Stella Harris

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Stella Harris is an erotica writer, BDSM educator, and sex & intimacy coach. She teaches for a variety of sex-positive organizations in Portland, Oregon in addition to leading and organizing her own public classes and offering private instruction. Publication highlights include several anthologies by Cleis Press and a series of tantalizing and informative articles on Through her writing and teaching she explores the complex world of love and lust and strives to help people explore their kinks safely and free of shame.
Recent Articles on Kinkly by Stella Harris

Strap-On (Fore) Play

Oral sex with a strap-on may seem besides the point, but it can actually be a an intimate and exhilarating experience for both parties.
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Scared to Buy Your First Sex Toy? Here's What to Do

Choosing a sex toy is kind of like dating; there are seemingly countless options and you can’t tell what you’re going to get based on just pictures. But unlike dating, many people won’t ask for recommendations from their friends.
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The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Milking

Ready to try prostate milking? Here's how to do it.

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