Forget the jackhammer tongues and clumsy kisses; you only need a few key moves to make a woman go wild.
Did you know that just 30 percent of women are able to orgasm through vaginal sex? What that means is that in order to really please a lady, loving partners need a few more tricks up their sleeves. Oral sex is a favorite for many women, but doing it right isn’t as simple as diving down. Read on to discover how to blow her mind with incredible oral sex. (Looking for tips on how to please a man? Read 8 Steps to Giving a Great Blow Job.)
Once she’s really hot ... hold back. Don't make the mistake of going down too fast. And take the oral play itself slowly too. All too often oral sex serves as an element of foreplay, a prelude to sex rather than the main attraction. It’s true that oral sex is an effective way to turn a woman on, but she’ll be disappointed if you stop abruptly. Take the time for an extended session and she’ll be begging for more.
Overall, the best oral sex is varied. Kiss, suck, swirl, lick and probe. Just don’t make the mistake of "fence painting." If your tongue goes up and down like a paintbrush, she’ll be looking at her watch before long. (Want more tips? And pictures?? Check out "Oral Sex That'll Blow Her Mind: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Her Amazing Orgasms".)
Oral sex, or cunnilingus, has been called an art. What that means is that for most people, learning to do it well will take time and practice. That doesn't sound so bad, now does it?
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Lauren Katulka is a happily married freelance writer living on Australia's Central Coast. When she's not playing around with words she loves roller skating, spending time in the kitchen, watching indie films and cuddling her Devon Rex cat, Gizmo. Full Bio
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