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Cara Sutra

Cara Sutra writes at her own sexuality magazine as well as acting as professional copywriter for many high-profile adult industry publications, both online and in print. Her magazine style website is a combination of her personal sex blog, sex, relationship and fetish advice articles, erotic fiction, sex industry news as well as a large number of adult product and sex toy reviews.

In addition to working in the mainstream adult industry, Cara Sutra is a highly respected and established Domme in the BDSM scene. A Lifestyle Mistress, she enjoys attending fetish events as well as benefitting from her own live-in, long-term submissive. In her personal life, Cara Sutra enjoys bisexual and kinky sex escapades, while her partner despairs at the mountain of sex toys, heels and corsets taking over the house.
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Articles by Cara Sutra


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Feeling bi-curious? Here are some tips on how to address it with your partner

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Feel like a spanking? Here's how to deliver one both safely and soundly

Q&A by Cara Sutra



The spectrum of adult human sexuality and desire encompasses a myriad of emotional needs, sexual kinks, and various fetishes. Please don't...


A male chastity cage is a device used to fulfill the desires of those with a fetish for chastity and orgasm control. They prevent a man...


Although most people would never combine the words 'electric' and 'genitals' and reach a happy conclusion, there are pleasure lovers around...


The short answer is yes, glass sex toys are safe to use for their designed purpose. You need to use a glass sex toy with a flared base for...


Sploshing, also known as the Wet and Messy (WAM) fetish, can involve the full-bodied clothed or naked enjoyment of liquids in a sexual way...


There are so many different kegel balls (also known as jiggle balls, Ben Wa balls or love balls) available. Many different materials are...


I’m unsure of whether you mean a physical location or a metaphorical/psychological one, so I’ll cover both aspects. It’s interesting that...


First, I'd like to point out that you can't really become a Dominant. Being Dominant is a characteristic you either have or you don't. You...


Compatibility in relationships is an important issue, and for those with an interest in kink and BDSM there can be an even greater pressure...


Shibari is a particularly creative, artistic and, to many, a highly attractive form of bondage. In Shibari, rope is used to create...


My advice is to first establish your desires. Are you seeking a lifestyle or a Professional Mistress? Would you prefer session-based, or...