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Ruined Orgasms

Definition - What does Ruined Orgasms mean?

Ruined orgasms are orgasms that are brought about as part of tease and denial play. A partner's genitals are stimulated to the very brink of orgasm and the stimulation is abruptly ceased. Often this will result in the frustrating experience of no orgasm occurring. However, if orgasm is inevitable and happens after stimulation has been removed, it will be much less intense and satisfying than a typical orgasm. That is why it is called a ruined orgasm.

Kinkly explains Ruined Orgasms

Tease and denial play, including ruined orgasms, may be engaged in as part of a sexual relationship between a dominant and submissive partner. The dominant partner will control the submissive partner's pleasure and dictate whether they are permitted to orgasm. This can be employed as part or erotic submission or erotic feminization.

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