Have you ever wanted to ask a pornstar a question? We know from recent surveys that a lot of people are watching porn - as much as 98% of men and 73% of women reported watching porn in the last month, according to a 2018 study. That must lend itself to lots of curiosity. After all, while the talent featured in pornography gets plenty of interest and viewers, most porn performers don't get the mainstream media coverage that other celebrities do.
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Plus, it’s easy to wonder just how they do what they do. Like, how do they have so much hot sex? What’s their secret?
Well, we’ve got good news. We recently teamed up with an iconic American sex toy producer, Doc Johnson, to get some answers. Doc Johnson works with a lot of top talent in the porn industry to make some of its signature molded sex toys. So, they connected us with Bridgette B, Isiah Maxwell and Small Hands. Our readers asked the questions and these stars answered them!
And don't miss out on our Doc Johnson giveaway! It's your chance to feel like you are with the stars!
Meet Bridgette B! She’s a Spanish seductress and the most-searched-for “MILF” in the game. She not only stars in some of the top adult scenes online, but also hosts a podcast, DYRTYBLONDE. She’s won five XBIZ Awards and has been nominated MILF of the Year twice! Here are some of the things our readers wanted to know about her.
How can I give my husband a blow job that’ll make him think I’m a pornstar?
Bridgette: This is the million-dollar question when it comes to "top" pornstar questions! There are so many ways to answer this but I like to be honest: There is really no magical blowjob tip. I wish there was! It’s not about your partner thinking you are a pornstar - it's that you yourself think you're a pornstar. One could be just OK at the art of blowjobbing, but walking into the room with confidence, feeling sexy, and knowing he is lucky to even be getting you on your knees will make him love it already. He's married to you, he already has the queen....
It’s not about your partner thinking you are a pornstar - it's that you yourself think you're a pornstar.
Do you like being recognized as an actress?
Bridgette: Being recognized for having your vagina and asshole plastered all over Google and other sites for millions upon millions of people to look at, judge and, of course, criticize, is not for the faint of heart. I have wanted to be an entertainer my whole life. Whether it meant being in front of the school as a cheerleader, learning to play an instrument, etc., I have known from an early age that my biggest gift to this world is to make others smile and/or feel good.
Would I have wanted to be Meryl Streep with an Oscar-worthy role and win Hollywood in that way? Sure. Could I do it? You bet I could - with the right agent! Now, could Meryl Streep do what I do? Absolutely not. I am grateful everyday to be able to do what I do, whether or not I get recognized. Being recognized just means I must be doing something right, I'll take it happily.
Would I have wanted to be Meryl Streep with an Oscar-worthy role and win Hollywood in that way? Sure. Could I do it? You bet I could - with the right agent! Now, could Meryl Streep do what I do? Absolutely not.
What is your favorite part of being a porn star?
Bridgette: My favorite part about being an adult actress (I hate the word pornstar, I go into that topic in depth in my podcast) is that I am able to awake this goddess, this sexual being, this natural woman, and entertain, all while being able to provide an outlet for those who enjoy watching as well. I feel that there is a place and time for everything. Bridgette B. exists when she is on camera, when she is meeting fans, when she is online, when she is on her OnlyFans, etc. Bridgette B. is the "pornstar." I created her and love her dearly. However, she only shows up when she needs to. How many women can say they have an alter ego?
How do you prep for anal sex scenes?
Bridgette: It depends on the type of scene it is. If I am on a more hardcore set, I prep a bit more carefully, such as not eating certain things in the morning or using the right plug to stretch her out. I do this knowing the director is looking for the crazier side of Bridgette B. For most others, I have come to love my body and truly take care of my instrument at all times. I am technically always prepared for anal! I eat well most days, exercise, take my necessary vitamins, have wonderful skin treatments that I do at home, etc. All this makes me always ready for "battle." Prepping for anal scenes is so much more than body, it’s mental preparation. Nothing is worse than to hear wannabe pornstars say they hate anal but do it for the money, to which I say, let me know her name so I never work with her; if you are only doing this job for the money, you will be miserable.
Is every female orgasm fake in porn or does the camera catch some real ones now and then too?
Bridgette: Women aren't built like men; our orgasms are, for the most part, internal. The way to see it is if you see the wetness, am I right? That’s not to say that every female is built the same way. Some squirt all the time, some squirt just by being looked at a certain way (man, are they lucky), others have never had an orgasm in their life. None of these is wrong, none is bad, they are just built differently internally. Porn should be looked at as exactly what it is: entertainment. Should it matter if it's real or fake? At the end of the day, look at it as a fantasy world into which you are lucky to be invited. As for the rest? Leave it up to us!
Porn should be looked at as exactly what it is: entertainment. Should it matter if it's real or fake? At the end of the day, look at it as a fantasy world into which you are lucky to be invited.
Isiah answered his questions by video. Check it out below!
Next up, we have Small Hands, a star who’s always recognizable by his many tattoos. He’s won numerous awards including Male Performer of the Year from both XBIZ and AVN, even winning it at AVN two years in a row. Readers had some interesting questions for Small Hands, including the most obvious one …
Why did you choose the name “Small Hands?”
Small Hands: I wanted to set the bar low for expectations, so "Big Hands" seemed a bit too cocky. Also, I genuinely have small hands and small feet, which makes most people assume that you also have a small d*ck. I don't.
What is your favorite kind of role-play to act out in your scenes?
Small Hands: I'm kind of a pleaser, so whatever the girl is into, I'm into. If I HAD to pick, I love role-playing a "romantic boyfriend," which may surprise some people!
Does having sex that much ever get old?
Small Hands: It hasn’t yet!
When did you get your first tattoo? Which one is it?
Small Hands: I got my entire chest tattooed when I was 18. It says "Rock n Roll, Heart n Soul," with two barber shop straight razors crossed and a crown.
What tricks do you use to get more sensations in a blow job?
Small Hands: I have never given a blowjob so I have no idea .... if I'm receiving one I love good eye contact!
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