Steph Auteri has written about sexuality for the Atlantic, VICE, Pacific Standard, the Washington Post, and other publications. Her more literary work has appeared in Poets & Writers, VQR, Creative Nonfiction, and elsewhere. She is a regular contributor to Book Riot, the Pure Romance Buzz blog, and the Feminist Book Club, the author of A DIRTY WORD, and the founder of Guerrilla Sex Ed.
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Many people are most concerned with discretion when it comes to sex toy storage. But hygiene and safety are most important—there's no shame in owning a sexy stash!
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Lots of lube, weed and a good vibrator might be a good start when you are wondering how to get your sexy back. But for lasting, meaningful connection, you are going to need more!
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It's common to assume that there is one sexual standard - one level of normal - to which we should aspire. In reality, we're all different and we're all OK.
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Despite my enduring cynicism, I can still be pleasantly surprised by a new sex toy.
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Instead of centering my orgasm, why don't we put it to the side? Sex is about the both of us.
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