Top 3 Masturbation Tips for Penis-Owners

We don’t talk much about masturbation for penis-owners, not in a serious way. We make jokes and use cute terms to hide our discomfort. However, there are plenty of legitimate reasons we should all engage in masturbation. Giving oneself pleasure is the best reason of all.

When we write about masturbation, or self-pleasuring, for vulva-owners, we talk about the reasons people should explore their genitals. Developing the capacity for pleasure and learning how to communicate that to partners is important. We do that by learning how to bring ourselves to climax. We learn how our bodies respond to touch, discover erogenous zones, and develop a better sense of our sexual capacity. All of these things are equally important for penis-owners.

To talk about masturbation is to take the "ick" factor out of the conversation. Let's talk about masturbation as a tool for enhancing pleasure. We're not talking about a quickie in the shower; we're suggesting you guys schedule some quality time with your penis.

Some children touch themselves and discover that it feels good. They see their erection and are fascinated by the transformation. They explore and play in all kinds of ways, but at some point that play turns into a goal-oriented experience. Get hard, ejaculate, and then get on with the day. The idea of slowing down, of exploring your genitals and giving yourself permission to be that curious kid again isn’t something some penis-owners think about doing. But maybe they should. Here's why.

2. Slow It Down

What’s the rush? The goal of masturbating is to feel pleasure and there's no time limit for that. Try slowing down and touching just to discover how good it feels. Is a slow build-up more exciting than a fast hand motion? Firm pressure or light stroking? Where do you find the most sensation? Where and how do you like to be touched?

Imagine how you feel if you discover a spot that drives you wild. Slowing down can also help prolong ejaculation time. It gives you a longer build-up to pleasure and more time for fun with a partner.

3. Try Toys

There are sex toys that are toys designed specifically for penises, but it may also be fun to play with toys designed for vulvas, such as vibrators. This is about opening yourself up to new and different experiences.Benefits of Masturbation for Older People

Young people typically have a reputation for masturbating a lot, but keeping up the practice as you age is important too. People who aren’t having regular sex can masturbate for pleasure to increase blood flow to the penis, and to maintain sexual desire.

We often forget that pleasure and desire continue throughout one’s lifetime. Masturbation is useful for relieving stress, increasing those 'feel-good’ hormones, and giving men a sense of vitality.

The penis is an organ with tissues and blood vessels. It also has connections to other vital organs. Keeping the penis in good physical shape will help with pelvic floor muscles and the prostate and can help fight off erectile issues.

People who worry about erectile dysfunction can use self-pleasuring practices to reassure themselves and work at strengthening their sexual response. Practice bringing yourself to arousal slowly while thinking about the touch and sensations. The mind is a powerful tool for sexual arousal. You can use that to your advantage.