SEX TIPS
5 Mind-Blowing Sex Tips for Men
by EMILY MORSE
Published: DECEMBER 9, 2016
You know those times when you’re feeling yourself, you’re laying it down like a champion, and she’s moaning sounds that come from deep within her body? Those aren't just kismet - there are things you can do to make them happen.
Not all sex is created equal. There are
those nights of sweet relief after six minutes of rolling around before
returning to your Amazon Prime, and that’s fine. We won’t disparage
what may seem like routine lovemaking, because at least you’re still
doing it. Sometimes a basic quickie is the perfect thing – like in the
morning, when her hair’s a mess and your breath is stank, but you just go
at it doggie style before work or the farmer’s market. And that’s nice,
too.
But then there are those other times …
The times when the sex is so good,
you can’t believe it. You feel certain you must be some sort of sex god.
You know, those times when you’re feeling yourself, you’re laying it
down like a champion, and she’s moaning sounds that come from deep
within her body, and it’s the oh-my-god-yes sex, “I’ll have what she’s having” mind-blowing session that we all dream about.
But those times can be rare. So rare, in
fact, they feel like some sort of natural phenomenon that comes on like
an eclipse or a thunderstorm. If only there were ways you, the sex god,
could make these epic encounters happen whenever you and your partner
are ready to throw down.
Well, you are in luck. We have five
amazing ways to help you have better sex. Try these tips a la carte,
introducing them one at a time – or get into all of them ASAP. It’s up
to you, and it’s all in the name of sexual self-improvement.
Masturbate
Yeah dude, we know
you rub one out on the regular, but like a Zen guru or Jedi Master, you
must practice your craft with intention. Think of masturbation as a
practice round and not just a means to an end when you’re in the shower.
By initiating a more exploratory experience of self-love, you can start
to learn not just what makes you climax, but also focus on ways to slow
yourself down. In addition, this slower, more sensual style will help
you get in touch with your own body, which is beyond sexy. Elevate these
“training” sessions even more by adding in male sex toys into the mix. Enjoy yourself and your body, practice what speeds you up and
slows you down, and lastly, masturbate simply to prolong your lovemaking
with your partner. Oh, and duh – jerking off is fun!
Go Deep
Different
positions will feel better for different individuals, but an
overwhelming majority of men will admit that they like to get deep
inside their partner. The thing is though- that’s not always what’s most
comfortable for a woman. So how do you turn this conundrum into an
opportunity for your best bone session ever? By finding out exactly how
to go in deeper, harder, and longer, while making sure it feels amazing
for your partner. To do this, you’re going to need some lube. So many
factors determine what a woman’s natural lubrication level may be, but
it’s not just arousal. A woman
can be totally turned on and still reap the benefits of using lube,
especially when the loving is long-lasting.
Foreplay All Day
There is nothing sexier than a lover who
makes their partner feel desired and appreciated. And as they say, “like
attracts like.” So if you start showing your beloved how much they turn
you on, then you can expect they will find ways to do the same. Amp up
your flirty banter by gently teasing your partner, send a dirty text in
the middle of the day letting them know exactly where on their body you
want to lick and suck. Send a GIF showing what you’d like her to do with
you. Play grab ass at the movies; bring home a little present; french
kiss on the stairwell; the list goes on and on. Foreplay doesn’t need to
be regulated to an obligatory 10 minutes of over the jeans groping and a
bit of oral, it can literally become an undercurrent of sexual tension
in your daily life that will continue to make your sex life better and
better for years to come.
Get that P Spot
Yes, it’s time to talk about your prostate,
and it’s going to be awesome! Here’s the thing: we know there’s still a
stigma around men and butt play, but this is changing rapidly, and the
reason for that is that prostate stimulation provides more than just a
hearty dose of pleasure. When you get a little loving on the prostate,
you can receive tremendous health benefits – such as a reduced risk of
prostate cancer. Not only that, but while a prostate stimulator is inserted, many men experience harder erections, more intense
orgasms, and increased stamina.
