While most people assume spreader bars are just for intercourse; the Subservient Smooching proves them wrong. Using portable stocks furniture, the Subservient Smooching position lends itself well to hot foreplay - especially making out!
To get into this sex position, one partner will kneel. The stocks can then be gently wrapped and fastened around their neck and wrists. Once the stocks are fully applied, the giving partner can then kneel next to the bound partner, perfectly in place for making out or other foreplay.
Ideas for Play in This Position
"Foreplay" is the name of the game with the Subservient Smooching position. The upright position of both partners makes it easy to touch - but it may not make for easy penetration.
All of the standard foreplay activities are available, and the Subservient Smooching position encourages you to take advantage of that. Making out will be most couples' first stop, but any full-body touch on the bound partner can feel amazing. This position places the chest and nipples at the forefront, and nipple clamps and nipple suckers can be a good option here. Other toys, designed for sensation play, can also be great ideas. Vampire gloves, wax play candles and gags can all be used on the sensitive skin of the bound partner.
Do be sure to stop in for regular communication breaks. The wide surface of the stocks can make it difficult for the bound partner to see their body, and receiving touch without the ability to see the touch can feel jarring to some.
While the kneeling position of the Subservient Smooching may not lend itself well to penetration, it does allow access between the thighs if the knees are spread. Sex toys can easily be held or used between the thighs to add stimulation and increase the intensity of your scene. Toys with a bit of reach (like wand massagers or large penis strokers) are recommended as the wide shape of the stocks can make it difficult to get full skin-on-skin contact.
As it can be easy to focus on the bound partner in this position, but make sure you have a plan to pleasure the unbound partner too. You could use hands-free sex toys during the scene, or agree to additional play before or afterwards that focuses on the unbound partner. We want to ensure everyone leaves this scene fully satisfied!