Lick This: How to Excite Desire with Your Tongue

Words aren’t always necessary. Beyond blushing, seductive smiles and prolonged gazes, express your interest by ever-so-slightly biting and licking your lips. If the occasion calls for it, part your lips and pout from time to time. Exercising subtlety is the key. What’s most important is to be strategic in your delivery. There’s no recipe for allurement. Simply go with your instincts. The occasional gulp when your mouth waters with anticipation may be all you need to seal the deal. Speak Sensually with Sincerity

Before you’re buck naked riding reverse cowgirl under the biggest supermoon in 70 years, thoughts guide your mouth to communicate passion. Begin with innocuous compliments like “You look marvelous tonight” or “I like your style” before bumping your flirtatious banter up a notch or two. Enunciate important words and phrases. Pay attention to the body language between you. Feed off the vibrations, building sexual tension at a natural pace throughout the date. Sincerity makes all the difference. Vary Kissing Techniques

Tease with soft kisses, little licks and gentle nibbles along the nape of the neck, earlobes, lips, shoulders, nipples, fingertips, hips, back of the knees, toes, and any other delectable spots that arouse. Apply enough pressure to tantalize. Take care not to tickle too much. With the tip of your tongue, trace pleasure transmitters like the buccal nerve that surrounds the mouth’s edge, the ilioinguinal nerve located at the top of the inner thigh, and the sweet spot where the collarbone meets the neck. Once you graduate to French kisses, alternate between more aggressive and tamer suckling. Make out like you’re teenagers in high school, late for curfew. (Read: Rock Her World: A Guy's Guide to Oral Sex.)