Baskin Robbins is famous for their 31 flavours. KFC has their secret blend of 11 herbs and spices. Remember when the Nintendo 64 dazzled us with its spectacular display? Sex, on the other hand, has an unlimited capacity to make us want to use tongues, lick our fingers, and watch everything that's happening! This week's Sex Stories We Love offers up some new tips and techniques for your sexual repertoire.
In this week's Sex Stories We Love, we're adding some new tips and techniques to help you keep your sexytime extra sexy!
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First, who among us hasn't been in the position of really, really wanting some sexytime shenanigans...but being too damn tired to make anything happen? Work, kids, family, pets, hobbies...there are countless reasons for us to feel too exhausted to be erotic. That gets really frustrating! We all want to think of sex as fun and spontaneous...to rip off those clothes any time, anywhere. Unfortunately, for many people, sex becomes something that needs to be slotted into increasingly busy schedules. Adding another item to the daily agenda becomes overwhelming. Fortunately, there are some ways to have sex that still feel great but exert less energy. Give some of these a shot if there's only one part of you up for action. Okay, if you're struggling with staying awake to have sex, you might not want to try this next tip. Adding a blindfold can be a great way to amp up your sexy fun by subtraction! By removing the stimuli from one sense, all of your other senses can become heightened. That can definitely increase reaction and response. Blindfolds are often associated with BDSM activities. Yet they really have lots of different hot uses. In addition to sense and stimulation, blindfolds create anticipation by not offering the chance to see what your partner will do next, as well as creating sensual vulnerability by putting yourself in your partner's hands. This very versatile addition is a must have for your tickle trunk. Oh, penis...whatever are we to do with you? Sometimes what you do with a penis depends entirely on the size and shape of the cock in question. However, this isn't the stereotypical, stigma-inducing discussion about penis size. Yes, they come in many different sizes and there is no one perfect size. Big isn't necessarily best and small isn't necessarily bad. How you play with a penis is up to the situation at hand (no pun intended). There are different ways to maximize pleasure for both partners whether you're seducing a small penis or loving a large penis. Either situation can be glorious and challenging, but there's no point in getting stressed over mountains or molehills....climb 'em every way that's fun!
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Oh, clitoris...whatever are we to do with you? Not to backtrack on what we just learned about penises...but they are, generally, easier to learn about and understand than the clitoris. Experiencing pleasure through clitoral play can take some time to learn, for both the person with the clit and others who join in the fun. Really, people are just discovering the real shape of the clit. Traditionally, the clitoris, vulva, and vagina pleasure weren't prioritized. If you have one of those amazing sexual hot spots, check out these sexual techniques to get to know your clitoris and how your body responds. If you want to share with someone else, all the better for them! For many, the holidays are approaching and that means traveling to visit family. That can also mean bunking down at their house after parties and good times. Or maybe you're the one with the visitors. Either way, it can be extra stressful. Chances are, you might want to enjoy some sexytimes over the festive season, but have limited possibilities to make it happen. Whether you want to continue the holiday merriment or need to blow off some steam because your family makes you want to pull your hair out, sneak off and try these quiet sex tips. Getting back to the fun and chaos with a smile on your face must be the best present ever! Finally, are you curious what the rest of this big, sexy world is doing? Check out these different sex tips from around the globe.
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Jon Pressick
Jon Pressick is a sex-related media gadabout. For more than 20 years, Jon has been putting sex into our daily conversations at his long-running site SexInWords—as a writer, editor, publisher, sex toy reviewer, radio host, workshop facilitator, event producer and more. These days, he focuses on writing for Kinkly, GetMeGiddy, The Buzz and PinkPlayMags and editing Jason Armstrong's series of Solosexual books. In 2015, Jon edited Cleis Press' Best Sex Writing of the Year, V1 to rave reviews. He's also the winner of the 2010 TNT Favourite Adult Journalist Award and one of Broken Pencil's 50 People and Places We Love past co-host and producer of Sex City. Jon co-produced the queer literary festival Writing Outside the Margins with Xtra Magazine for two years. You can find him on Twitter at @Sexinwords.
