The Ride and Ram is the first sex machine
position most couples explore because it's a simple add-on to solo use of the machine. When playing solo with a saddle-style vibrator like the Cowgirl
, most people tend to kneel while upright or come down onto their hands and knees.
The Ride and Ram position simply adds a partner from behind while the rider is enjoying the saddle vibrator on their hands and knees!
Many saddle-style vibrators offer dual stimulation
with penetration and external vibrations. If the rider is enjoying both types of stimulation, dual penetration with their partner may be the only option for intercourse
while the rider is using the vibrator
Tips for Enjoying the Ride and Ram
With the constant rotational movement of the penetrating shaft on a saddle vibrator, we do not recommend trying double-penetration
in the same orifice with a biological penis. This could easily lead to injury.
However, at any point, the rider can turn off and slip off the rotating shaft to enjoy their partner's penis or strap-on instead. A saddle-style vibrator can still provide earth-shattering, hands-free external vibrations during intercourse with a partner. Both partners may find it more comfortable to swap out the saddle attachment to a non-penetrating attachment to get the toy's shaft out of the way. This makes it easier to enjoy the toy's external vibrations.
Don't forget about the fun of bondage
in the Ride and Ram position, either! As the riding partner will be stable on their hands and knees, this position can be a great fit for sensation play
like a blindfold
or nipple clamps
. These simple additions can add to the expeirence without interrupting the flow or requiring extra hands. It's a win-win!
Don't have a sex machine yet? That's OK! The Ride and Ram position can also be done without a sex machine. The positioning is similar to the Magic Mountain position
, which uses an ottoman as a stand-in for the saddle-style sex machine.
You can also make your own faux saddle sex machine with a bit of creativity and household furniture
. The Orion VibePad 2
can be placed on a chair to help simulate the experience of a Cowgirl (in the Magic Mountain position
!). The Wild Flower Enby 2
or Rocks-Off Ruby Glow
could be placed on the edge of that aforementioned ottoman
for easy grinding for the receiving partner as well.