Perspectives


Sex is all about experience. Check in here for stories and viewpoints about all things sexual.

Women who seek advice from relationship experts on how to find a man to marry are told to keep their legs clamped shut. I happen to agree. But what about if your idea of a fulfilled life doesn't include a husband, three kids and a mortgage?

Casual sex isn't harmful or beneficial: It's both. Find out how it's likely to turn out for you by answering these nine questions.

Where are the boys? Why so few men blog about sex.

Wondering what this term really means or how it's defined? We asked some very sex positive people for their thoughts.

For many people, sexuality is surrounded by confusion, misinformation and suffering. Talking about sex in an educational, meaningful way can elicit clarity, understanding and even joy. Any questions?

In an effort to find and promote the best sex blogs on the Web, we're highlighting a new sex blogger every month. Here's our interview with Sinclair Sexsmith.

Healing is not a linear path. The best way to support a survivor is to empower them to ask for what they need, when they’re ready.

Feeling self-conscious and frustrated at this uncontrollable display of emotion? Here are some things you should know.

Great sex takes passion, creativity and a sense of humor. Here are six signs you're getting it right.

Millions of people don’t quite fit into the boxes placed around our ideas of gender. Find out how to address all people and genders with sensitivity - rather than coming off as a jerk.

This time of year the Internet is full of some hilarious, poignant and sexy top 10 lists. Here are a few of the sexiest we could find.

The mutual dance of pleasure and the sharing of physical intimacy is about much more than "getting off;" it represents a deeper manifestation of our true inner selves. Read more about the author's journey here.

This might be an odd question for Kinkly regulars, but think about your friends who might not be as attuned to the wonderful, wild, wicked and sometimes downright weird world of sex. What sex-related content do they read?

Years of sex advice columns and well-meaning but ultimately bad tips might have left you feeling that we're all reasonably similar when it comes to sexual tastes. We aren't.

From better access to birth control to better, safer sex play, here are few things that are worth being thankful for.

This infographic from ProjectKnow argues that pornography is addictive and damaging. We want to hear what you think.

Fisting Day isn't just about, well, fisting, it's about how we view certain sex acts compared to others. Find out more about what it means, and what it matters.

In this video, author and sex columnist Dan Savage argues against the idea that monogamy is necessary - or even natural - in a committed relationship.

Being a slut is not a bad thing. Is it time to wear it as a badge of honor?

We asked sex educators, bloggers, scholars and activists for a top sex tip. Boy, did they deliver.