Stella Harris

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Stella Harris is an erotica writer, BDSM educator, and sex & intimacy coach. She teaches for a variety of sex-positive organizations in Portland, Oregon in addition to leading and organizing her own public classes and offering private instruction. Publication highlights include several anthologies by Cleis Press and a series of tantalizing and informative articles on Through her writing and teaching she explores the complex world of love and lust and strives to help people explore their kinks safely and free of shame.
Recent Articles on Kinkly by Stella Harris

Anal Play and IBS - Why It Doesn't Have to Be a No Go

For some people, the pleasure and intimacy of anal make working through some additional considerations worthwhile.

Got a Vulva? Here's How to Love Oral Sex

Banish that wandering mind and those fears about smell, taste and the elusive orgasm. Stop worrying and start enjoying!

The Rise of Online Sex and Relationship Support

The number of high quality resources for sex education is increasing online. You just need to know where - and how - to look for them.

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