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I’m a Married Woman. Here’s Why I Highly Recommend Ashley Madison

Most women assume Ashley Madison isn't for them. It can be, but it depends on what you're looking for.

Photo for Blueberry Porn?! Yup, It's a Thing.

This fascinating fetish stems from a scene from 'Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,' and takes on all kinds of creative and delightful variations.

5 Trends Your Naughty Bits Are Better Off Without

Your naughty bits are sensitive! Here are 5 things that you should NOT put inside of them despite current trends.

A Sex Educator Tells Us About Sex Ed for People With Disabilities (and Why We Need It)

We talked to a sex educator who specializes in sexual education for people with disabilities. Here's what she said.

Remote Sex Toys and Security Risks - Could Your Vibrator Be Hacked?

Are you aware of what you might be revealing? Yes, some sex toys are likely hackable and it's worth being aware of.

Do People Really Still Have Phone Sex?

Although many sex workers have moved to the internet, phone sex is still kicking.

Top 9 Contraception Misconceptions

Before society allowed frank and open discussion about sex, ignorance reigned supreme. We set you straight on nine common contraception misconceptions.

Suing Pornographers for Creating Addicts?

Is pornography addiction the social crisis some folks think it is? If so, whose responsibility is it to do something about it?

Sploshing: Sweet Fetish or a Waste of Good Cake?

Sploshing is a popular, messy kink that many think may also be mistreatment of a lovely confection. If you try it, safety first!

Male Birth Control Study Halted Due to Acne, Mood Changes

The male birth control study was recently stopped because of the same side effects women have complained about for years. What gives?

When It Comes to Sex, How Long Is 'Not Long Enough?'

Science has some ideas about how long sex should last but there are problems with comparing ourselves to averages.

The Word 'Vagina'

The word “vagina,” and the euphemisms we substitute for it, may have a more significant impact on us and our culture than we realize.

The German Government's Online Sex Manual. Wait - WHAT?!?

Not clear on modern sexual mores in Germany? There’s a government website that can help—really.

Masturbation: How Much Is Too Much?

Masturbation is natural and it has been shown to improve our health. Yet, can we have too much of a good thing?

Ouch! The Two Sex Positions Most Likely to Cause Penile Fracture

Sex is fun, but it can also cause injuries. We check out some stats about one of the worst sex injuries - penile fracture.

Contraceptive Valve Implants? German Engineering at Its Finest!

Contraceptive valve implants for men allow men to start and stop the release of sperm. German engineering at its finest!

The Impressively Long History of Penis Worship

Most of us have never literally worshipped a phallus, but historically, penises have been the focus of much religious veneration.

Dick Pics: This Is Not Your Grandfather's Exhibitionism

Are crotch shots just flashing gone digital or is genital photography really a thing in the legitimate art world?

What Science Is Saying About Arousal, Sperm Quality and Infidelity

A new study shows that sperm quality and quantity in men is directed impacted by just how turned on they are. We take a look at this fascinating discovery.

Climate Change Will Impact Our Sex Lives?! Now This Is Serious!

It's true! Climate change will impact your sex life! Could this be the worst side effect of global warming?

Tinder: Swipe Right for Lasting Love???

Tinder flipped out when Vanity Fair accused them of being all about the nookie. Are users really looking for true love when they swipe right?

6 Weird (and Ineffective) Things People Use as Condom Substitutes

Ever wonder what people used before condoms became so inexpensive and available? You might just be surprised!

10 Tips for a Bigger, Better Orgasm

Are there really 10 steps to a better orgasm? Yes, but you might only need a few. Take what you need from this list.

What Exactly Is an Affair?

How we define words like "affair," "adultery," and "cheating" is far more nuanced than simply having extramarital sex. We take a look at what this really means.

Drawing the Line on Sex Ed

Sex ed is a hotly debated topic. Should schools teach kids about sex or should parents do it? Should it be a joint effort?

Vampire Bites: The Other Penetrative Sex Act

Vampires used to be evil villains, not sexy seducers. See how the vampire bite became the other penetrative sex act.

Multitasking During Orgasm? How Does THAT Work?

Great sex is probably among the most enjoyable things we do in a given day. So, why is it that sex doesn't always get our full attention?

The All-Time Best Condom Ads From Around the World

Safe sex is no joke - but the ads for condoms certainly can be. Here are the best condom ads from around the world!

16 Things You'd Never Suspect About Phone Sex

Phone sex can be a fun, sexy, lucrative gig. It can also be frustrating, shocking, confounding, exasperating and unexpectedly hilarious. This former phone sex operator tells all.

Taking Sex Toy Safety Into Your Own Hands

Did you know that sex toys aren't regulated and can pose a danger to your health? Here's what you need to know about sex toy safety.

Dating a Fetishist - What's That All About?

Did you recently find out your love interest has a fetish? Here's what you should know.

Condom Sales Explode as Korea Decriminalizes Adultery

Learn how the arrest and jail time of a South Korean star helped the decriminalization of adultery.

Can Hookup Apps Be Held Responsible for Increased STI Rates?

