Ken Melvoin-Berg
Ken Melvoin-Berg is a Chicago based freelance writer, author, professional pervert, TV producer, BDSM/sex educator, adult industry consultant, and male sex toy advocate. He is also the Consulting Producer/Sharon Osbourne of Showtime’s “Sex with Sunny Megatron.”
Ken is an “edutainer” armed with knowledge of all things sexual, a humorous lecturing style, and a professional background in medicine/biology. He has been writing and lecturing on these subjects since 1997. Ken is known for his amazing facial hair and tattoos. He also loves his family, Aquaman, his amazing pug, Nathan, and the USA.
Articles by Ken Melvoin-Berg
How to Train a Submissive With Hand Signals
Hand signals create a fun, sexy and easy way for Dominants to interact with their submissives.
Guys, Here's How to Hit the P-Spot Using a Toy
Hitting your p-spot can result in a mind-blowing prostate orgasm. Here we look at how prostate stimulating toys can help get the job done.
A Look at Pregnancy and Lactation Fetishes
Just how common are pregnancy and lactation fetishes? How are these acted out? Kinkly knows...and you can know, too.
An In-Depth Look at Pony Play
Pony play? What's that all about? We take an in-depth look at this sexy fetish.
The 5 Rules of Anal Play for Straight Men
Anal sex can be a little frightening for straight guys - at least, at first. Learn the rules to safe and pleasurable play here.
Q&A by Ken Melvoin-Berg
What are some good sex positions when using a butt plug?
Great question! This is a common issue but there are a lot of variables that come into play here. What positions have you tried already?...
How do I know when I should use a new condom?
Condoms are a protective barrier that is either placed over a cock, a penis shaped toy, or in the case of internal condoms (marketed as...
How is sensory deprivation used in BDSM?
Sensory deprivation is a commonly used practice in BDSM (and sensual sexytime, too) that makes us focus on our other senses by depriving us...
How do you prepare for analingus?
It's important that both the receiver and the giver learn how to properly prepare for analingus. Although smelly asses are a particular...
What's the best way to give a handjob?
Handjobs should be a basic part of your sexy time portfolio if you play with people that have a cock. It seems simple. Put hand on penis,...
What are the best lubes for anal sex?
Choosing a lube for sex can be a chore with all the lube options on the market. This is an especially difficult task when you're trying...
How should I prepare myself for anal sex?
How to prepare for anal sex is actually a question that I am asked on a regular basis. The short answer: it depends. Here are a few of the...
What is anal gaping?
If you have ever watched porn, you may have come across something called anal gaping. This is the act of having extended anal sex with the...
What are forced orgasms?
Forced orgasms and involuntary orgasms are often confused. Although on the surface they may seem the same, they are very different! Both of...
What is caning?
Along with spanking, caning is one of the most popular forms of pain play for adults involved in BDSM. Essentially canes are sticks used to...
What is an anal orgasm and what does it feel like?
Orgasms are amazing, euphoric and energizing. Anal orgasms can feel even better than genital orgasms. Primarily, they can be experienced in...
How do you "milk" a prostate?
The first thing you should know about prostate milking is that it’s very difficult to find their tiny little udders. OK, just kidding. In...
