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Kinkly Gift Guide: Our Top Picks for Kinky People

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Got a partner who leans toward kinky (or kink-curious)? Here are some of our top gift picks for kinky people.

Here at Kinkly, we're big proponents of sexy gift-giving. After all, if you're seeking a happy holiday and happy New Year, a happy ending is one of the best ways to get there. A happy, healthy, exciting sex life is a great way to strengthen your relationship with your partner, learn more about yourself and spend some time doing something just for fun and pleasure. (Because, let's be honest, how often do we really let ourselves just let go?) We have gift guides for newbies and couples, but if your partner leans toward kinky, that opens up a whole bunch of other options. Here are some of our top gift picks for kinky people.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Roleplay and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

If you're interested in kink, this is considered the guide to BDSM. This collection of essays covers everything from how-to's to philosophical questions about desire, power exchange and pleasure. Each chapter is written by a different sexuality educator, providing a wide range of perspectives. A must read for all kinky (and kink-curious) people!


The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure by Charlie Glickman

Interest in anal sex is on the upswing. If you want to experiment, get educated. This guide by sex educator Charlie Glickman will teach you everything you need to know to explore anal play safely and pleasurably.

SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

This books is one of the most comprehensive introductory books on sadomasochism. It contains the information BDSM beginners need, but is an excellent guide for all practitioners.

The Big Book of Submission, Volume 2: 69 Kinky Tales, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel

A little kinky reading can really set the mood and provide some inspiration for your real-life encounters. This book of kinky stories will have you yearning to submit - or be submissive. Read it alone or (even better) aloud with your partner.

Sportsheets Edge Soft Leather Posture Collar

This sexy posture collar is hard where it needs to be and soft where it counts. The buttery leather makes it comfortable enough to wear, while the nickel-free hardware is safe for sensitive skin. Its stiff sides are designed to keep that submissive's chin up, because sexy is as sexy does.

The Rabbit Company Backdoor Rabbit

There are plenty of rabbit vibrators out there but this one's made just for backdoor action (because butts deserve all the fun!) If you like dual stimulation, anal play and are looking for something a little different, this toy might be just the ticket.

Lelo Adore Me Pleasure Set

Soft, sexy restraints, a power-packed vibrator and a silk blindfold make this pleasure set the ultimate luxury package for a kinky night in. Highly recommended!

Fleshlight Launch

This immersive, automated male masturbator provides the ultimate in self-pleasure, making it a great gift for someone you love. Mount a Fleshlight to the Kiiroo-powered launch and and then connect it to virtual reality porn for an amazing interactive experience.

Liberator Talea Spreader Bar

Let go of control but not comfort with this sexy spreader bar from Liberator. This soft bolster bar include connection points for bondage, but can also be used to elevate knees, head or hips. Combine this versatile toy with your imagination and fantasies - the options here are limitless.

Magic Wand Rechargeable by Vibratex

This beast of a vibrator is porn-famous for a reason. Set up your own sexy scene by putting this powerful cordless vibrator front and center.

Mystim Tension Lover E-Stim Unit

If you want to dabble in electro-sex, this erotic e-stim unit is your best bet. Connect the electrodes to your partner's body to create a sexy tingle or jolt, or connect the system to compatible dildos, vibrators and anal plugs.

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