We often call Sex Blogging Superheroes "the most wonderful time of the year." And, yes, it is hard not to hear that cheesy Christmas song in the background, complete with spinning and dancing.

We try to have a lot of fun over here at Kinkly. This year, like every other year we did have fun reading through sex blogs. But the problem is, this isn't the most wonderful time of year. Not at all. In fact, for many people - and the world at large - this year has been pretty awful. This is the seventh iteration of the Sex Blogging Superheroes list, and it falls during a very bizarre, chaotic and stressful time.

So, first, can we just say a big "thank you" to all the bloggers and sex educators out there doing their thing in all this? We see you, and we hope this year's list will help provide a little levity, deliver some much-needed new reading material and help connect you with other people out there on the web. If there's anything we need this year, it's to feel like we aren't out here all alone. Please take care of yourselves, OK?

On the bright side of things, despite all the things that have been cancelled and postponed over the past few months, the Sex Blogging Superheroes list is alive and well - and full of bloggers who are also persisting under tough circumstances. This year, bloggers got more votes than ever. Y'all are awesome!

To celebrate just how awesome all y'all are we decided to do something different for our Sex Blogging Superheroes imagery this year. Our header image is a mosaic created from the blogger profile photos of our Superheroes from this year! Zoom in to see if you can find your favorites!

Now, on to this year's list! As in past years, this year's top 100 is unranked. Why? Because sex blogs are a lot like sex toys - some are better than others but, it's up to you to decide which one's best for you.

Even so, we do crown a winner in each category. This seems like a better way to narrow things down for those searching for specific types of blogs. (You can also use the filter function on our Sex Blogger Directory for that.) Plus, we'd hate to pass up the chance to give out some prizes from Kinkly and Kinkly Shop. In case you missed it, you can read more about how we evaluate blogs here.

Since 2013, Kinkly has been compiling a list of top sex blogs using a combination of reader votes and internal assessment. There’s lots of amazing content out there, and we want to help people find it!

Want to see ALL the blogs?
Visit the
Sex Blogger Directory

Sex Blogging Superhero Categories and Prizing for 2020

Readers' Choice Award

This award is based on a combination of readers' votes and Kinkly staff's evaluation of the blog's content. This sex-positive super-blogger gets $500 cash!

Top New Sex Blogs of 2020

This category is just for brand-new bloggers. These are blogs that are new to the scene and did not appear in last year's top 100. This year, the top new blog will receive a $100 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.

Top Sex Toy Review Blogs of 2020

We know that many people rely on sex bloggers for quality sex toy reviews. This category celebrates the top blogs that include or focus on sex toy reviews. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.

Top BIPOC Blogs of 2020

This goes to top bloggers who identify as BIPOC. As part of our commitment to supporting the Black Lives Matter movement, we wanted to make our site a better resource for people looking to read or work with bloggers in this space. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.

Top LGBTQIA Blogs of 2020

This was a new category in 2018 and it's still going strong! We're looking to celebrate the best blogs with LGBTQIA content. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.

Top Blogs for/by Men 2020

In the sex blogging community, women and femmes tend to rule! This category is for blogs written by men and geared toward a male audience. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.

Top Erotica Blogs of 2020

This category will honor the top blogs for sexy erotic fiction - because we know a lot of our readers are into that! This year's winner will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.

And now, without further ado, here are our top 100 sex blogs for 2020 (plus how to follow them on Twitter) - in alphabetical order.

Top Sex Blogs of 2020

A Sexual Being @KaylaLords

Arousability @arousibility

Ask Carlos @AskCarlosTV

Backwoods Bedroom @bkwoodsbedroom

BDSM-COUPLE @BDSM_COUPLE

Bella LaVey @BellaLaVey

Betty Butch @betty_butch

bluesubmission @bluesubmission

Bound Together @togetherbound

Brigit Delaney's Dirty Laundry

Cara_Sutra @TheCaraSutra

Couple of Secrets@Coupleofsecrets

D/scovering Kink@DscoveringKink

Deviant Succubus@DeviantSuccubus

Dildo or Dildont @Makeupandsin

Disabled Sex Guide @GuideDisabled

Domme Chronicles @Ferns__

Dr. J. Author @DoctorJAuthor

E. L. Byrne Writer @ELByrne1

Exhibit A @EA_unadorned

Feisty Fox Films @feistyfoxfilms

FuckBlogging (Sex Life and Everything) @sexlifeandevery

Future of Sex @FutureofSex

Girl Boner @AugustMcLaughlin

Girl on the Net @girlonthenet

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Guy New York @Quickiesnewyork

