Anal Sex Beads on Him
Many straight men want nothing to do with inserting anything in their butts, but anal beads can lead to an intense and arousing orgasm. The prostate is much like the G-spot for women, and it is best stimulated with light anal play. Before you put anal beads in your partner, use one or two fingers to stimulate the area. Once your fingers are inside, curl them in a come-hither motion to slowly massage his prostate. When you both get used to that, you can move on to the anal beads. Just be sure to use plenty of lubrication - and communicate. (Wondering what the heck an anal bead is? Check out Adam & Eve's anal bead collection.)
If you're the adventurous type, you’ve probably had sex on your bed, on the kitchen table, in an armchair and in a car. In those cases, being uncomfortable is half the fun! However, furniture specifically designed for you and your partner’s pleasure can greatly deepen your sexy time by increasing comfort.
Sex furniture includes specially made beds, chairs and swings and it's all designed with one purpose: to get you off. The foam furniture is easy to clean and helps you get into even the most elaborate sex positions. Some of it is even beautiful enough to put in your living room! (Read more about this unique type of home accessory in Sex Furniture: Love Your Home.)
For trusting and open-minded couples, a threesome can be extremely gratifying. Whether you choose to do two-guys-one-girl, two-girls-one-guy, or three of a kind, having a threesome is all about honesty and communication.
The best way to have a threesome successfully is to always be on the same page as your partner. If you or they feel even the slightest twinge of jealousy, it’s best to just back off the topic.
Also, be sure that both of you give the OK when picking a third person to add to your playtime. You can ask a friend, visit a swingers club, or even search the Web for options. (Interested? Check out Threesomes: For Couples Who Want to Know More on Amazon.com)
Sex in Strange Places
There's nothing that adds excitement to your sex life as easily as doing the deed somewhere new. Whether it’s in a change room at the mall, an elevator, or a library, having a quickie in a strange place can be both thrilling and amazing. But beware: Public displays of intimacy can lead to arrest in most states, so be sure to do this carefully and in a way that will give you the thrill of exposure - without actually being seen. If having sex in public places doesn’t float your boat, try getting down and dirty in the back of your car at night while it’s still in the driveway. You can experience the buzz of getting it on outside while still being safely near your home.
Sex with Food
Sex with food can add to the sensuality and physical pleasure of sex. Whipped cream, peanut butter or chocolate sauce all add a yummy spin to a mundane bedroom romp by adding a new sense to the mix.
Try sweet and sour treats to mix up your taste sensations, or spread chocolate kisses up and down your partner’s body, leaving a sexy trail in your wake. Cupcake frosting is great because it takes a lot of tongue action to thoroughly get it off your partner. It won't be hard work, we can promise you that!
The Bottom Line
Plain vanilla sex is nice, but with so many flavors to try, how can you expect to be satisfied with just one?