BDSM Gear Reviews and Articles for Discerning Specialists The main idea for this site was to highlight gear and ideas that have worked for our BDSM play adventures. Many review sites are ad or free stuff based while we are doing it just to give a little back to others and have fun documenting our adventures. Being in our 30s and financially stable we are able to splurge for nice things so you won't see the cheapo vanilla sextoy type gear here unless so functional we think worth mentioning. Started by Ken (male dominant), he still gets lots of help from Kate (female submissive) to make things happen. Although certainly gear snobs on some level, we still are interested in checking out new quality toys so welcome any offers and will certainly reply back with interest level and review capabilities. Thank you for visiting and hope you find the site useful!