How to Use a Magic Wand: Secrets from the Sexperts

I like to call the Magic Wand the grandmama of sex toys. It's been around forever. It's no-nonsense and doesn't mess around. Figuring out how to use a Magic Wand doesn't require reading a huge manual and watching several tutorials. There's a reason it's a classic that's beloved by sexperts and amateur enthusiasts alike!

While we at Kinkly love sextech innovations like long-distance capability and patterns that sync to your playlist or link to your favorite adult content, there is something downright blissful about getting your rocks off without smart technology once in a while.

There are no rules on how to use a Magic Wand. The straightforward design lends itself really well to a plethora of creative uses. We approached a handful of our Kinkly sexperts about using a magic wand and we think these ideas are seriously buzz-worthy.

A Classic Favorite

The Magic Wand was my first sex toy. I was 19 years old. It was loud and powerful. Often too powerful, so I would use it over my underwear or the sheet, to provide a barrier between my excitable clitoris and the deep and fast forceful rumbling machine. And the noise, I would wrap both myself and my commanding companion in the covers to stifle the mighty roar of the wand, so as not to alert or alarm nosy roommates.

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That thing lasted me 20 years. I always left it plugged in next to the bed, as I moved from city to city, apartment to apartment, I brought my faithful Magic Wand. The only reason I had to retire it, was that the cat chewed the cord. I should have seen it coming. Should have noticed kitty taking an interest, thinking this was a new toy.

By this time, there were new versions out. I upgraded and my new wand came with me on my journey as a sex educator. I would tell class participants it has two speeds: powerful and super powerful and if you’re looking for reliability and durability, the magic wand is it. Just keep the kitties away from the charging cord.

~Remi Newman, MA Sexuality Educator healthysexforlife.com

Hit the Internal Clit

Hold the wand over your inner labia, right below your clitoris, without making direct contact with the clit. This stimulates the inner clitoris — the invisible part that extends inside the body. It may be possible to get to orgasm with this type of stimulation alone, and it may feel like a deeper, fuller, or just different kind of orgasm.

~Suzannah Weiss, Certified Sexologist, Sex Educator, and Sex/Love Coach

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Edging and Forced Orgasms

The straight up power of the Magic Wand makes it my go to. I have the old school plug-in one, and I really love not having to charge it. I know there are versions you can use while it charges, and that seems like it would do the trick too.

Warm things up with a little over-the-panty action (if you or your partner have a really sensitive clit, you might want to keep their underwear on the whole time.) Depending on what you have in mind, you can really get creative.

The unlimited juice makes it perfect for some kinky scenes. If you are into forced orgasms, you aren't going to go wrong with a Magic Wand. Alternate through the the speeds: one orgasm at each intensity and back until they are a sloppy floppy (very happy!) mess.