Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords
Coming to Terms With Kink and Violence: One Feminist’s View
Coming to Terms With Kink and Violence: One Feminist’s View

Violence as abuse and the appearance of violence in kink are completely different things. It takes time and effort to come to terms with what you've been taught by society and what works for you as a kinky person.

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Being a Daddy or Little Isn’t About Children
Being a Daddy or Little Isn’t About Children

Calling someone "Daddy" is no different than calling someone else "baby." Those who identify as a Daddy or a little are often misunderstood.

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Call It Klittra, Jilling, or Whatever You Want – At Least We’re Discussing Female Masturbation
Call It Klittra, Jilling, or Whatever You Want – At Least We’re Discussing Female Masturbation

Whatever you call it, it's talking about female masturbation that really matters.

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Why It’s Best to Think of BDSM Like a Kinky Buffet
Why It’s Best to Think of BDSM Like a Kinky Buffet

BDSM has so many great choices. It's not a lifestyle with hard and fast rules. It has so many great components that it's more like a kinky buffet!

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3 Ways to Get Kinky When Vanilla Life Intervenes
3 Ways to Get Kinky When Vanilla Life Intervenes

Creativity isn't just useful in being kinky. It's sometimes necessary for getting a kink-fix, too when your regular, vanilla life gets in the way.

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