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Compliment and romanticize the penis. A lot of cock-owners feel self-conscious about their penises - just like people who own vulvas can feel. Speaking compliments out loud - and letting the cock-owner hear how much the giver loves the penis - can go a long way during cock worship.
Don't go for orgasm. While orgasm might be the goal later on, the "goal-oriented" touches and strokes you've come to rely on don't have much of a place in cock worship. Cock worship is all about exploring the entirety of the penis and enjoying every single inch. This means that you'll need to toss your "effective" techniques out the window to try connective, exploratory touch instead.
Don't forget the surrounding area. While cock worship is, primarily, about the penis, it also can (and should!) be about the surrounding area as well. Touch the inner thighs. Trace the crease between the thighs and the abdomen. Gently squeeze and touch the testicles. Trace fingers up their stomach, and lightly run fingers down the thighs. Think of the cock as the epicenter of the area to pleasure - but there's a whole lot of surrounding, sensitive skin that is there to explore too.
Use toys. If your cock worship session has been going on for a few hours, it makes sense that the giver's hand and mouth might get a bit tired. While a bit of soreness the next day can be a fun reminder of the cock worshipping session, there's no reason that the sensation needs to end once body parts start getting fatigued. Use sex toys like the Satisfyer Men Wand to swap out during cock worship to keep providing sensation when the giver needs a bit of a break.
Use hands-free sex toys. While you're at it, there's no reason that the cock worship session needs to ONLY pleasure the penis. If the cock-owner is into anal play, a toy like the Satisfyer Booty Beads can be slid up the butt before the cock worship session begins. This adds even more sensation to the experience - so you might end up taking more frequent breaks as the cock-owner may get closer to orgasm more quickly.
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Take your sweet time. It's hard to give off a "cock worship" vibe if you're trying to quickly get the cock-owner to orgasm in order to watch a TV series premiere. Instead, if the goal is cock worship, expect to spend an hour or two just on that activity. Take your time. Enjoy the sensations. Enjoy going from flaccid to erect - or just enjoying the flaccid sensations!
Remember cock worship isn't necessarily about erections or ejaculation. While most cock worship scenes tend to end in ejaculation - because the sensations of cock worship can feel fantastic and turn someone on - cock worship doesn't need to end that way. It's very possible that your cock-owner's penis may stay flaccid the entire time, and in the spirit of cock worship, that means loving, enjoying, and exploring the flaccid state just as thoroughly as you enjoy the erect state too. (For strap-on owners, this may include strapping on a packing dildo versus a penetrating dildo.)
Come up with rituals. Cock worship can be as ritualistic - or as simple - as you want it to be. One of the easiest ways to turn this activity into feeling like "worship", though, can be to figure out ritualistic aspects that you'd like to employ when you're doing cock worship scenes. This could include special music, dimmed lights, specific attire, vows that you repeat to one another, or physical movements that you both do before engaging in the cock worship.
Make them feel worshipped. There's a lot of things you can physically "do" to make a scene look like worship, but if the cock-owner doesn't feel like their parts are being worshipped, most of the frilly activities may be for naught. Express your appreciation for their parts. Make it clear there's nowhere else in the world you'd rather be. Show your enthusiasm and appreciation for being allowed near such a sensitive and private part of their body. Take breaks for compliments, sips of water, and lots of eye contact.
Set the mood. Cock worship scenes are all about adding a bit of pomp and circumstance to the average intimate time two people experience together. Figure out what "mood" would work best for the both of you - and make it a priority to "set" that mood before the cock worship scene. That might be a room lit only by candlelight. It might be a dungeon space with pulsing rock music. It might just be your bedroom - with all of the piles of "to-deal-with" items all nicely put away. Whatever it happens to be, discuss what an ideal "mood" for the two of you is - and work towards making it happen. Candlelight isn't for everybody - but it is for some.
What Can a Cock-Owner Do During Cock Worship?
In order to make cock worship successful, the owner of the penis needs to take some of the responsibility. While the giver will provide a lot of the sensation (and the "worship"), the penis owner is responsible for a lot of the scene framing - and ensuring that your cock worship session feels more like "worship" and less like a casual blowjob.
The cock-owner can do this through their words - but most importantly, they can do it through their full attention. If your partner is taking their time to ignore everything else in life - and just focus on an intimate part of the cock-owner's body - the least they can do is return the favor and be fully present for the experience.
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This means gently holding their partner's head still - or asking for a break - if they feel that ejaculation is approaching. They shouldn't let your mind wander to "help things last longer" - just openly communicate with their partner, let their partner turn their attention to other sensitive spots around the penis that may not be orgasm-inducing, and allow the cock-owner a bit to calm down before the orgasmic sensations resume again. Approaching orgasm - but not wanting cock worship to end - is entirely normal, and all it takes is a bit of communication to ensure that both partners stay fully present while still staving off orgasm for a bit longer.
The cock-owner is also responsible for providing the genuine gratitude, thanks, and appreciation that the giving partner should receive after such an intense, vulnerable, and intimate scene. Make sure that the giving partner feels appreciated for participating in a cock worship scene.
Above All, Have Fun
Your cock worship scene might be extremely serious - or it might involve fits of giggles. Your cock worship scene might incorporate bondage - or it might have a whole host of different sex toys to play with too.
The point is: it's your cock worship scene. The act of cock worship is unique to every person - and unique to every couple. Figure out what appeals to the both of you about cock worship, take some of these tips, and start piecing together your ideal way to worship a cock in your life. I promise - it's lots of fun!