Hedonish @hedonish

HerToysReview

Hey Epiphora @Epiphora

In Bed With Married Women

Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey

Jayne Renault @jayne_renault

Joanne's Sex Machine Reviews @joannesreviews

Juicy Sex Stories @juicysexstories

Kelvin Sparks @kelvinsparks_

Kink Lovers @KinkLovers

Kinky World

Kitten Boheme @KittenBoheme

Knkstripped ‎@ZebraRoseSub

Lascivity @LascivityTweet

Life of Violet @v_greyauthor

Liz BlackX @Lizblackx

Love, Emma @EmmaAus27418832

Love Letters to a Unicorn @auntievice

Love, Violet @fireandhoney

Master's Pleasing Bitch @MPBjulie

Mischa Eliot, Author of Smutty Works @mischa_eliot

Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews

Miss Smut Buttons @MissSmutButtons

MLSlavePuppet's Slave Journey @MlSlave

Molly's Daily Kiss @Mollysdailykiss

Naked at Our Age by Joan Price @JoanPrice

Off the Cuffs Blog @ocpkink

Oh Joy, Sex Toy @ErikaMoen

On Queer Street@OnQueerStreet

Phallophile Reviews

Poly.land @PolydotLand

Princess Previews @PrincessPreview

Queer Courtesan @QueerCourtesan

Quenby Creatives @QuenbyCreatives

Rain DeGrey @raindegrey

Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise

Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller

Sex Ed 102 With Kara Sutra @Kara_Sutra

Sex for Every Body @sex4everybody

Sexpert.com @sexpertmedia

SexToyCollective @ST_Collective_

SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha

Slutty Girl Problems @sluttygrlprobs

Spanking Theatre

Spices Of Lust @spicesoflust

Squeaky Bedsprings @Squeaky_Springs

Submissive Feminist @SubFeminist

Submissive Guide @subguide

Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith

Sunny Megatron @SunnyMegatron

Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

Tabitha Rayne @TabithaErotica

The Bambi Biohazard @BambiBiohazard

The Big Gay Review @thebiggayreview

The Black Pomegranate @BlkPomegranate

The Blooms Blog@Lotus_Blooms

The Dating Shit Show

The MamaSutra - Lanae St.John @TheMamaSutra

The Intellectual Homosexual @IntellectHomo

The Redhead Bedhead @JoEllenNotte

The Wench Works@thewenchworks

Vanilla Free Sex @vanillafreesex

Walker Thornton @WalkerThornton

Readers' Choice Award

Winner: Girl on the Net @girlonthenet

Arousability @arousibility

Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Love, Emma @EmmaAus27418832

Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews

On Queer Street@OnQueerStreet

SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha

Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith

Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

Top New Sex Blogs of 2020

Disabled Sex Guide @GuideDisabled

Nikki Nelson Writes @NikkiNWrites

Quenby Creatives @QuenbyCreatives

Vanilla Free Sex @vanillafreesex

Top Sex Toy Review Blogs of 2020

Winner: Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews

Arousability @arousibility

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey

Love, Violet @fireandhoney

SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha

Slutty Girl Problems @sluttygrlprobs

Spices Of Lust@spicesoflust

Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith

Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

Top BIPOC Blogs of 2020

Winner: Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

Dildo or Dildont @Makeupandsin

FuckBlogging (Sex Life and Everything) @sexlifeandevery

Jiz Lee @jizlee

Mollena @Mollena

Sacred Sexualities

The Aqua Kink @theaquakink

The Black Pomegranate @BlkPomegranate

The Wench Works @thewenchworks

Top LGBTQIA Blogs of 2020

Winner: Arousability @arousibility

Betty Butch @betty_butch

Girly Juice @Girly_Juice

Hey Epiphora @Epiphora

Love, Violet@fireandhoney

Kelvin Sparks @kelvinsparks_

Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith

Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache

On Queer Street@OnQueerStreet

Top Blogs for/by Men 2020

Winner: SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha

Exhibit A @EA_unadorned

FuckBlogging (Sex Life and Everything) @sexlifeandevery

Guy New York @Quickiesnewyork

Kelvin Sparks

Off the Cuffs Blog @ocpkink

The Big Gay Review @thebiggayreview

The Intellectual Homosexual @IntellectHomo

Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller

Top Erotica Blogs of 2020

Winner: Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith

Domme Chronicles @Ferns_

Girl on the Net @girlonthenet

Jayne Renault @jayne_renault

Liz BlackX @Lizblackx

Love, Violet @fireandhoney

Spices Of Lust @spicesoflust

Tabitha Rayne @TabithaErotica

Do you need ideas for your next steamy scene? Take our quiz to get a personalized scene built just for you!

If you're just tipping your toe into the world of BDSM, you may be unsure where to even start when it comes to planning out a scene.

We made this quiz to provide you with your next, or first, BDSM scene based on your own tastes and desires!