Anabelle Bernard Fournier
She currently doesn't have a pet, but she's working on that. In the meantime, she's learning to write stories and hopefully novels so that she will one day see her name in print. She tends to think her life is pretty boring, so she fills it with reading books about people whose lives are so much more interesting.
Anabelle is also an avid knitter and crocheter and loves to drink wine. Lots of it.
Articles by Anabelle Bernard Fournier
A 2018 Sex Challenge: Keep Stats About Your Sex Life
It's more than the little black book. Keeping stats about your sex life can empower you to make the best decisions for yourself.
5 Awesome Things We Learned About Sex in 2017
New sex research discovers interesting things every year. Let's have a look at some of the most intriguing finds of 2017.
4 Signs Your Kinky Relationship Is Abusive
Kink is about consent, but abuse still happens. Here's what abusive kink looks like and what you can do about it.
Practical Ways to Reduce Your Sexual Shame
We live in a world that shames people for having sexual desires. Here some tips on how to confront that shame and free yourself from it.
Pain During Sex? It Could Be Vulvodynia
Vulvodynia may just be the most common sexual ailment you've never heard of. The good news is, it's treatable.
What Is Sexual Fluidity and Why Are Scientists Studying It?
Sexual orientation is not as fixed as we used to think. Research in the last decade shows that attractions and orientations can change...
4 Awesome Reasons to Try Mutual Masturbation
Mutual masturbation can be a powerful way to both expand your sexual repertoire and deepen your connection with your partner.
Blind, Deaf, Mute: Sensory Deprivation Play
Being blindfolded during sex can be fun. Yet what if you also can't hear, talk, or taste?
The Art of Impact: How to Increase Intimacy With Impact Play
Impact play isn't just about paddles, floggers, and whips. This activity can help make you and your partner closer, too.
Ball Gags: Why They Aren't Nearly As Hardcore As They Look
Ball gags are about vulnerability, trust and letting go.
An Introduction to Paddles: Safety, Size and Materials
A good paddlin' is definitely part of the popular BDSM repertoire. Learn about the different paddle types, and how to use them safely.
New Survey Reveals People's Biggest Sex Turn-Offs, Turn-Ons and Deal-Breakers
What people love and hate is relatively similar across countries, but differs significantly by gender.
Water Masturbation - Have You Tried This Yet?
What's better than some sexy solo fun in the bath or shower? Here are some ideas to try.
SciFi Meets Reality: Brain Scanners May Soon Be Able to Identify Your Kinks!
Could a brain scan tell scientists what kinks you have? Evidence from new research points to yes.
Hey, Guess What? Monogamous and Polyamorous Couples Are Equally Happy
Believe that monogamous couples are happier than polyamorous couples? Science shows they may be equally happy.
Can Mindfulness Improve Your Sex Life?
Wondering if you can take your mindfulness practice off the mat or cushion, and into your sex life? It might the best thing you ever do.
3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships
Femdom (feminine domination) seems like fun for women, but even in an overt position of power, they can't seem to escape sexism.
Group Sex Etiquette 101
Planning to attend your first swingers' party or orgy? There are a few points of etiquette that are good to know ahead of time.
5 Intimate Sex Positions Designed to Bring You Closer (Literally!)
We have sex for fun and pleasure, but also for intimacy with our partners. Here are some positions that help you get nice and cozy.
The Best Sex Positions For Quickies
Being short on time doesn't have to mean being short on pleasure. Here are some fun positions to help you get 'er done.
3 New Things We've Learned About Contraception
The past year has been a big one in terms of research and innovation. Here are some of the best highlights and hopes for the future.
Ethical Porn: Independent Erotic Film Artists to Check Out In 2017
Tired of the same old commercial porn? Try one of these independent, ethical erotic movie companies.
Why You Shouldn't Have Sex for Your Health
What happened to sex for pleasure? Here's why it's time we brought that kind of sexy back.
5 Things That Can Happen to Your Body When You Don't Have Sex
Having sex is good for your health... but what if not having sex is actually bad for you?
No, Sex Addiction Doesn't Exist. Here's What It Really Is.
Sex addiction is a controversial topic even among psychologists and sexologists. The most convincing arguments, however, seem to come from...
Why Even Straight People Should Explore Their Sexuality
The most sexual satisfied straight people are those who took the time to explore different sexual identities before settling on...
10 Kinky Sex Toys We Know You're Into
We've looked at the numbers and done the math: you're into some sexy, kinky stuff! Here are the 10 toys we know you're into.
The Ultimate Guide to Using Household Items as Sex Toys
Get some play time on the cheap by using these common household items as sex toys.
