Kinkly Gift Guide: Our Top Picks for Couples

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These sexy gifts will help you bring your A-game to the bedroom.

Maybe things are as hot as ever with your partner and you're just looking to try something new. Or, maybe your sex life has gotten a little ho-hum and you're looking for a way to take it back to hot-as-hell. Look no further. We've compiled a holiday gift list of some of our favorite sex toys for couples to use together, along with a sexy reading list that'll help you get your sex skills to A-list in no time flat.

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner

This is the essential guidebook to oral sex. Buying it for yourself is a gift for your partner - trust us!

She Comes First by Ian Kerner

Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man by Ian Kerner

Also by Ian Kerner, this book dives into the art of pleasuring a penis. It goes beyond tips to provide an entire philosophy on pleasing a male partner. A must read!

Passionista by Ian Kerner

Sex Hacks: Over 100 Tricks, Shortcuts and Secrets to Set Your Sex Life on Fire

OK, so maybe we're a bit biased here, but this fun, sexy short read delivers more than 100 unique tips to help you step-up your sex life.

Sex Hacks from Kinkly

Dirty Dates: Erotic Fantasies for Couples, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel

The brain is our biggest sex organ. This awesome book of erotic stories will help set the mood, whether you read it alone or (even better) aloud with your partner.

Dirty Dates: Erotic Fantasies for Couples, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Get all tied up - the easy way. This simple restraint system hides under your mattress until you're ready to play. This is one of the simplest, safest restraint systems out there. If bondage is your thing (or you think it might be), this is a must buy.


This beautiful, powerful wand vibrator makes a great party for one, but its ergonomic shape makes it well suited to couples' play too. This wand is well-designed and has all the luxury bells and whistles, including super-silky silicone, USB charging and a fully waterproof exterior.

Kiiroo Onyx 2 & Pearl 2 Couples' Set

This high-tech, teledildonic sex toy set is designed to allow couples to please each other remotely - even while they're miles apart. Each toy is great on its own too, and can even be paired with VR porn. If you're a bit of a tech geek, these toys are a blast to experiment with.

Dame Eva

This little vibrator is cute as, well, a bug, and is designed to be worn during intercourse to tickle that clitoris just so. Its unique design allows it to stay in place hands-free, providing pleasure without getting in the way. Clitoral stimulation is a must during penetrative sex. This little vibe makes it easy and fun.

Liberator Fascinator Throe

It looks like a simple blanket, but it's so much more. This large, cozy-soft throe is designed to provide a comfy playscape while protecting your bed, couch or floor from your sexcapades. This soft, fluffy blanket has an inner moisture barrier that keeps your bedding clean and dry. Toss it in the wash and start all over again.


If your partner's into prostate play, this prostate massager includes a remote control, allowing you to control his pleasure. It's great for hands-free play with a partner - or alone. LELO HUGO is powerful, well-designed and packed with pleasurable options.

LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle

This beautiful scented candle melts into sensual massage oil, creating the perfect intimate scene. Made from all-natural soy wax, shea butter and kernal oil to condition the skin. If you want to set a romantic, sexy mood, this is a great pick.

Sliquid H2O

We'd be remiss if we didn't include lube in our gift list - it makes everything so much better! This simple, safe water-based lube is a fan favorite. You can't go wrong with a good quality water-based lubricant like this one.

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