The Stand Down Boy sex position modifies the Rear Entry position
in the best of ways. Not only does it have the receiver kneeling on a softer surface for the knees, but it eliminates many of the height difference concerns by having the penetrating partner stand. All of this comes together for an accessible sex position
that allows both partners to be as rough - or as gentle - as they want.
The height of the bed (or other surface the receiver is kneeling on) is the key piece of this sex position
puzzle. For many couples, a mattress with box spring might put the receiver too high for penetration. In that case, the receiver can spread their knees further apart which will lower the hips.
You can also equalize the height difference by exploring other surfaces. Plushy living room chairs can be used for this position - as can sex furniture
. If your living room chairs have removable cushions, experiment with removing the chair cushions and seeing if that places things at the right height.
As the Stand Down Boy eliminates the need to kneel (like in standard doggy style position)
, the Stand Down Boy position can be a great fit for penetrating partners who have knee or back concerns. If the typical thrusting motion exacerbates those conditions, the receiving partner also has the ability to thrust themselves onto the penetrating partner; no movement is required from the penetrating partner if that's what makes sex accessible for both partners.
With the penetrating partner's hands free, the Stand Down Boy position also is friendly to sex toys
. The penetrating partner can easily hold a sex toy onto the clitoris
or the penis
of the receiving partner. As the receiving partner may need to use both of their hands to hold up their body weight, this can help equalize the pleasure for both partners - and possibly lead to simultaneous orgasms
If the receiver would like to hold their own sex toys, the receiver can easily place their chest against the bed to leave their hands free like in the Bound Love Triangle position