Gift Guide: Best Kinky Gifts to Get Tangled Up in Bondage This Year

Explore all new ways to experience intimacy with kink and bondage! As kinksters everywhere can tell you, trying out new, novel activities in the bedroom can drastically change your sex life - and bring you closer to your partner(s)! Even while solo, adding a bit of kink into your pleasure play can add excitement - and help you look forward to those solo pleasure sessions even more.

Whether you've tried a little bit of kink already or this is the year you'd like to give it a try, this sex toy gift guide is going to get you started down the right path for exploring bondage, spanking, and everything else the world of kink has to offer!

Try Bondage for the First Time: Sportsheets Our First Bondage Kit

Everything you need for beginner-friendly exploration into kink!

• For-beginners kit includes everything you need to try kink for the first time
• Kit includes four cuffs - each with their own attached tethers - and a blindfold
• Adjustable, Velcro cuffs work with a variety of limb sizes
• Tie the attached tethers to one another - or to nearby, sturdy furniture

Customers are saying:

• "lol. it was our 1st bondage kit like the name. works great. she ties me up and the wrist things are comfy. it can be hard to knot the straps on the bedposts but we make it work. blindfold is comfy too. totally worth the $$" - L.
• "This was, quite literally, my first bondage kit! I've gone through other kits since then, but I surprisingly still have the pieces to this kit around. Why? Because I love how versatile it is. It's insanely affordable for all of the options that the kit provides. Each one of the cuffs can be tied to a bed post, to chairs, to couches, or to anything else. They can even be tied up to each other! Along with the blindfold, that makes for a whole large realm of bondage possibilities with this single, affordable kit. I love the more expensive bondage items I've been stocking my toybox with, but I've always loved how easy this kit made it to try anything I wanted on a whim. I don't think I own anything else that's anything like that." - 8.

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Outfit your Mattress: Sportsheets Under-the-Bed Restraint System

• Strappy frame fits under your mattress to hold all of the cuffs in place
• Four cuffs poke out from the sides of your mattress to easily restrain your partner's limbs anywhere along the mattress
• Tighten - or loosen - the tether straps for a secure (or comfortable!) bondage experience
• Included four Velcro cuffs means the set is ready to go as soon as it arrives at your house
• When you're done, simply tuck the cuffs back underneath the mattress for the ultimate in discretion
• Hundreds of bondage options without changing a thing about your bedroom's look

Customers are saying:

• "I purchased it and surprised my wife and we had one of the hottest and most intense encounters in the history of our relationship. We added another layer to our already great relationship and we've both had huge smiles on our faces ever since." - J.
• "The straps slide under the mattress & the weight and friction from the mattress combined with the tension in the tethers keep the tethers from moving a significant amount. The cuffs fasten via Velcro but are padded and very comfortable. I was dubious when I bought it (largely because of the packaging), but it works really well. " - D.
• "As much as I tried to lean into pleasurable sensations or dodge ticklish ones, the straps kept me from moving more than an inch or two in any direction. Even when I tried to thrash around as they tickled my feet (which is something that typically turns me), I stayed completely put. Infuriating? Yes. Incredibly H-O-T? Also yes." - Gabrielle Kassel
• "If ropes aren’t your thing, no worries as the straps of this system don’t require any nautical knot tying knowledge. And don’t worry about being confined to the bed. We tried it out on our dining room table and it was just as much fun! For all our future dinner guests … we use Pledge. The table’s clean, I promise." - S.
• "if done right...the person cannot get out of this yet it's very comfortable as well" - T.

