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These Cis Guys Carry Period Supplies: Here's Why

Why are some cis guys starting to stock period supplies for the people in their life who menstruate?

Toxic Monogamy: Pop Culture's Patent Problem

Toxic monogamy normalizes possessiveness and jealousy. And you probably already believe in it. Here’s why, and how to reclaim your relationships:

The Best Suction Vibrators, Ranked By Orgasm Speed

While most vibrators stimulate with vibrations, suction vibrators cup and suck the clit. Here’s how different brands worked for me:

People Reveal the Sexual Things They’re 'Supposed' to Like But Hate

One of the most toxic phrases in our language is 'supposed to.' Here's what people had to say about the things they are 'supposed to' like in the bedroom.

How Doing Sex Work Helped Me Love Myself

What makes you a more valuable person. looks or brains? Suzannah Weiss looks at why that's the wrong question and how sex work helped her see that.

9 Everyday Violations of Consent We Don't Think About

Consent is an important part of a sexual relationship (probably THE most important part) but it goes far beyond sex. How far? Read on.

How Do You Measure the Female Orgasm?

The Female Orgasm is hardly deserving of the near-mythic status sometimes assigned to it. Here's how science is delving deep and laying the mystery bare.

10 Ways to Prevent Pain the First Time You Have Vaginal Sex

Worried about pain the first time you have vaginal sex? These 10 tips will help you ease the way, painlessly

An Ode to the People You Want to Kiss and Cuddle But Not Fuck

Yes, it's ok to just kiss and cuddle. Here's why some people are going in for all the fun without the fucking.

Hiring a Sex Coach Was the Best Thing I Did for My Sex Life

I was skeptical at first about whether working with a sex coach would be worth the money or the time. But it turned out to be the best thing I could have done for my sex life. Here's why.

A Guide to Safer Sex During the Pandemic

Since the majority of sexual encounters occur within six feet of another person, engaging in sex with someone who has the virus can result in you becoming infected.

How to Stop COVID-19 From Ruining Your Sex Life

If you broaden your definition of sexual intimacy and get creative, you could not only continue to have a sex life during the Coronavirus pandemic, but also actually improve your sex life while practicing social distancing!

How to Have an Orgasm With a Partner

You’re not alone if you find it easier to orgasm when you’re masturbating than during partnered sex. Here are some ways to start having your first orgasms with a partner, or orgasming with a partner more easily and frequently.

An Etiquette Guide for Sending and Receiving Nudes

Here’s how to show someone the utmost respect when you’re exchanging nudes, whether they’re a long-term partner or someone you just matched with on Tinder.

4 Myths About the Hymen to Stop Believing

There’s perhaps no part of the human body as fraught with myths as the hymen. Here are four myths young people are still learning about the hymen and what we should be teaching them instead.

If You Want to Test Your Relationship, Take Your Partner to a Hotel With a Sex Package

Sex-Themed Hotel Packages encourage you to put your physical relationship in the foreground. Here's why that can be a great thing or a bad thing.

What Sexual Personality Type Are You?

It can be useful to know what type of sexual personality you are so that you know the best ways to improve your sex life, including the ideal toys to buy.

Sex Toy Review: We-Vibe Melt

Masturbating with We-Vibe's Melt is without a doubt a novel and superlative experience. Here's why we think this new suction vibrator is pretty damn nifty.

5 Myths OB/GYNs Want You to Stop Believing About Your Vulva

Myths about vulvas weasel their way into almost all of our brains. Here are 5 myths about your vulva that your OB/GYN wants you stop believing!

What It Means If You Fantasize During Sex

Fantasize during sex? Here's what it means if you do.

6 Myths to Stop Believing About Squirting

Think you know about squirting? You may not know the truth. We're busting 6 myths about squirting.

5 Cool Things Science Teaches Us About Orgasms

Fortunately, scientists have looked into the many questions surrounding orgasms — and found answers. Here are some of the coolest things science teaches us about orgasms.

4 Damaging Messages I Received in Sex Ed, and What I Wish I’d Learned Instead

Sex education teaches a very narrow view of sex and sexuality, one that leaves many things - and people - out of the picture.

4 Reasons to Never Fake an Orgasm

If you fake orgasms, here are four reasons to talk to your partner and find a solution.

5 Subtle Sexual Behaviors That Are Actually Abusive

Not sure if you're in an abusive relationship? These behaviors are subtle signs of sexual abuse.

4 Stereotypes About Female Sexuality That Hurt Your Sex Life

These female stereotypes are damaging to relationships, sex lives and women's lives in general.

Vagina Problems You Should Not Ignore

We are often taught or socialized to believe these problems are no big deal. In fact, many can - and often should - be solved.

Men (and Their Sexuality) Aren't 'Simple,' and Here's Why We Need to Stop Saying This

Women are not particularly complicated, men are not particularly simple, and there are many people who don’t identify either one.

4 Widely Cited Statistics About Sex That Are Actually Fake

Just because you read something doesn't make it true. Here are 4 common 'facts' with little or no data to back them up.

4 Sexual Double Standards It's Time To Let Go Of

From inconsistent views of nudity to stigma around sex toys, here are a few sexual double standards that we need to debunk.

I Spent a Week Naked in Public Without Shaving Any Part of My Body

We should feel confident enough in ourselves to approve of our bodies regardless of anyone else’s opinion - but it isn't easy.

Pornographers, Please Stop Ending Scenes With Money Shots

There's nothing wrong with a good cumshot, but their ubiquity in porn is problematic. Here's why.

What We Teach Women When We Tell Them Not to Be Easy

We need to stop teaching women not to be easy, because when we do, we also teach them these destructive ideas.

5 Supposedly Empowering Things We Need to Stop Telling People About Their Periods

We can feel good about our bodies, our periods, and our a/genders without resorting to essentialist, cissexist notions about menstruation. Here's how.

7 Myths About Women and Masturbation It's Time to Unlearn Right Now

Here are the 7 myths about women and masturbation...and the truth.

Is It Sex Positive or Inappropriate? 10 Questions to Help You Tell the Difference

Where’s the line between expanding what’s acceptable to talk about and violating someone’s boundaries? Here are a few questions that might help you decide.