Are hookup apps really responsible for the rise in STIs? We take a look.

Promiscuity: Is it All in the Fingers?

How long are your fingers? How many people have you slept with? Are the two related? Check out this weird theory!

Masking: Newfound Fetish or a Solution Whose Time Has Come?

Want to look like a sex doll? Then, you should look into masking.

7 Ways the '21 Grams Memory Box' Completely Misses the Mark

The combination dildo-funereal urn has inspired much interest, but is that really the best way to remember a deceased spouse? Kinkly has 7 reasons why this isn't a good idea.

Public Nudity: Why's It Considered So Shameful in the United States?

America...land of the free...home of the clothed? Check out how America compares to the rest of the world when it comes to covering up.

Video: Laci Green Talks Consent

We can't talk enough about consent, but when someone else says it so well, we give them the floor. Check out this great video from Laci Green.

Will Female Viagra Create a Race of Sex Starved Nymphomaniacs? Maybe.

Scientists have created a female equivalent for Viagra. Will nymphomanics take over the world? We will find out in 2016!

Can Your Diet Lead to a Better Sex Life? Mmmmaybe.

By now, most of us have heard that fans of grilled cheese sandwiches may be better lovers than those who aren't. How much does your diet impact your sex life?

6 Countries' Campaigns to Get Citizens to Have More Sex

That's right! Governments around the world are asking their citizens to have more sex. Click here to find out why.

The Story Behind the World's First Successful Penis Transplant

The world's first penis transplant was a success! Check out how it rises to the occasion of such a high honor!

Is This the Perfect Response to Catcalling?

Catcalling is annoying and ugly, but thinking throwing down a lesson on feminism like Adult Wednesday Addams does can be wonderfully cathartic.

The Talk: What I Wish My Mom Had Told Me About Sex

The Talk can have widespread repercussions not just on a kid's future sex life, but on relationships in general, marriage, gender roles, and more. Here are some things I wish The Talk had included.

Top 10 Unintentionally Awkward Sex Scenes

A video on YouTube lists the top 10 unintentionally awkward sex scenes. The problem? The choices are blatantly obvious.

Swedish Sex Video: Hilariously Educational Earworm

So, just what do the Swedish teach their children about the vagina? Kinkly.com has that answer! And it's awesome!

Mia Khalifa Breaks Boundaries and Defies Expectation with a Career in Porn

So, just how did the Mia Khalifa, the Queen of PornHub, start her career in porn? Learn how she defied social expectations in this Kinkly.com article!

Is a Sex Act at a Dead Kennedy's Show Obscene, Criminal, or Just Hardcore Punk?

Should a couple who engaged in oral sex at a rock concert be charged with a crime? Click here to find out what happened at a Dead Kennedy's show. Let Kinkly know what you think!

So, You Want A Sexy Job?

Looking for a sexy job? Learn the tricks of the trade, and how to get into a sexy field of work.

California Upholds Law Requiring Condoms in Porn Movies - and Porn Sta

California says Measure B is not unconstitutional. What do porn performers think? Read up on the California condom law on Kinkly.com.

South Park's Fish Sticks Joke Becomes Science Fact

Was South Park right about fish sticks? Find out how the South Park joke is really science fact.

UK Amendment is Total Buzzkill for Video-on-Demand Pornography

Porn restriction in the UK is trending. What does the Amendment actually say? Is there a way around it? Click here to find out.

Will Regulated Legal Prostitution be Safer Prostitution? Maybe.

India is regulating prostitution. Will this result in safer prostitution for both the prostitute and the customer? Should the United States follow suit? Click here to find out.

Is there a Science to Studying Sex Fantasies? Scientists Say - OH, YA

Scientists are now studying sex fantasies. You won't believe what they found. Oh, and the top three reported sexual fantasies revealed!

Get Those Condoms Off the Table! Oh Wait, That's Dinner.

Innovative restauranteurs are using condom-shaped and inspired meals to boost awareness and fight AIDS.

I Don't Think Lena Dunham Is a Child Molester. Here's Why.

Is Lena Dunham a child molester? She might not be - and here's why.

Top 10 Sexy Scenes from Horror Movies

Want to get racy this Halloween? Forget the sexy nurse costume - stay in and rent one of these flicks instead!

Injectable Contraception for Men? What Will They Think of Next?

A new injection for men could take some of the pressure off women to consider contraception.

Undercover Colors: Great New Tech or Product of the Same Old Mindset?

New, color changing nail polish claims to prevent date rape - but shouldn't we be targeting rapists, rather than victims?

Does Your Favorite Penis Need a Pedometer?

Light up the fireworks! New SexFit sex tracker boasts LED light show, vibrations, and even updates your social media account.

Aussie Company Starpharma to Release Virus-Deactivating Condoms

New scientific advancements in condom design could make a huge impact on spread of STDs in Australia.

Polyamory: More Than Enough Love to Go Around

According to polyamorists, there's plenty of love in the world to go around, and that love does not diminish when shared - it multiplies.

