Just like ice cream, sex comes in many different flavours. And as desires draw us to different tastes, they can also vary in terms of our appetites. Sometimes we want one scoop, two scoops, three scoops...or maybe the whole damn carton! This is the sex party edition of Sex Stories We Love!

Trying Threesomes

Somewhere along the way, the idea that sex happens between two people became the accepted societal norm. Despite our historical propensity to explore sex in every configuration and number possible. People have wanted sexy time in numbers forever, but we've been stuck on two for a long time. As folks discover their desires and feelings for more than one lover, one of the ways some people first live out their fantasy is by introducing a third into their existing relationship. Whether a threesome is based on an emotional connection or a hookup, there are numerous stories and experiences out there to absorb. And some useful advice to be gained.

Changing Attitudes

Sometimes they're called orgies. Sometimes they're called key parties. Sometimes, bacchanalia! Even though sex parties were pushed underground in recent centuries, people have came together to come together at sex parties throughout human existence. Maybe back in the day it was easier to attend and throw a sex party. These days, it can take a certain level of gumption and getting over sex negative stigma to go to a party. However, for some, once they do attend a sexy get-together, it can certainly change one's outlook on their own sexual desires and their opinions on sexual society.

A Different Kind of Sex Party

Okay, not all sex parties are parties where people have sex. It's important that we grow and continue to foster environments that promote open and honest discussion about sex to further grow our sexual society. For far too long, women were (and continue to be) kept from most every discussion of sex—whether that be legal matters, health matters, or even the consideration of their own feelings, fears, anxieties, and potential pleasure related to sex. We're still not a sex positive society for women, but events and spaces such as those offered by Unblush for women to explore their feelings toward sex can make a huge difference in helping women move past centuries of patriarchal sexual oppression.

Planning Sex Parties

Have you considered throwing your own sex party? In theory, it should be simple, right? Get a bunch of horny people in a room, let them flirt and mingle, and you're off! Well, no. Planning a sex party, well, planning a successful sex party that protects attendees while at the same time maximizing the potential for pleasure is no easy feat. There are many things to consider when planning a sex party, from picking the right people, ensuring enthusiastic consent, safer sex supplies (if desired), refreshments, and even entertainment! At the same time, we do not need to remember that sex parties are still taboo, and people from vulnerable communities do need to be careful.

App for That?

Given the prevalence of electronic connection these days, it is not at all surprising that there's an app for those who enjoy group sex. As we've seen in other articles, different folks have different criteria for finding any number of people for sexy fun and games. Unfortunately, while we've come to rely on these types of apps with an expectation of privacy and security, we should all be aware that the internet is full of holes—and none of them are particularly glorious. So, were you one of the 1.5 million 3fun users? Did you know their data security was found to be pretty useless?

Randy Robbery

Finally, if you're going to host an anonymous sex party in your home, be sure to lock down all of your valuables...including your gun!


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