I want to buy a corset. What do I need to know to choose one?

Molly Moore
Profile Picture of Molly Moore Molly Moore is a writer, blogger, photographer and public speaker and whilst juggling all this she is also a mother and wife. She lives in the U.K. with her husband, whom she had especially imported from the United States, in a full time D/s relationship. She is the writer of the award winning sex blog Molly's Daily Kiss.  Full Bio
Q:I want to buy a corset, but there is so much choice and I don't know where to start. Can you help?
A: The ideal place to start when shopping for a corset is your local corset shop, if you have one. Although their prices might be more than you see on the Internet, the opportunity to be properly measured and try on different shapes and styles is not to be ignored. Once you know the size, shape and style that suits/fits your body type best, you will be in a much better position to make the most of the real bargains on the Internet. But do be careful: There are lots of cheap, poor-quality imitations out there.

Here are a few things you should be on the lookout for:

Steel Boning - Not Plastic
Plastic boning is cheap and in general does not have the strength of steel. If you are very slim this might not be an issue but if you have any curves at all then I would avoid plastic boning, as it tends to bend and buckle.

Cord Lacing - Not Ribbon
Ribbon is not strong enough to lace a proper corset, it will slip and fold in on itself.

A Modesty Panel
A modesty panel is an extra flap of material sown into the back of the corset to cover your back where the corset laces up. A corset is not designed to lace closed, so a gap at the back is perfectly normal. The modesty panel is for that gap.

If you don't have such a shop near you (don't forget to try local kink or steam-punk fairs) then you will need to measure yourself. Most corset retailers have good guidelines on their sites, which I really urge you to follow. You should also select a seller who will exchange your purchase if it doesn't fit.

When it comes to styles you will have to experiment but as a general rule, if you have a medium/small bust then you will find an under-bust style will suit you better, whereas an over-bust style tends to suit larger/fuller breasts.

Even though I am dedicated bargain hunter I would always advise you to spend a little more and get a good quality corset as your first purchase. As you get accustomed to them and know what suits you then you can start bargain hunting. (Check out LoveHoney's collection of corsets and basques here.)

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