FemDom


FemDom refers to a BDMS scene or lifestyle in which a female plays the dominant partner, or top. Check in here for content about domination geared toward female dominants.



A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging


Pegging can be nerve-racking for first timers - whether you're giving or receiving. But with some planning, research and practice, pegging...

10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People 10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People 10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People 10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People


Pegging while plus-size? It has its challenges - but there's no need to miss out on any of the fun.

7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom 7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom 7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom 7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle FemDom


Looking for a softer side of dominance? Gentle FemDom might be just what you're looking for.

Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron? Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron? Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron? Gentle Dominance: An Oxymoron?


Dominance doesn't have to involve humiliation or strict demands. We dig into some of the more nuanced versions of D/s.

Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches


Even among the BDSM community, there's some confusion about tops, bottoms and switches. We clear things up.

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Nervous about taking control? These three scenes provide a simple blueprint for your erotic encounter.

3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships 3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships 3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships 3 Ways Sexism Influences FemDom Relationships


Femdom (feminine domination) seems like fun for women, but even in an overt position of power, they can't seem to escape sexism.

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Thinking about introducing bondage play into your relationship? We know that can be hard; we have tips on how you can make it easier!

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Want to be not just a Dominant but a good Dominant? Here's a complete, step-by-step guide on how to use your powers as a Dominant for good.

Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme


Finding a good match in the vanilla world is hard; finding it on the kinky side can be even harder. Here are some tips on how to attract...

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During the day, I look like any other mom sitting in a local cafe. If you see me later in the day, you might not recognize me.

What Does a Real Dominant Look Like? What Does a Real Dominant Look Like? What Does a Real Dominant Look Like? What Does a Real Dominant Look Like?


What traits do real dominants have in common? Kinkly finds out! Here's a hint - it's not all about sex.

Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment? Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment? Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment? Why Does Pain Have to Be Punishment?


Pain is what we make of it. How you incorporate pain into your sex life is totally up to you and your consenting partner. Don't be afraid...

Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play


Consent can allow for revisiting memories and trauma in a safe space, but it requires communication, compassion and vulnerability.

A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination


Don't think you have what it takes to be a Dominatrix? We disagree. Find out how to embrace your shy personality and still be a great Domme.

5 Ways to Spot a Good Submissive 5 Ways to Spot a Good Submissive 5 Ways to Spot a Good Submissive 5 Ways to Spot a Good Submissive


Are you new to the BDSM lifestyle? Are you ready to find a sub, but don't know where to start? Use these five things to help you spot the...

The Basics of BDSM Negotiation The Basics of BDSM Negotiation The Basics of BDSM Negotiation The Basics of BDSM Negotiation


BDSM is more than just spankings and other naughty adventures. It's also about negotiation to meet needs. Here's how to make sure that...

What Do Feminism and BDSM Have in Common? What Do Feminism and BDSM Have in Common? What Do Feminism and BDSM Have in Common? What Do Feminism and BDSM Have in Common?


When you look at what they have in common, feminism and BDSM should be allies in helping everyone achieve smarter sex that takes place...

6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger 6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger 6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger 6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger


Interested and confused by the thought of purchasing a flogger for your sexy time? Never fear! Kinkly.com has 6 steps to help you choose...

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