How to Worship a Cock

Welcome to the world of "cock worship"! Different than simple oral sex or a handjob, the act of cock worship is focused on, literally, worshipping the penis.

What that, exactly, means will vary based on the participants. It can feature imaginative use of a collection of sex toys or only your bodies, but at the very minimum, it means that the act is done with a sense of reverence and full presence that other types of oral pleasure may not include.

What is Cock Worship?

It all sounds kinda vague, right? That's because it really is. Cock worship is unique to the people participating. It can be super kinky with heavy bondage and deprivation- but it could also be a serious bonding activity with love, connectivity, and true acceptance for another person's body.

Examples of a Cock Worship Scene

The giver is sitting on a dining chair - with rope wrapped around their legs and torso to bind them to the chair and ensure that they can't move. A blindfold wrapped around the giver's head ensures no light can be seen. The cock-owner strides up to their bound partner, gently takes the giver's wrists in their own hands, and guides the giver's hand to the penis.

Without sight - and while enjoying the comforting feel of bondage - the giver worships the cock-owner's cock with their hands and mouth. The cock-owner is rough during the worship - forcefully placing their partner's hands and mouth where they want them at any given moment - but they also compliment the giver's skills in phrases that sound closer to dirty pillow talk than public-appropriate compliments.

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The cock owner is laying back on the couch with their arms casually thrown over the back of the couch cushions. Their partner is kneeling in front of them - as they have been for the last hour - with the firm surface of the silicone dildo cock caressing the inside of the giver's cheeks. The cock owner murmurs compliments and praise - and encourages the giver to feel every inch of their length, smell their scent, and memorize every sensation that's going on.

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The giver is kneeling in an dark room only lit by the flickering of candles found all along the walls. A rhythmic, soothing beat plays on the speakers, but otherwise, the room is quiet. The cock-owner strides into the room, clad only in a dark, satin robe. The cock-owner steps in front of the giver, recites a simple vow, and clasps an elaborate necklace around the giver's throat. The satin robe is then slowly untied, and it silently drops to the ground as the giver takes the cock-owners penis into their mouth.

All of that can be considered cock worship!

Can Cock Worship Be Done on a Strap-On?

There's absolutely nothing out there saying that the worshipped penis needs to be a biological one that the person was born with. Any type of cock - or penis stand-in - can easily become the target for cock worship. That's all part of the fun!

(However, taste-wise, I'd recommend sticking to a silicone dildo for cock worship, if possible. Some jelly/TPR/"proprietary realistic skin" toys can taste pretty horrid, and you want to avoid super-rigid toys like glass or stainless steel even though they'd be tasteless. Silicone is the happy medium there with a tasteless design that's also squishy for teeth safety.)

For strap-on cock worship scenes that are strapped onto a vulva, I'd recommend incorporating some of your favorite sex toys to ensure that the cock-owner is receiving some sensations during the cock worship scene. The Satisfyer Sexy Secret worn on a pair of underwear can provide clitoral sensations during the cock worship scene - and can actually provide a solid, protruding point for clitoral stimulation when the dildo presses into the vulva.

How to Worship a Cock?

As you've noted above, cock worship is really unique to the couples who are enjoying it. That being said, there are various activities and methods that can help take your traditional penis pleasuring activities and gently morph them into cock worship scenes:

Be fully present. The easiest way to turn any standard activity into cock worship is by your attention and presence. Take in how the cock-owner smells. Pay attention to the unique texture and shape of the penis you're playing with. How does it look? What's the unique taste of skin - or pre-cum or semen? Take in - and enjoy - those sensations to easily turn a standard scene into a cock worship scene. Try to memorize every detail about the penis, testicles, and surrounding skin of the cock-owner.

Consider connection exercises beforehand. If the cock-owner or giver are having issues shutting out the outside world, consider some connecting exercises before going straight to the cock worship itself. Tantric sex practitioners highly recommend minutes of direct eye contact - or just sitting together and breathing together.

My recommendation for something that's on the same level but a bit less intense for newbies to connective exercises? Have one person close their eyes, extend their arms, and place their palms out flat in front of them. Their partner then covers the blindfolded person's palms with their own palms, and without interlocking fingers or gripping one another in any way, the eyes-open person guides the eyes-closed person's hands around to wherever they'd like. When you've done this for a few minutes, switch roles. This is a gentle way to bring focus on the two of you, how your bodies connect and feel together, and gently shut out everything else going on in your day while you focus on keeping your skin touching.

Read: Sex for the Soul: Tantric Exploration for Beginners

Compliment and romanticize the penis. A lot of cock-owners feel self-conscious about their penises - just like people who own vulvas can feel. Speaking compliments out loud - and letting the cock-owner hear how much the giver loves the penis - can go a long way during cock worship.

Don't go for orgasm. While orgasm might be the goal later on, the "goal-oriented" touches and strokes you've come to rely on don't have much of a place in cock worship. Cock worship is all about exploring the entirety of the penis and enjoying every single inch. This means that you'll need to toss your "effective" techniques out the window to try connective, exploratory touch instead.

Don't forget the surrounding area. While cock worship is, primarily, about the penis, it also can (and should!) be about the surrounding area as well. Touch the inner thighs. Trace the crease between the thighs and the abdomen. Gently squeeze and touch the testicles. Trace fingers up their stomach, and lightly run fingers down the thighs. Think of the cock as the epicenter of the area to pleasure - but there's a whole lot of surrounding, sensitive skin that is there to explore too.