Breast bondage is a type of bondage involving tying ropes or other ties around the breasts. It focuses on the aesthetic appeal of tied breasts and the erotic aspects of the practice, rather than restraining the subject. Like other forms of bondage, it is typically practiced within the BDSM community.
Breast bondage is sometimes called shinju, after the Japanese word for "pearl." Over time, this Japanese word has come to refer to the binding of breasts in the form of a harness or bra. Boob bondage is a colloquial term for breast bondage.
Why People Love Breast Bondage
Breast bondage techniques lift and separate the breasts. These techniques draw attention to the breasts and make them look more voluptuous and appealing to dominants who appreciate the look. Breast bondage also stimulates the breasts and focuses the sub’s attention on the breasts and their submissive state. The binding reduces blood flow to the breasts, making them and the nipples more sensitive for nipple play.
Submissives can get turned on by breast bondage for any number of reasons, including the visual appeal of their restrained body, the sensation of the rope or bondage material, or relishing the feeling of vulnerability. Dominants can enjoy how the practice puts them in a position of power.
Tying up a partner can also be a very intimate act. Breast bondage can feel pleasant or painful, depending on the material used and how tightly the dominant secures the ties. A dominant might tie a submissive tightly as a form of punishment if that is the dynamic the couple’s agreed on.
The breasts and nipples make good targets for bondage due to their high concentration of nerve endings. Because they contain no bones, they can also withstand the firm attentions of a bondage master. Along with the physical advantages of breasts, many people have a strong psychological attraction to breasts.
Kinks and Activities Related to Breast Bondage
Breast bondage may be part of a breast torture scene, where a dominant consensually inflicts pain on their submissive’s breasts. Breast bondage leaves the breasts and nipples exposed for this kind of play and increases their sensitivity, so that the dominant’s actions have a greater impact. In light breast torture, the dominant may pinch or lightly strike the breasts with a flogger. They could strike the breasts with an open hand or apply nipple clamps in a more intense scene. Striking the breasts is a form of impact play.
While breast bondage is not normally used to restrain a sub, doms may combine it with other immobilizing bondage techniques. For example, a sub with bound breasts might also have their hands or elbows tied behind their back to encourage the breasts to jut out further. The dom may also like to use other BDSM tools such as a ball gag to increase their sub’s feelings of submission. Breast bondage also creates a convenient securing point for suspension bondage.
A dominant may also bind and demean their submissive’s breasts in an erotic humiliation scene. For example, they may say their partner’s breasts are too small or too large. This kind of scene may arouse someone who enjoys humiliation or be used to punish a submissive who has acted out.
Gentle dominants and couples experimenting with breast bondage may prefer massaging the bound breasts, including the nipples. This activity increases blood flow to the breasts and stimulates the sensitive nerve endings found there. Dominants may start with a gentle massage and gradually increase the intensity. Oral stimulation may also appeal to people interested in breast bondage and gentle domination. Dominants may lick, kiss, or gently bite their submissive’s bound breasts.
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How to Bind a Submissive’s Breasts
Dominants can use ropes, ribbons, or scraps of leather and other cloths for breast bondage. Specialist bondage rope, which is softer than the rope used for home repairs, is kindest on the skin. In the most common breast bondage techniques, the dominant ties rope at the base of their submissive's breasts, so that they bulge forward. Usually, the same base rope ties both breasts before it's knotted at the back to create a makeshift bra. Another popular technique sees a rope wrapped around the torso, above the breasts, and another below them. The ropes are then pushed together to push the breasts out from the chest in both directions.
The dominant may secure the breast bondage ties over clothing or attach them directly onto the skin. Submissives can also wear the ties used for breast bondage under their clothes or display them in full view. Doms may enjoy exposing their handiwork or keeping it hidden in public spaces, ensuring it remains a secret kept between the couple.
While most people practice breast bondage from scratch, commercial breast and chest harnesses are also available. Working with these harnesses is easier and less time-consuming than working with rope. However, couples using them may miss the sensual build-up that comes with binding breasts the traditional way. These fetish clothes suit people who are time-poor or new to bondage techniques.
How to Practice Solo Breast Bondage
While breast bondage is normally a practice shared with a partner, it’s also possible to bind breasts alone. It’s best to start with simple bondage techniques before building up to more elaborate ones after becoming more comfortable and confident. People can easily slip on a commercial breast and chest harness, but there are also ways to bind one’s own breasts from scratch.
Nipple clamps are technically a type of breast bondage accessory, and they can easily be self-applied. Someone with intermediate bondage skills can also follow the same process as a dominant to tie a harness onto their breasts from scratch. Looking in a mirror can make binding the breasts easier.
Dana Pharant, a former professional dominatrix suggests "Taking some time like you would to enjoy a bath, feeling the sensations of the rope and learning what tension feels good to you. After you have yourself beautifully tied up, you might even pull on a sweatshirt and take yourself out to the grocery store, enjoying this special secret as you stroll down the aisles."
Does breast bondage hurt?
Breast bondage shouldn’t hurt, but it may be uncomfortable depending on the material used and how tightly the person is tied. People with larger breasts tend to find it more comfortable than people with smaller breasts.
People have varying sensitivities, which doms should be conscious of when trying breast bondage for the first time or with a new partner. As breast bondage isn’t used for restraint, doms may loosen the ties to make a sensitive submissive more comfortable.
Is breast bondage safe?
Breast bondage is a relatively safe activity as long as the person binding the breasts understands the best practices. Researching breast bondage, its techniques and its safety practices can be helpful for any newcomers to the practice.
Some swelling, redness and discomfort are normal, but the breasts should never become numb or blue. If they do, the ties may be impacting circulation. If this occurs, it’s important to remove the ties immediately to restore blood flow. It’s a good idea to keep a set of safety shears or quality scissors nearby for this purpose. Couples should also set a safeword or gesture that stops play before commencing breast bondage. Soft bondage rope is a better choice than home improvement rope, as the rough surface can cause rope burns.
Pharant says people practicing breast bondage should also adjust their technique based on their intended play time. "If you plan to wear the ropes for more than 30 minutes, then aim for a looser bondage. Think of keeping the restrictions similar to a bra if you plan to wear bondage for a longer period of time."
Solo breast bondage is riskier than playing with a partner, as there is no one else to monitor the play and get the bound person out of trouble. Keeping hands untied makes removing the ties from the breasts easier. It’s also a good idea to keep self-bondage relatively loose so it won’t compromise blood flow.
