Every year as October approaches, the buzz starts in the Kinkly office. It’s almost Superheroes time! This year, however, is a very different kind of year. Are you feeling us? Kinkly’s staff hasn’t been in the office since March, and this year’s list is being planned remotely.

But, you know what? Even in the midst of a global pandemic, there was no question in our minds that the Sex Blogging Superheroes list would roll out as planned. Because sex ed is important, y’all, even now - especially now!

At a time when everyone is less likely to be out getting sex ed in their communities, now is also a great time to celebrate what sex bloggers do: They entertain, they demystify, they de-stigmatize and they educate people about the big, wide world of sex in all its forms. Our Sex Blogging Superheroes list is designed to shine a light on all these corners of the internet and, in doing so, help readers connect with this content, and find the blogs that resonate with them.

At a time when everyone is less likely to be out getting sex ed in their communities, now is also a great time to celebrate what sex bloggers do: They entertain, they demystify, they de-stigmatize and they educate people about the big, wide world of sex in all its forms.

Plus, we can’t think of a better time to dig into reading about sex. We can’t solve the world’s problems, but we sure can provide a temporary antidote to pandemic malaise.

Want to get started reading about sex right now? Check out our Sex Blogger Directory.


What is the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes List?

Haven’t been here before? Welcome! Since 2013, Kinkly has been compiling a list of top sex blogs using a combination of reader votes and internal assessment. Why? Because there’s lots of amazing content out there, and we want to help people find it! Whether you’re looking for sex toy reviews, BDSM, queer content or blogs by BIPOC bloggers, our aim is to help readers like you find bloggers that produce the kind of content they are looking for. The Superheroes list also helps us freshen up our Sex Blogger Directory every year to ensure that new blogs are added, defunct blogs are removed and that we continue to provide the very best sex content we can find.

Since 2013, Kinkly has been compiling a list of top sex blogs using a combination of reader votes and internal assessment. Why? Because there’s lots of amazing content out there, and we want to help people find it!

Want to peruse past Sex Blogging Superhero lists? You can find them here:

What You Need to Know About the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2020


  • If you have some favorite sex blogs you’d like to support, you can vote for them by finding them in our Sex Blogger Directory. You can vote for as many blogs as you want, but only once for each blog.

  • If you’d like to collect votes for our own blog, you can add your blog here or update your listing here.

  • Blogs only need five votes to be considered for the Top 100 Superheroes List. Our team will read and evaluate every blog that garners the five-vote minimum.

  • Only blogs that receive at least five votes by October 16, 2020, will be eligible to be included in the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes list of 2020.

  • We’ll release the list of Sex Blogging Superheroes on November 6, 2020.

How are blogs evaluated?


We get this question every year and not much has changed! Here’s what we look for in the blogs we evaluate:

  • Writing Quality: When people are seeking a resource - whether it’s for sex tips or erotic stories- they’re looking for quality content. We look at writing quality first and foremost. Top points go to writers with something to say and an engaging way of saying it.

  • Frequency of Posts: In general, a blog that updates its content regularly is a better resource than one that doesn’t. Blogs that have posted at least 12 times in the past year get top marks on this measure.

  • Sex Positive: Our aim is to promote blogs that help people fully embrace their sexual selves - no matter what that means for them. Blogs that embrace consent, safety and the acceptance of sexual diversity get top marks from us. If your site is mean, sexist, body-negative or promotes hate of different sexual orientations or gender identities we won’t even score it - we’ll take off our Sex Blogger Directory altogether.

  • Design: Blogs that look professional and are easy to navigate are better for users! Each blog is assessed for its design in accordance with the audience it aims to serve as well as how well the blog functions.

  • Social Media: This score is based on whether a blog has a social presence, not how many followers it has. If a blog has at least two active social media profiles, it gets top marks here.

  • Overall Impression: This one’s subjective, but this portion involves a combined score from each person on our panel based on their overall impression of the blog.

  • Votes!: A blog only needs five votes to be considered for our Sex Blogging Superheroes list, but more votes do help to boost the blog’s total score. After all, we don’t want to be the only ones deciding which blogs are the best - we need help from the people who read those blogs and love them!

To vote for your favorite blogs, go to the Sex Blogger Directory and visit the blogger's profile page. Then just click "Vote." It's that easy!

New This Year …

As in previous years, this year’s list will remain unranked. We’ll also be adding a new category for BIPOC blogs in an effort to help our site be a better resource for people looking to read or work with BIPOC bloggers. If you identify as a BIPOC blogger, please be sure to tag your blog as such under your profile.

Categories and Prizing

You guys! If you’re on the fence about making a push to get your blog on the Sex Blogging Superheroes list (or giving that vote to a blogger you follow), you should know that there are prizes! This year’s categories and prizes look like this:

Readers’ Choice - $500 Cash

This goes to the blog with the most votes.

Top New Sex Blog - $100 Gift Card to Kinkly Shop

The top blog in this category must have been started up in the past year and must not have appeared on previous Sex Blogging Superheroes lists.

Top BIPOC Blog - $150 Gift Card to Kinkly Shop

This goes to the top BIPOC blogger (according to how it’s labeled in our Sex Blogger Directory.)

Top Sex Toy Review Blog - $150 Gift Card to Kinkly Shop

This goes to the top blog that features sex toy reviews as a key part of its content.

Top LGBTQ Blog - $150 Gift Card to Kinkly Shop

This goes to the top blog that features content geared toward the LGBTQ community.

Top Blogs For/By Men - $150 Gift Card to Kinkly Shop

This goes to the top blog written by a blogger who identifies as a man and writes for men.

Top Erotic Blog - $150 Gift Card to Kinkly Shop

This goes to the top blog that includes or focuses on erotic stories (either personal or fictional).

The Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2020 Are …

On November 6th, we’ll announce the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2020. We can’t wait to meet some new bloggers, get immersed in their content and throw a few sexy sparkles out into the world.

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