Arrested for 3-D Vaginas? Go home, Japan. You're Drunk!

In a world where phallic representations are found in transportation, buildings, weaponry and plenty of other places, is the vag getting the shaft?

What Have Local Dildos Been Up To? A Lot

What do Spiderman, US Airways' Twitter account, and a fisherman's catch all have in common? Dildos!

Sorry Princess, the Handsome Princes Are in Another Castle - Getting It On!

What is a "normal" family? A new kid's book about homosexuality gets added to the list of books that spark controversy.

The Autoblow 2: It's Exactly What You Think It Is

Out of the package, the Autoblow 2 looks a lot like an insulated thermos with a fake mouth on top, but it's likely to provide a happy ending, both for users and its inventor.

Why Haven't You Heard About the Pill That Prevents HIV?

There's a pill that can reduce the risk of contracting HIV by 90 percent. The problem is, few can afford to take it.

Flavored Condoms: Tasty Fun ... When You Know the Rules

One can't deny that mint, cherry, orange, chocolate, or cola flavored condoms are a fun idea. Still, some of the available flavors are a little ... extreme.

Lab-Grown Vaginas: Yes, It's a Thing

Futuristic advances in women's sexual health are few and far between. Sometimes though, hard science comes up with something truly incredible. Learn how science is giving women with a rare condition a chance at a normal sex life.

Worried About Weight? How to Have Spectacular Sex Anyway

Spectacular sex - at any size - is really all about putting mind over body mass. Check out six tips on how to do it.

Is Noisy Sex Criminal? Maybe in Italy ...

Loud, passionate sex can be fun, but not when it lands you in jail. As one Italian man now knows, your neighbours might not be enjoying your sex as much as you do.

Want to Know If You're In Love? Check Your Bra. No, Really.

This bra is pretty, but it won't do much for your sex life; it only unclasps when the wearer falls in love.

Financial Worries Keeping You From Getting Jiggy With It? Join the Club

Recent studies suggest that income affects sexual satisfaction - but there are ways to beat the money blues.

Google Glass: The Future of Sex Is Here ... For Narcissists

This geeky new technology may just bring a whole new dimension to sex ... but is it one we want?

Is Pornography the Key to Marital Intimacy? Possibly ... But There's a Catch

Do you like porn? Does your partner? How being open about porn can bring you closer.

Games People Play: How Sexy Games Shape Our Sexuality

The sexy games don't always stop once we graduate to adulthood. In many cases, the purpose of sexy game play grows and matures with the age of the player. Let's take a look at the sexy games people play and how they changed with us.

Company Unveils Virtual Reality Sex ... and It's About Time!

Honda's ASIMO has been able to navigate stairs for nearly a decade, and yet we're expected to believe that robots who can trot upstairs holding a wine glass won't be able to give us an orgasm once they get up there. Not anymore.

What Happened to Wedding Night Sex?

Changing social norms mean that more than half of newlyweds don't get it on during their first night as a married couple.

An Award for Bad Sex?! Only In Britain

The Bad Sex in Fiction award aims to bring attention to badly written sex scenes. Well, these passages certainly do qualify.

Chinese Sex Ed Cartoons: No Kids, You Didn't Come From a Garbage Dump

In a country where sex education is notoriously absent, these cartoons are a start ... or, at least adults seem to like them.

Movie Stars Plaster Their O Faces on Promo Posters

Lars Von Trier's new movie is making a splash for its sexy promotional posters - and the highly erotic film behind them.

A Bra for Men: Good Fashion or Bad Body Image?

THe Funkybod undershirt is designed to give you the appearance of well-defined pecs - without all those pesky upper body workouts!

The New Frontier: Sex In Spaaaaaace!

Sex in outer space might be the new frontier for sex researchers, but there are a lot of obstacles to getting it on on another planet.

In the News: Hold Onto Your Butts - Dinosaur Erotica Is Here

This new erotica genre features scaly, cold-blooded protagonists. And yes, it's for real.

In the News: Real Sex on British TV Shocks the Public

A new British TV show aims to promote mature discussion about sex. Find out why it's so controversial.

In the News: Wiki Porn Prohibition Ends

A campaign to prohibit porn on Wiki fails ... but snickering at "featured portals" continues.

In the News: Taking Sex Objects to a New Dimension

We're not here to judge what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedrooms, cars, swimming pools, sex boxes and local alleyways ... but sometimes you've got to laugh at the wild things some folks will do in their pursuit of an orgasm.

Think of the Children! Chicago Public Schools Expand Sex-Ed to Kindergartners

The Chicago School Board has been inundated with hysterical complaints since it announced it would be teaching basic sex ed to kids as young as five. But what's all the fuss about?

A Long, Strange Trip Through Dildo History

A lesson in dildo history reminds us that the more things change, the more they stay the same. Find out more about the history behind this classic sex toy.

Review: Minna Ola Programmable Vibrator

Imagine a toy that needs no batteries, can be used in any environment and remembers your favorite things after being told only once. Check this review of the Minna Ola.