How to Use a Magic Wand: Secrets from the Sexperts

We like to call the Magic Wand the grandmama of sex toys. It's been around forever. It's no-nonsense and doesn't mess around. Figuring out how to use a Magic Wand doesn't require reading a huge manual and watching several tutorials. There's a reason it's a classic that's beloved by sexperts and amateur enthusiasts alike!

While we at Kinkly love sextech innovations like long-distance capability and patterns that sync to your playlist or link to your favorite adult content, there is something downright blissful about a toy that provides major pleasure at the press of a button.

There are no "rules" on how to use a Magic Wand. The straightforward design lends itself really well to a plethora of creative uses. We approached a handful of our favorite sex educators and experts about using a Magic Wand and we think these ideas are seriously buzz-worthy.

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A Classic Favorite

The Magic Wand was my first sex toy. I was 19 years old. It was loud and powerful - often too powerful, so I would use it over my underwear or the sheet, to provide a barrier between my excitable clitoris and the deep and fast forceful rumbling machine. And the noise, I would wrap both myself and my commanding companion in the covers to stifle the mighty roar of the wand, so as not to alert or alarm nosy roommates.

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That thing lasted me 20 years. I always left it plugged in next to the bed and, as I moved from city to city, apartment to apartment, I brought my faithful Magic Wand. The only reason I had to retire it was that the cat chewed the cord. I should have seen it coming. Should have noticed kitty taking an interest, thinking this was a new toy.

That thing lasted me 20 years. I always left it plugged in next to the bed and, as I moved from city to city, apartment to apartment, I brought my faithful Magic Wand.

By this time, there were new versions out. I upgraded and my new wand came with me on my journey as a sex educator. I would tell class participants it has two speeds: powerful and super powerful and if you’re looking for reliability and durability, the Magic Wand is it. Just keep the kitties away from the charging cord.

~Remi Newman, MA, sexuality educator healthysexforlife.com

Hits the Internal Clit

Hold the wand over your inner labia, right below your clitoris, without making direct contact with the clit. This stimulates the inner clitoris - the invisible part that extends inside the body. It may be possible to get to orgasm with this type of stimulation alone, and it may feel like a deeper, fuller, or just different kind of orgasm.

~Suzannah Weiss, certified sexologist, sex educator, and sex/love coach

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It's For People With Penises Too

The Magic Wand has been a staple of my sex toy collection for years. And with the various attachments, it’s truly a versatile toy for both individual and partnered play.

In fact, if I want to get my partner in on the action, the Magic Wand is my go to!

For most men, the Magic Wand is way too intense to apply directly to the penis head. If you run it along the underside of the penis, though, it delivers waves of pleasure without too much intensity.

I just have my partner lie back, and I begin right above the testicles. This way the vibrations travel throughout the perineum too. I then slowly run it up the underside of the penis, and sometimes I double back if there’s a spot he seemed to particularly enjoy.

With the right attachments, I can even use the Magic Wand internally on myself OR my partner.