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Lola

Lola is a co-gendered, polyamorous, bisexual, trans* switch. S/he does a lot of teaching at various locations in kink, connection, touch and breath. In this context, s/he strives to have the participants notice the content, not the teacher. As a writer in the social and sexual sciences, s/he's published in a few books and blogs, and seeks to build bridges, mend (and mind) the gaps, and bring people together. S/he's an Urban tantra Professional, and has a practice offering sex and relationship guidance and clarity in the Northeast.

Articles by Lola


The Top 3 Things I've Learned About Navigating STIs as a Polyamorous Person The Top 3 Things I've Learned About Navigating STIs as a Polyamorous Person The Top 3 Things I've Learned About Navigating STIs as a Polyamorous Person The Top 3 Things I've Learned About Navigating STIs as a Polyamorous Person


Wondering how to approach the topic of STIs with your partner(s)? Sometimes just opening up to a conversation like this is the hardest part

Spirit and Flesh: Our Sexual Selves Are Spiritual Too Spirit and Flesh: Our Sexual Selves Are Spiritual Too Spirit and Flesh: Our Sexual Selves Are Spiritual Too Spirit and Flesh: Our Sexual Selves Are Spiritual Too


The mutual dance of pleasure and the sharing of physical intimacy is about much more than 'getting off;' it represents a deeper...

The Rules of Rough Sex The Rules of Rough Sex The Rules of Rough Sex The Rules of Rough Sex


If done the wrong way, rough sex can end badly. Here are the rules for doing it right

Come Out Wherever You Are .... For Kink Coming Out Day Come Out Wherever You Are .... For Kink Coming Out Day Come Out Wherever You Are .... For Kink Coming Out Day Come Out Wherever You Are .... For Kink Coming Out Day


Sexuality comes in many flavors - including kinky. Isn't it time we celebrate them all? Kink Coming Out Day offers the chance to stand up...

The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of The Sex Fairy Tale We All Need to Let Go Of


A lot of what we think of as sex is more about an imposed set of norms and expectations. This author explains how preparing to transition...