Doc Johnson
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Q&A by Doc Johnson
What is a prostate massager and how do I use one?
The prostate gland is located between the bladder and penis, just behind the rectum. It’s a gland about the size of a walnut and it can be...
I am a man who enjoys receiving anal play. Does this make me gay?
No. It does not make you gay. The anal area has a lot of extremely sensitive nerve endings. You can stick anything you want into your ass,...
I'm dating a man with a small penis. What can I do to make sure that I have an orgasm?
You do have some options. You can always opt to touch yourself during sex. Clitoral stimulation can be a big help. There are also a lot of...
My wife wants to use a strap-on. Does that feel good for men?
The simple answer is yes, it can feel good for men. Men have a prostate that is located inside of them and it feels incredible when it is...
I want to start masturbating. How do I get started?
One of the best beginner products out there is the Pocket Rocket. It's powerful. It is great for clitoral stimulation. It's discreet since...
What's the best way to go down on a woman?
Just get in there… Use your tongue, use your fingers. Don’t be afraid to just go for it. Pay attention to her body language and don’t...
Pleasuring my wife is my biggest turn on. What would you recommend that I use on her?
A dildo with a suction cup base would be a good choice for you. It has attachments that you can change out. You can use a regular dildo or...
How do I give amazing head?
The number one oral tip given by adult starlets: spit, be messy. Be sloppy. Have some fun with it! It’s like if you’re not getting messy,...
My partner and I began having sexual encounters together with other men. Now he’s not interested in having sex with just me. What should I do?
A lot of relationships bring in other people to experience a three-way. Sometimes that's what sex morphs into: a non-stop fucking three-way...
I’m meeting my online boyfriend for the first next week for sex. Should I ask to see his STD test results?
We have to give you a big thumb's down on this whole thing. There are two main points to this answer: first, if he really loves you and if...
I really want to have anal sex with my husband. How do we have anal sex for the first time?
When you have anal sex for the first time you should go very slowly and use lots of lube. A lot of the time, it’s the mental hang up that...
I caught my girlfriend watching porn. How can I talk to her about it?
You should definitely try watching porn together. You definitely need to talk to her and find out what she’s curious about. If she’s...
I've been married for 10 years. I'm into the idea of BDSM. What should I talk about first with my wife?
There are some definite things that you need to talk about: how you’ll communicate with each other and the limits of things you both will...
I recently broke up with my long term boyfriend. Is it normal that I want to go out and have some fun?
You're young. You need to get out there and have some fun. This is your time to explore and make new connections. This is your time to go...
I think my girlfriend is faking her orgasms. How can I make sure that she cums?
Well, first you should talk to her. There is no magic formula to make a woman cum. Every woman is different. So, if you think she is faking...
I love my husband, but our sex life is stuck in a rut. What can I do?
First, you need to talk to him. You need to find a comfortable way to start the conversation. You could always take the initiative and do...
How can I talk to my boyfriend about wanting kinkier sex without freaking him out?
Well, start off with something a little softer.You can start off with some vanilla mixed in to your BDSM. You could start off with some...
My boyfriend cums fast. Is there anything I can do to make it last longer?
Bring toys into the bedroom and make sure that you talk to your partner. This can be a very touchy subject with men because it could be...
I want to use a glass butt plug with my girlfriend. Could it break inside of her?
If your girlfriend is new to butt plugs, I would not recommend that she starts with glass butt plugs. These are really geared more for...
I'm curious about double penetration. What do I need to know?
Since you've never tried double penetration before, you should start off with a toy that is slim. It's important to keep in mind that your...
What is the difference in sensation between anal beads and an anal plug?
As with any anal toy, you want to make sure that you use plenty of lube. You can insert the anal beads slowly during foreplay. If you want...
How can I have a g-spot orgasm?
There are different things that you can do to achieve a g-spot orgasm. First, there are creams that are warming creams. You put it on your...
How can my boyfriend and I get started with pegging?
Since pegging is a term associated with a strap-on used anally on a male partner, I don't think he's ready for pegging. It sounds more like...
Can men use vibrators?
Yes, men can use vibrators, too. In fact, there are vibrators on the market that are designed specifically for men. For instance, there are...
What does it feel like to wear a penis extender?
There are a few different types of penis extenders that are available on the market. We make a product called Xtend It. It's similar to a...
Can a vibrator help make sex more comfortable for me?
It sounds like that you're most likely just really tense. After all, you've only known the guy for a couple of months. Vaginas have an...
How do I pack sex toys to take on a trip?
This is a great question because a lot of us have been there. The first thing you can do is make sure to take the batteries out of your...
How can I talk to my girlfriend about my foot fetish?
Well, you probably shouldn't just automatically suck on her toes. One idea you might try is working your way down her body to her toes....
How do I use Ben Wa balls?
First, you should make sure that she is in to the idea of using Ben Wa balls. Some people do have a fear that things, such as Ben Wa balls,...
Can I stop the urge to use the bathroom during anal sex?
One thing that you can do is to make sure that you use the bathroom before you engage in anal sex. You might find that it helps. It's also...
Do women care how often a man 'squirts' when he ejaculates?
During ejaculation, semen is ejaculated in a series of rapid-fire contractions of the penile muscles around the base of the anus. These...
What type of vibrator would you recommend for a woman who has never tried a sex toy before?
This is probably THE most popular question we receive, which is great in the sense that people are trying to bring toys into the bedroom....
