Sex Toy Review

Our expert reviews the Nexus Revo Embrace. How does this sex toy that's a cock ring and a prostate massager in one rank?

Roles and Performances: The Fun In Finding Your D/s Persona

Add a new dimension to your D/s play by exploring a new persona. Here's how to get started.

Get on Up! The 6 Best Vulva-Owner on Top Sex Positions

Got a vulva? You are going to want to make sure these six best vulva-owner on top sex positions are in your play book!

Penis Facts or Fiction: What Everyone Should Know

Just the penis facts! There are a lot of myths and misconceptions when it comes to penises. We do the hard work of setting the record straight.

The Joy of Finding Your Fetish

Finding your fetish can unleash all kinds of delights in the bedroom and beyond. So how do you discover your kink?

Lick It Good! Four Ways to Improve Your Cunnilingus Skills

Take your downtown game to the next level with these tips to improve your cunnilingus skills.

Sapiosexuality: When Smarts Turn Us On

Sapiosexuality is when someone is emotionally or sexually aroused by another person’s intelligence. Here's a look at this kind of attraction!

What It Means to Be Demisexual

In a nutshell, demisexuality is basically about needing to an emotional connection with someone before becoming turned on to them. Here's a look at demisexuality and it means for people who identify this way.

The Orgasm Quiz: How Well Do You Know Your Orgasms?

How well do you know your orgasms? Take our quiz and find out for yourself!

4 Super-Hot Places to Have Sex in Your House Besides Your Bed

Here are four places in your home that you can get down and dirty. Because when in quarantine, why not try out some new positions?

DIY Sex Toys: When It's a Good Idea (and When It Really Isn't)

Can you make your own sex toys? The short answer is sometimes—but only for external use and only if you understand the risks. For the long answer, read here:

How to Strengthen Your Erotic Imagination

Your imagination, after all, knows no limit and by using it to fantasize about sex you might very well develop close-to-limitless erotic possibilities.

Sex Toy Review: b-Vibe Twist Textured Plug

The new Twist Textured Plug from the great folks at b-Vibe brought a very large smile to my face as well as a great deal of pleasure to… well, other parts of my body.

Rhythm Play: A Beat You Can Beat To

How do you use these and other toys in a way that can steadily ramp up your chosen bottom’s endorphins, and even warm them up to take more and more intense play? The answer: rhythm.

Sex Toy Review: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux

Here’s a toy that demonstrates the best of our current sextech wonderland: finely engineered, durable, flexible, and powerful, with a wide range of sensory options.

Party Like It’s 2020: New Sex Positions for the New Year

The coming of 2020 is a grand opportunity to truly shake things up, especially when it comes to sex. Here are 4 sex positions to help you do just that.

Floggers 101: How to Get Your Flog On

Interested in impact play? Floggers are the perfect play to start. Here's how to pick the right flogger for you and your partner and how to get started flogging.

Super O: What Is It and How Can I Have One?

A Super O involves an extremely intense orgasm that doesn't involve ejaculation. Yep, you heard that right. Here's how you can have one!

Sex Toy Review: LELO F1s Developer's Kit RED

LELO's F1s Developer's Kit RED feels more like an addition or enhancement to your sex life than a novelty sex toy. Here's how one of the best new male sex toys can rock the world of anyone with a penis.

Quiz: How Much Do You Know About Your Prostate Health?

Take a moment to take our quiz and test your knowledge, or learn some important facts about how to keep your prostate healthy.

Stand and Deliver: 5 Standing Sex Positions

Who doesn't love a some good 'ol fun on their own two feet? These 5 positions will give you plenty of standing sex position inspiration.

5 Myths About Being in a 24/7 BDSM Relationship

Some people seem 24/7 D/s relationships as the pinnacle of kink, but it's not as easy as one would think. Here are 5 myths about 24/7 BDSM relationships that we need to bust.

Sex Toy Review: b-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads

b-Vibe's Cinco Vibrating Anal Beads are high-quality, well-designed and just right for with a little - or a lot - of anal play experience.

Rainbow Delights: New Ways You Can Use Gender in BDSM Play

Gender roles are totally made up, but they can be a great way to spice up your next BDSM scene.

Sex and Sadness: How to Cope With Depression In Your Love Life

For some, is already an emotional minefield full of performance anxiety, fear, guilt and shame. It can be even more traumatic for those dealing with depression. Here are some tips on how to cope.

Hot Body Modifications: Piercings That Can Improve Your Sex Life

Piercings can up the intensity of all kinds of play. Here we cover a few popular places to pierce.

Happiness Is a Warm Bottom: Finding a Good Submissive

Finding a good submissive isn't easy. Here's what you need to know.

A Parade of Submissives: What Kind of Bottom Are You?

Identify as a submissive, but not sure where you fit in? Here's a list of a few of the different types of bottoms!

A Polyamory Tool Kit: 5 Tips for Managing Your Relationships

Many people assume polyamorists spend a lot of time having sex. In reality, they spend a lot of time keeping their relationships organized.

Reach Out and Spank Someone: How to Participate in Long-Distance BDSM

Being separated from playmates doesn't have to be sad and frustrating if you use technology to turn it into a whole new avenue of BDSM play. Here are some ideas on how to do it.