Forced Orgasm

Last Updated: January 9, 2018

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Definition - What does Forced Orgasm mean?

A forced orgasm occurs even when a person is trying not to orgasm. This is a common element during BDSM play, particularly dominant/submissive scenes. In order for a forced orgasm to occur, a submissive partner must attempt to delay orgasm while the dominant partner stimulates their genitals and other erogenous zones in an attempt to bring on an orgasm. This can be done by performing vaginal, oral, or anal sex, but it usually occurs with the help of vibrating sex toys. A submissive partner is also usually restrained with rope or other bondage equipment while a dominant is attempting to give them a forced orgasm.

Kinkly explains Forced Orgasm

Forced orgasm is typically a very stimulating and erotic experience and has advantages for both submissives and dominants. For the submissives, it is a way to feel a great deal of pleasure at the hands of the dominant. The feeling of helplessness can heighten the experience and make the practice even more pleasurable. A dominant partner can use forced orgasm as a way to punisher control a submissive's orgasms or punish naughty behavior, while still giving the submissive a great deal of pleasure.

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