While the Sofa Oral sex position employs a couch, you can do it anywhere with a seat. Literally anywhere! The couch provides a lot more room for the receiver to spread their thighs and get comfortable, but this same position can work at a desk chair, reading chair, kitchen chair, or anywhere else in the house. It's perfect for those of you who love familiar sex positions: the only variable here is the sitting surface you select!
That said, we do recommend a couch, or other wide surface, for giving oral to a vulva-owner in the Sofa Oral sex position. Setting the thighs wide, hips forward and torso leaned back is vital for reaching all of the erogenous zones of the vulva. Some chairs have arms that prevent the receiving partner from spreading their legs wide enough to accommodate the giving partner's face.
One of the big benefits of this position is the reduced neck strain for the giver. Experiment with angles in order to get the most out of this. The receiver can scoot further towards the edge of the couch, or further onto the couch, to change the receiving angle. The giver can sit up on their knees or lean down to adjust their height in relation to the receiver.
Keep an eye on the giver's knees in this position. The floor isn't the most comfortable spot to kneel and that's certain to cause discomfort during oral. Consider adding sex furniture (like the Liberator Jaz, Dame Pillo, Liberator Wing, Liberator Bondi, Liberator Talea, pillows, a folded blankets or even gardening kneeling pads) to lessen discomfort and allow oral sex to go on longer.
To get into this sex position, the receiving partner should sit on a flat, sturdy surface -- like a couch. For better access, the receiver should scoot towards the edge of the seat to place their hips forward and spread their legs. The receiving partner can then kneel in-between the spread thighs of their partner to provide oral sex.
