A cuckqueen, or female cuckold, is a woman who is aroused by her partner engaging in sexual activity with another partner. The term is normally used to describe a heterosexual or bisexual woman married to a man. However, a cuckqueen may be a lesbian or unmarried in a relationship with someone who sleeps with others.
Cuckqueen Term Origins
The term “cuckqueen” comes from the term “cuckold,” which traditionally means a man whose wife is adulterous. In this instance, however, the meaning varies slightly (as it does in some modern interpretations of cuckold) because the partner in question is not being deceived and is, in fact, complicit in the activity. Scientists also use the term cuckqueen to describe female animals that raise babies that are not their genetic offspring as their own.
Cuckqueen is sometimes spelled cuckquean, which is the traditional spelling, dating back to the mid-16th century. Cuckqueen is a more modern alternative that features the term “queen,” denoting a powerful woman. The contemporary spelling reflects the power a cuckqueen maintains in the relationship.
The female cuckold is the female equal to a male cuckold. A male cuckold is often simply called a cuckold as the fetish is more common in men. Cuckolds of any gender feel sexual pleasure when their partners have sex with someone else. They have similar feelings but may have a different focus. Anecdotal evidence suggests that cuckolds focus on their partner’s pleasure while cuckqueens focus on the pleasure of the third party.
Why People Are Into Cuckqueening
Cuckqueens receive masochistic pleasure from knowing their partners are intimate with someone else (that third person known as a cuckcake). They may feel jealous or humiliated by their partner, but also turned on by their infidelities. This dynamic should be consensual and not traumatic. The humiliation part is performative or the cuckqueen derives masochistic pleasure from it.
In most cuckqueen relationships, the cuckqueen has a submissive role while their partner is more dominant. Cuckqueens and their partners usually maintain these roles throughout their relationship and during sex, whether another person is present or not.
Some cuckqueens actively encourage their partners to have sex with others and may arrange dates for them. Others take a more passive role.
Some cuckqueens are present when their partners have sex with another person, while others give their partners privacy. If the cuckqueen is present, she may become sexually involved with her partner and their cuckcake, but only if she’s invited to be.
When cuckqueens are not present, they may like to hear stories about their partner’s sex outside their relationship, or they may not want to know the details. Some cuckqueens agree to one-to-one sex with others outside their relationship, while others permit group sex. Most cuckqueens are sexually involved with their own partners, but some have an arrangement where they are celibate. If a cuckqueen is bisexual, she may also have a female lover outside the relationship. It’s up to the cuckqueen and their partner to determine what works best for them.