6 Not-So-Sexy Things That Lead to Better Sex
Want to improve your sex life even when not thinking about sex? Have a look at these ideas.
4 Things Polyamory Taught Me About Love I Wish I Had Known When I Was Monogamous
Being polyamorous taught me things about love that I wish I had known when I was monogamous.
Why Pain Makes Us Horny: The Process That Turns Pain Into Pleasure
Why do some people take pleasure in pain? We take a look at the science behind masochism.
Why Kinky People Tend to Be Sex Geeks (And You Should Be Too)
Kinky people should be sex geeks...come to think of it, so should you! Here's why.
I Have a Rape Fantasy ... Does That Make Me Crazy?
Rape fantasies often invoke shame, but they're actually really common - and a really interesting expression of sexuality. Find out what's...
Why I Chose Sterilization At 31
It may be a controversial decision, but choosing sterilization is as valid as choosing to carry a child to term. Read about the reasoning...
How Kink Helps Me Practice Radical Body Acceptance
Did you know that kink can help you learn to accept your body? It's true! Check out this article to learn more.
The Wonderful World of Gags
Want to silence your partner during kinky play? Many gag types can give a different experience.
Why You Should Know How to Masturbate Without Toys
Masturbating with toys can be great...but you should definitely know how to masturbate without toys!
Think Humiliation's a Turn-On? Here's How to Talk to Your Partner About It
Humiliation can be really exciting but it's also a taboo topic, which can make it really hard to address with a partner. Here are some tips...
Podcast Lovers: Here Are the Best Sex, Relationship, and BDSM Podcasts
Gear up your sexual and relationship intelligence with these smart, funny, sexy and informative podcasts that you can listen to anywhere.
How to Choose the Right Rope for Bondage Play
Not all rope is created equal. Learn which rope is best for your favorite type of bondage.
Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster
When you play hard as a solo kinkster, you don't always have someone to do aftercare. Here's how you care for yourself hours and days after...
Protect Yourself: 5 Red Flags to Watch for in a Potential Dominant
Looking for a Dominant for the first time can be full of challenges. Here are some red flags to watch out for so you don't put yourself in...
Kink Without Sex? That's Just How Some People Like It
BDSM isn't just about getting your freak on. Sometimes, kinky people like their play without sex. Learn more here.
Here's What Could Get You Committed If You Were a Woman in the 1870s
She did what?! Many of things that got women committed in the 1870s would be considered normal behavior today.
Yes, Sexting Has Benefits; Here Are 5 Awesome Things About Getting It on With Your Phone
Whether anonymous or committed, sexting is popular because it can really get us going. Here's why it's a great way to indulge in your...
Hate to Break It to You, But You're Probably a Slut
Being a slut is not a bad thing. Is it time to wear it as a badge of honor?
Chemical Romance: How Hormones Influence Sex, Love and Relationships
The many chemicals flooding our system influence who we choose and how we feel, which means we don't have much control over who we're...
The 6 Little-Known Health Benefits of Kinky Sex
We already know that sex is healthy, but there’s a whole world of additional health benefits … if you’re willing to get a little kinky.
The Lingerie of Our Lives: Why We're Fascinated With Underclothes
American women spend billions each year on clothes they can rarely show off. Here's why.
When Sex Dries Up, How to Get Your Sexy Back
If you aren't having the sex life you want to have, it often seems easier to just settle and get used to it. The truth is, you won't. ...
5 Ways to Add Heat to Long-Distance Love Affairs
You and your partner can always find pleasure together - even when you're not in the same place. Here are some tools and tips to help.
Porn: Love It Or Leave It?
Watching porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life, but it’s not all fun and orgasms. Learn about the problems of pornography and...
Feminists Have More Fun: A Sex Manifesto
What does it mean to be a feminist when it comes to sex? To answer this question, I came up with this feminist sex manifesto, and it isn't...
9 Simple Things to Do Right Now for Better Sex
These nine free sex-enhancing tips will change your sex life.
Why BDSM Is Like Skydiving
Some people drive fast cars. Others skydive. And some have super hot, kinky sex. Humans have this impulse to push the limits of their...
What I Would Tell My Younger Self About Sex
What would you do differently if you could go back 10 years? Here's what one author learned along the way to 30.
5 Unexpected Ways to Boost Your Sex Drive
Boosting your sex drive is one of the most enduring human interests. Here are a couple of things that might just do the trick.
5 Books that Will Make You Forget About '50 Shades of Grey'
However much you loved (or hated) "50 Shades", it's hardly the last piece of erotic literature out there with the power to tickle your...
