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Lily Black and Lex Winters

Lily Black loves martial arts, various forms of calligraphy, and writing. She is good with rope, especially if you ask her partner Lex Winters; for her part, Lex is well traveled (including the United Kingdom, Ireland, and Japan), but is particularly fond of the Berkshire area in the United States, and is more experienced regarding rope work.

ARTICLES BY LILY BLACK AND LEX WINTERS

Gender affirmation can be tricky, but it's worth taking the time to get it right. Here are some thinking points to help!

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Intense emotions can make the lines of consent a little fuzzier. Here's how to make sure no one's boundaries are crossed.

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Confused about all everything you hear about the term gender? Here's a basic guide to help you better understand gender-related terms and how to be be respectful to those who use them.

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From better communication to better mental health, improving these key skills will help you have the happiest, sexiest year yet.

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Dominance doesn't have to involve humiliation or strict demands. We dig into some of the more nuanced versions of D/s.

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Kink helped me listen to, connect and accept my body.

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The issues that transgender people face are often ones that often affect all of us in some way. Here are five very vital transgender issues that have an impact on everyone, regardless of their gender, gender identity or sexuality.

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Thinking about introducing bondage play into your relationship? We know that can be hard; we have tips on how you can make it easier!

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Want to be not just a Dominant but a good Dominant? Here's a complete, step-by-step guide on how to use your powers as a Dominant for good.

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This strapless strap-on promises pleasure for both partners. But does it deliver? Check out this review to find out.

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Consent can allow for revisiting memories and trauma in a safe space, but it requires communication, compassion and vulnerability.

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Bondage isn't just for the able-bodied. It's for anyone who's interested. Here's how you can work around abilities in your bondage play!

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Interested in spicing up your love life with your partner by using a sex toy? Here are some tips on how to introduce them in a way that'll ensure everyone is comfortable and has a sexy time.

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Can physical bondage help you cope with emotional baggage? We explore the idea.

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QUESTIONS BY LILY BLACK AND LEX WINTERS

Rope ties should not be painful, per se; they should feel more like a sort of bear hug. As always, that depends on the person being tied....

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A common response to "Is there a difference?" or "What is the difference?" is that what we consider the sex of an individual often has to...

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