No.8: Meet "Blindly"
Have a blind date or whatever spin you want to put on it. Do that picking a time/place thing again and "randomly" hook up then and there. Re-live some of that teenage sex by pulling up at a deserted beach in separate cars ... before ending up in the back of one (or both) of them!
No.7: Have Mutually Exclusive Sex
Take a hall pass each and go out into the world. This might be a messy experience, but it should serve to underscore any and all appreciation that you have for one another. At the very worst (and best), it will help to clarify how "dependent" you both are about your current sexual relationships. In lieu of that, you could do some much needed sorting out of any staleness that may have become apparent.
No.6: Take Turns
Take turns doing the things your playmate loves. In the spirit of some good old giving and taking, giving your playmate what they want - and getting the same in return - will help reestablish the team effort involved within a functional sexual relationship. You'll also learn to balance selfish actions with selfless ones in the bedroom; and that is a big part of what it's all about.
No.5 - Food and Sex
This is really simple. You can have a naked chef date night! Cook some of those foods that can be erotically eaten off of your playmate's body. Think back to that episode of "Sex in the City" where Samantha made sushi and served it up on her own personal platter. Enjoy everything involved with this particular date night: from the cooking all the way through to however many rounds of dessert you feel like stuffing yourself (or your playmate) with!
No.4: Sex by Next Day Delivery
Figure out exactly what kind of sex toy your playmate loves. This can happen in one of two ways: the toy your playmate loves having used on them, or the kind they love to get into you with. Buy it, and send it by courier to wherever it is your playmate's going to be the next day, with a handwritten little piece of naughty attached. Then, kick back and wait to see how quickly your next play date unfolds.
No.3: Start Sexting
Send a filthy little text message to your playmate more often. Not only should you succeed in distracting them away from whatever they're doing at the time, but it should undoubtedly result in an unplanned sex date within hours. And possibly put a bigger smile on their face than you could imagine. It should generally be a much welcome (if not a surprise) distraction.
No.2: Take a Sex Selfie
Take a solo sex selfie (to send along with that sext). Better yet, take one together with your playmate (if they are willing). While you're at it, make your own sex tape at home. When you're done, kick back with the popcorn bucket and laugh, cry ... or go for it like rabbits once again!
No.1: Get Your Intimacy On
Regularly. You will be pleasantly surprised to find how quickly an innocent gesture can lead to some awesome sex. Think back to the basics - a peck or making out randomly or an inappropriate touch or gesture, even the slightest, shortest, and most unexpected. There's nothing to it, but as far as sexual innuendo goes, a little can go a really, long way!