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Your First Sex Furniture Foray: Liberator Black Label Wedge

• Liberator Black Label Wedge equips the best-selling Wedge with two bondage points
• Use the bondage points with the included cuffs and blindfold (when you're feeling it!) or just use the Wedge for better sex angles when you're not
• 27-degree angle is specifically crafted to make the g-spot/p-spot more accessible during sex
• High-density foam offers a soft, comfortable surface that still holds its shape
• Black Label Wedge really shines with missionary, doggy style, and oral sex - but the only limit is your imagination!
• Zip-off the outermost cover and toss it in the washing machine for easy clean-up when you're exhausted from amazing sex
• If you choose to continue your Liberator sex furniture adventure, the Black Label Wedge offers a no-slip surface against other pieces from the company

Customers are saying:

• "Great product to put we enjoy using this every chance we get easy to keep clean and adjust" - C.T.

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Try New Sex Positions: Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuff Set

• Spreader bar with two cuffs to start exploring spreader bar play in seconds
• Bar adjusts from 29" to 37" for a stretching - but not too much! - fit
• Easily break down the spreader bar into 3 pieces for easy storage
• Included cuffs can be used without the spreader bar and attach to one another too!
• Don't forget to check out our spreader bar sex positions for more inspiration!

Customers are saying:

• "So great! Amazing price AND quality! Super soft and comfy cuffs. I am very sensitive to materials and I have joint pain. I love this bar! Breaks apart into three pieces. Only thing I would change is to get a case for it that has separate compartments for storage." - S.E.
• "great, light, sturdy, good quality. we had lots of fun with this!" - J.G.
• "I’ve had cuffs and other kinds of restraints, but I’ve never had a spreader bar. I ended up really liking it. It holds my legs (or arms) securely open. The swivelling clasps at the ends give my feet a little bit of wiggle room, so I stay both mostly immobile with just enough movement to stay comfortable so I can stay bound for a longer amount of time." - J.

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Try Your First Pair of Nipple Clamps: Sportsheets Chained Nipple Clamps

• The best-selling clamp on the Kinkly Shop!
• Adjustable clamps allow for the perfect mix of pressure and sensation
• Removable rubber-capped tips reduce pinching and digging into skin
• 13" connecting chain makes for easy tugging, a gorgeous look, and an easy way to ensure you don't lose them!

Customers are saying:

• "The industrial look is pretty great, and these clips work really well. You can easily adjust the pressure (prior to putting them on) by turning the screw. The plastic keeps it from cutting into your flesh, but they still give a really good pinch, and the chain gives a little something to tug on. And while I’m sure the others are great, I definitely don’t regret my decision!" - S.
• "We bought these for a little spice in the bedroom. They delivered!!" - A.
• "But think bigger than the nips and you'll get your money's worth. My girlfriend finds all sorts of spots to clamp these on me and then tug--my mouth, my ears, she'll gather up the skin on my back and clip that, and then clip and tug on my other lips :) Sometimes it's one clip on her and one clip on me. The possibilities are really endless." - L.

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See What All the Electrosex Fuss Is About: Kinklab Neon Wand

• Plug-and-play design makes electrosex very easy to explore
• Neon Wand handles like a wizard's wand - just grip it in your hands!
• Incremental dial at the base lets sensations go from sultry smoothness to an intense sting
• External-only estim can be dragged along most places on the body
• 10-page instruction manual included
• 4 included electrodes instantly swap up sensations - with more accessories available to try

Customers are saying:

• "I can't imagine a better intro to electrostimulation. We're not concerned about hurting one another, and it's so easy to stop the electricity if things get intense. Plus, it's really neat, and it makes her moan constantly. She especially loves how it looks in the dark - like her own personal light show (or so she says). I was worried there'd be a big learning curve or I'd look stupid, but this has been great." - J.
• "The wand is a fun new addition to our playtime. We have been experimenting with it and love it. It’s easy to use. I would definitely recommend" - L.M.
• "The NeonWand package has everything required to get yourself started with ElectroErotic play and the website has very good tutorials and safety information available. You may be able to piece together a similar kit for less money but Kinkly makes it easy and convenient with a well packaged system." - T.S.
• "The neon wand is interesting slightly different sensations with different attachments. What is inclosed is mild to moderate with the co from dial. If you want wild try the whip or capacitor attachments. Well made. Easy to change attachments." - J.M.

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