ALERT

Deal of the Day: Up to 65% Off High-Tech Toys at Kiiroo

Lily Black and Lex Winters

Lily Black loves martial arts, various forms of calligraphy, and writing. She is good with rope, especially if you ask her partner Lex Winters; for her part, Lex is well traveled (including the United Kingdom, Ireland, and Japan), but is particularly fond of the Berkshire area in the United States, and is more experienced regarding rope work.

Articles by Lily Black and Lex Winters


I Hated Myself and My Body - Until I Tried Kink I Hated Myself and My Body - Until I Tried Kink I Hated Myself and My Body - Until I Tried Kink I Hated Myself and My Body - Until I Tried Kink


Kink helped me listen to, connect and accept my body.

Dominant with whip Dominant with whip Dominant with whip Dominant with whip


Want to be not just a Dominant but a good Dominant? Here's a complete, step-by-step guide on how to use your powers as a Dominant for good.

Sex Toy Review: Tantus Realdoe Feeldoe Double-Ended Dildo Sex Toy Review: Tantus Realdoe Feeldoe Double-Ended Dildo Sex Toy Review: Tantus Realdoe Feeldoe Double-Ended Dildo Sex Toy Review: Tantus Realdoe Feeldoe Double-Ended Dildo


This strapless strap-on promises pleasure for both partners. But does it deliver? Check out this review to find out.

5 Transgender Issues That Affect Us All 5 Transgender Issues That Affect Us All 5 Transgender Issues That Affect Us All 5 Transgender Issues That Affect Us All


The issues that transgender people face are often ones that often affect all of us in some way. Here are five very vital transgender issues...

Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play Consent and Catharsis: Coping With Trauma That Comes Up During Rough Play


Consent can allow for revisiting memories and trauma in a safe space, but it requires communication, compassion and vulnerability.

Bondage and Disability: Working Around Abilities in Play Bondage and Disability: Working Around Abilities in Play Bondage and Disability: Working Around Abilities in Play Bondage and Disability: Working Around Abilities in Play


Bondage isn't just for the able-bodied. It's for anyone who's interested. Here's how you can work around abilities in your bondage play!

Woman with bondage rope Woman with bondage rope Woman with bondage rope Woman with bondage rope


Thinking about introducing bondage play into your relationship? We know that can be hard; we have tips on how you can make it easier!

A Couple's Guide to Trying a Sex Toy A Couple's Guide to Trying a Sex Toy A Couple's Guide to Trying a Sex Toy A Couple's Guide to Trying a Sex Toy


Interested in spicing up your love life with your partner by using a sex toy? Here are some tips on how to introduce them in a way that'll...

The Emotional Weight of Physical Bondage The Emotional Weight of Physical Bondage The Emotional Weight of Physical Bondage The Emotional Weight of Physical Bondage


Can physical bondage help you cope with emotional baggage? We explore the idea.

Q&A by Lily Black and Lex Winters


Hands tied in rope bondage Hands tied in rope bondage Hands tied in rope bondage Hands tied in rope bondage


Rope ties should not be painful, per se; they should feel more like a sort of bear hug. As always, that depends on the person being tied....

What is the difference between sex and gender? What is the difference between sex and gender? What is the difference between sex and gender? What is the difference between sex and gender?


A common response to "Is there a difference?" or "What is the difference?" is that what we consider the sex of an individual often has to...