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It seems simple, but when you’re femme, queer, fat and disabled, society tells you to take up as little space as possible. And that you...

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Take this quiz to find out how daring you've been in your sex life and maybe discover a thing or two that you want to try!

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Betty Dodson died on October 31, 2020, but the gifts of pleasure and education she gave to vulva owners are timeless. Here are some of the...

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At age 48, I was curious but nervous about having my first threesome (FMF). I tried it, I loved it, I learned 5 crucial things. Here they...

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Gender affirmation can be tricky, but it's worth taking the time to get it right. Here are some thinking points to help!

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Sex Work During COVID may not be the first thing you think of when it comes to combating pandemic induced isolation, but our writer found...

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Are you kinky or vanilla? How did you come to that conclusion and why? Here's what the experts say.

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Finding your fetish can unleash all kinds of delights in the bedroom and beyond. So how do you discover your kink?

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I was skeptical at first about whether working with a sex coach would be worth the money or the time. But it turned out to be the best...

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Every year, around Pride, I hear the same question: Do I belong at Pride? Should I consider myself queer? Here's why only you get to decide...

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In a time when a lot of people’s regular routines and practices have been disrupted, masturbation is keeping a group of more than two dozen...

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Fifteen years ago, I had a medical procedure called LEEP, which left me with no libido and pain during sex. Gradually over the years, I...

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If orgasms are so beneficial, why not have them whenever - and wherever - we can?

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There’s always room for improvement, right? In the spirit of being a better lover and partner in 2020, I pulled together 15 things I’d like...

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Erotic dance is a way of simply enjoying the sexual pleasure of the moment. So if you need a sexy boost to your day, check out an erotic...

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Arts and crafts aren't just for children. We're talking about adult arts and crafts with Jen Stein!

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In regards to abled-disabled coupling and navigating the potential divide, the best general rule of thumb is: Do not question disabled...

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Sex and cannabis? Here's what Ashley Manta, the Cannasexual, has to say about it.

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Whatever your want from your sex life, writing it down can help. Here are 7 ways journaling could boost your sex life.

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