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Q:

Can a vibrator help make sex more comfortable for me?

A:

It sounds like that you're most likely just really tense. After all, you've only known the guy for a couple of months. Vaginas have an amazing capacity to stretch; think about childbirth.

A vibrator doesn't help simply because it's a vibrator. It helps because the vibrations will help relax you. So, using a vibrator during foreplay can be very beneficial for relaxing you and getting you ready to have penetrative sex with your partner for the first time. Aim for at least 30 minutes of foreplay. This gives the vagina time to produce enough lubrication. The vibrator that you choose should be smooth. Also, try to make sure that you have at least one orgasm during foreplay. This helps to completely relax the pelvic muscles.

There are also sex positions that you can use that can make penetration easier. You might definitely want to start off with positions that allow you to control the speed and the depth of the penetration. So, start off by trying positions that have you on top. You can always change positions later.


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