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Many kinksters avoid coming out to their healthcare providers, from physicians to therapists, because they either think it's none of their...

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How does that mechanical lover drive you so wild? We take a more scientific look into what's inside a high-quality vibrator - and what to...

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Just the penis facts! There are a lot of myths and misconceptions when it comes to penises. We do the hard work of setting the record...

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The most sexual satisfied people are those who took the time to explore different sexual identities before settling on their own. Find out...

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Sapiosexuality is when someone is emotionally or sexually aroused by another person’s intelligence. Here's a look at this kind of...

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Here are three ways to be a present and an active ally that enhances Pride instead of detracting from it.

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In a nutshell, demisexuality is basically about needing to an emotional connection with someone before becoming turned on to them. Here's a...

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Every year, around Pride, I hear the same question: Do I belong at Pride? Should I consider myself queer? Here's why only you get to decide...

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Studies on sexual trauma and PTSD, in particular, have shown that social support or a lack thereof has a potent and direct impact on the...

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Fifteen years ago, I had a medical procedure called LEEP, which left me with no libido and pain during sex. Gradually over the years, I...

How to Strengthen Your Erotic Imagination How to Strengthen Your Erotic Imagination How to Strengthen Your Erotic Imagination How to Strengthen Your Erotic Imagination


Your imagination, after all, knows no limit and by using it to fantasize about sex you might very well develop close-to-limitless erotic...

How to Be a Trauma-Informed Sex Partner How to Be a Trauma-Informed Sex Partner How to Be a Trauma-Informed Sex Partner How to Be a Trauma-Informed Sex Partner


Being a trauma-informed sexual partner isn’t just about interacting with people who have openly disclosed trauma. It is the mindset we need...

The Benefits of Knowing Your Body (And Your Vulva) The Benefits of Knowing Your Body (And Your Vulva) The Benefits of Knowing Your Body (And Your Vulva) The Benefits of Knowing Your Body (And Your Vulva)


Masturbation is your time to devote your attention to yourself and your pleasure. Here are just a few of the many reason why masturbation...

How to Stop COVID-19 From Ruining Your Sex Life How to Stop COVID-19 From Ruining Your Sex Life How to Stop COVID-19 From Ruining Your Sex Life How to Stop COVID-19 From Ruining Your Sex Life


If you broaden your definition of sexual intimacy and get creative, you could not only continue to have a sex life during the Coronavirus...

How Sex Toys Can Help You Reclaim Your Sexuality After Assault How Sex Toys Can Help You Reclaim Your Sexuality After Assault How Sex Toys Can Help You Reclaim Your Sexuality After Assault How Sex Toys Can Help You Reclaim Your Sexuality After Assault


By utilizing tools such as masturbation and sex toys survivors can define what sexuality and bodily agency look

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People of all genders and genitalia can experience wet dreams, so why do they have such a penis-owner rap?

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As a sex counselor, I often hear male clients in particular, comment that they don’t need the services of sex workers and won’t pay for...

My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community My First Sex Toy: Reflections from the Sex Community


Do you remember your first sex toy? We asked folks from the sex community to share the stories of their first sex toy. Their memories are...

4 Myths About the Hymen to Stop Believing 4 Myths About the Hymen to Stop Believing 4 Myths About the Hymen to Stop Believing 4 Myths About the Hymen to Stop Believing


There’s perhaps no part of the human body as fraught with myths as the hymen. Here are four myths young people are still learning about the...

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