FemDom


FemDom refers to a BDMS scene or lifestyle in which a female plays the dominant partner, or top. Check in here for content about domination geared toward female dominants.



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Our writer took a femdom class. Here are the top 10 takeaways they learned that you can bring to your bedroom.

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Add a new dimension to your D/s play by exploring a new persona. Here's how to get started.

Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) 101 Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) 101 Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) 101 Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) 101


There's something inherently vulnerable about being naked in front of another human. In Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM), kinksters...

5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity 5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity 5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity 5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity


Have a partner in chastity that is bored of the same old lock-and-key games? Here are 5 games to play with your partner to spice up your...

A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging


Pegging can be nerve-racking for first timers - whether you're giving or receiving. But with some planning, research and practice, pegging...

10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People 10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People 10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People 10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People


Pegging while plus-size? It has its challenges - but there's no need to miss out on any of the fun.

7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom 7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom 7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom 7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom


Looking for a softer side of dominance? Gentle FemDom might be just what you're looking for.

Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron? Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron? Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron? Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron?


Dominance doesn't have to involve humiliation or strict demands. We dig into some of the more nuanced versions of D/s.

Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches


Even among the BDSM community, there's some confusion about tops, bottoms and switches. We clear things up.

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Nervous about taking control? These three scenes provide a simple blueprint for your erotic encounter.

3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships 3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships 3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships 3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships


Femdom (feminine domination) seems like fun for women, but even in an overt position of power, they can't seem to escape sexism.

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Thinking about introducing bondage play into your relationship? We know that can be hard; we have tips on how you can make it easier!

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Want to be not just a Dominant but a good Dominant? Here's a complete, step-by-step guide on how to use your powers as a Dominant for good.

Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme


Finding a good match in the vanilla world is hard; finding it on the kinky side can be even harder. Here are some tips on how to attract...

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During the day, I look like any other mom sitting in a local cafe. If you see me later in the day, you might not recognize me.

What Does a Real Dominant Look Like? What Does a Real Dominant Look Like? What Does a Real Dominant Look Like? What Does a Real Dominant Look Like?


What traits do real dominants have in common? Kinkly finds out! Here's a hint - it's not all about sex.

Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment? Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment? Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment? Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment?


Pain is what we make of it. How you incorporate pain into your sex life is totally up to you and your consenting partner. Don't be afraid...

Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play


Consent can allow for revisiting memories and trauma in a safe space, but it requires communication, compassion and vulnerability.

A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination


Don't think you have what it takes to be a Dominatrix? We disagree. Find out how to embrace your shy personality and still be a great Domme.

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